Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[Sexy_Singer]

Ok, despite not liking to deal with the stress of talking to Expedia customer service, I got my airline credit applied and have my Christmas in Hawaii flight booked!

Awesome!

 

[Strixaluco]

I like that thought.
Yes I have my feet up and I had a bag of frozen veg against it a while ago.
Feeling guilty for being still when I'm usually busy but hopefully it's just one day

It's not just a thought, it's biology! Serotonin levels go down when ill or injured -> feeling like not really doing anything. That's even how we usually recognise dogs are not well, they appear depressed.

It eases once it starts getting better. Though being a lot on your feet isn't a good idea for a while.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

It's not just a thought, it's biology! Serotonin levels go down when ill or injured -> feeling like not really doing anything. That's even how we usually recognise dogs are not well, they appear depressed.

It eases once it starts getting better. Though being a lot on your feet isn't a good idea for a while.

Ah that makes a lot of sense. When I'm having a depressive episode this is how I feel

 

[Strixaluco]

Ah that makes a lot of sense. When I'm having a depressive episode this is how I feel

I always get short of dopamine, too, so I really loose my initiative etc when depressed.

Then again I may be out of dopamine even without depression. Very, very unpractical in the daily life, not to talk about trying to work.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I always get short of dopamine, too, so I really loose my initiative etc when depressed.

Then again I may be out of dopamine even without depression. Very, very unpractical in the daily life, not to talk about trying to work.

I understand that. Motivation is not something I naturally have. Often feels like getting things done is like swimming against the current. I can do it but it takes a lot out of me

 

[Strixaluco]

I understand that. Motivation is not something I naturally have. Often feels like getting things done is like swimming against the current. I can do it but it takes a lot out of me

It often takes a lot (of time, too) to even get myself up. Any transition is hard. Concentration too.

 

[Deadbed1968]

Oh no, I’m sorry to hear that. Is the pain management not going well?

Thank you so much for asking

The pain is fine. The medication is keeping it to the level of an annoyance.

I’m feeling run down and a little nauseous. I’m getting more sleep than normal but it’s not really helping. I’m sure it’s my body repairing itself, but ugh!

 

[badjanus]

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[cascadiabound]

Mornings are my caffeine time... Around 7am, 2pm at the latest.
Now, I've never been diagnosed A. D. D., But I'm wondering since caffeine makes me sleepy, if I'm a little bit A.D.D....
without the caffeine, I'm even extra tired. It's a viscous cycle
I do have sleep apnea, and refuse the machine needed...

Probably having untreated sleep apnea is the major cause of your sleepiness. Untreated sleep apnea will shorten your life and make you at increased risk for other chronic disorders such as headaches, motor vehicle accidents, depression, high blood pressure and heart disease.
Please reconsider forgoing treatment

 

[badjanus]

Good afternoon all, As it is tea time in the UofK I have brought you some birthday cake to my favourite thread.
I also have Shloer in the glasses - you may need to translate that, it's fizzy grape juice. A must for every Christmas as a child!

Enjoy!

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Good afternoon all, As it is tea time in the UofK I have brought you some birthday cake to my favourite thread.
I also have Shloer in the glasses - you may need to translate that, it's fizzy grape juice. A must for every Christmas as a child!

Enjoy!

Haven't had shloer in years. Thanks very much

 

[Ingenue844]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
I said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
I said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

I'm so sorry for you and your friend. If its any comfort she will have been glad of your support and encouragement. Please be kind to yourself

 

[Deadbed1968]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
I said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

You did say something meaningful! You built her up, and showed her that you had confidence in her!

 

[IttyBittyLulu]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
I said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

Ingenue884,

My deepest condolences
I don’t think it was stupid at all. The complete opposite. It was meaningful in my humble opinion.You were giving amazing support to a friend in need. That to me says many great things about you. My heart goes out to you and your friends family

 

[13Fantasies]

Been there. It's never easy.

At least you got to say something. Not everyone gets that. Cherish the memories and the positive comment you gave

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
I said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

I'm so sorry... Thinking about our last words to loved ones is so normal.. having people pass away suddenly is never easy to grieve..
Don't be surprised if you're numb, as your still processing this...
Again, I'm very sorry

 

[badjanus]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
ErcqI said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

My tuppence,
You are a good friend to her. She needed your strength and support and you gave it to her when she needed it most.
Surgery isn't straightforward and she would have had that explained to her and she still chose that option. You backed her up - the best of friends do that.

Take time and grieve, remember those memories and share them when appropriate with her daughter.

J

 

[Sexy_Singer]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
I said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

Words can never truly bring complete comfort. A listening ear, lots of hugs and a caring heart are what we can offer to help bring you comfort and solace. ❤

 

[Strixaluco]

@Ingenue844 So sorry you lost a friend.

You were supportive - that's far from trivial. You didn't expect her to die, after all!

And you words were far better than mine to my late husband. I didn't expect him to die yet, either. I assumed I'd get him back after they treat him.

 

[cascadiabound]

@Ingenue844
Oh Nui - I am so very sorry for your loss.
You showed up for your friend and your words of support and reassurance says everything about how much you love her. She knew that in her soul

Hold her daughter in love and keep her memory alive by sharing stories of her.

Hugs

 

[Ingenue844]

Thank you everyone.

 

[Mrtenant]

GRAND OPENING MrTenants Tavern & Dungeon...also known as the T&D or MrT's
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This Friday, and this Friday only,
March 17th 2023
10amCST - 11:59pmCST
Announcing
St.Paddy's Day
Green Lingerie Contest

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• Your entry- Wear your green lingerie. (if you don't have green lingerie, wear something with green in it, ribbon, towel, stockings, eye shadow)​
• Post a pic of you wearing it in the thread linked above ​
• Tag the judges in your entry​
• Judges are
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• Lastly for your entry- Text something, a quote, haiku, something sexy, world peace, just something in your entry. ​
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Enter on this thread>>> MrT's Tavern and Dungeon
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You will be given points for entering, wearing green, and your text.
Composition is everything.
IMPORTANT: If you do not see like reactions from the judges, send them a DM to acknowledge your entry.

You do not have to show faces. Do your best. Have fun.

St.Paddy's Day Green Lingerie Contest

There will be 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place winners all of which will receive a Prized Custom Digital Plaque you may add to your signature or stash in your inbox as you choose. 1st place winner also gets the keys to the bar for a week and their nic placed in the title.

Drinks will be served and music played. Come join the fun.

Winners announced by Sunday, March 19th, 2023. Prizes given on Sunday

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[BiBunny]

Do you ever see a number pop up on your phone and you just know what the call is?

My friend had surgery yesterday. And then passed away during the night. I knew when I saw her daughter’s name pop up right now.

I lied to my friend.
I told her she’d be ok.
I said, “You got this!”
Why were my last words to her so fucking stupid!? I should’ve said something…meaningful.

I'm so sorry to hear that.

Take as much time as you need to process everything and grieve. We're all here for you.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I have a sippy cup and your favorite fluffy slippers!

Do you know @SnowIris?

Please, come in and say hello to everyone and introduce yourself. This is a safe place for Daddy's girls and I'm a bit protective of my friends.