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Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

Since I was scrolling through our Second Edition, I came across this and feel it needs to be dusted off.

Thank you, @cascadiabound!

Post in thread 'Daddy's Little Girl: Second Edition' https://forum.literotica.com/threads/daddys-little-girl-second-edition.1481549/post-90308042


Long Distance Tips from a submissive
See each other, and talk, as often as possible
Hearing, and seeing each other, as often as possible is the number one way to feel connected to one another long distance.Try to find little times to connect, even if it’s not a time when you can give your full attention. Talk while you are driving or grocery shopping. For my Dom and I our time differences, and schedules, make finding time to give each other 100% attention hard for us. My Daddy sometimes turns on ‘Daddy TV’ for me, allowing me to watch him on cam while he is working. We mute the sound and chat via text, but being able to see him is a very calming experience for me, and it certainly helps this needy sub feel connected.

Text when you can’t talk
Having your camera on, or headphones in, isn’t always practical, but communicating through text chat is often a more manageable way to keep in contact throughout the day. Don’t underestimate the power of a message that says “Just wanted you to know I’m thinking of you’’.

Have a cam ’date’
Order the same takeout (Chinese food, pizza, etc.), and pop on the same Netflix show/movie while you cam together.

Keep a panty catalog
Both my Dom and I love when he chooses my panties. I, like most women I know, own more panties than he is able to keep track of without help. What I did was create an album for him, a picture of me in each pair, and a corresponding number, so that all he needs to do is glance at the album and leave me a number to let me know which he chose for the day. This works great with lingerie too.

Send Voice Messages
There is a great service on Vocaroo.com that requires no sign up. You can record voice messages for each other so that you have something to listen to at time you will not be able to communicate via voice/cam.

Send pictures and videos as often as possible
A silly morning selfie, or a video recording, can go a long way toward making you feel connected. Google drive is a great way to organize these and control who can view/download the videos and images. (However these methods are not hack-proof and you should always be discreet and completely trust and vet anyone you share sexy/revealing content with.)

Don’t make every communication about sex
Things don’t need to be sexy all the time. Have a cam session where you just talk. Ask about your partner’s day. Time on voice/cam is often limited in LDRs but that doesn’t mean every opportunity needs to be used for something sexy. Those sexy times will feel so much more special when you’ve fostered a real connection.

Share a to-do list
Google keep is a great app that lets you share a to-do list, so you can check tasks/chores off, and your Dom can see what has been completed at any given moment. It also allows either party to add or remove tasks at any time.

Share your playlists
The days of mixed tapes are over, but listening to the same song (preferably at the same time) is a great way to feel connected to another person. Shared experiences have a way of uniting us that is very powerful, and music has a draw all it’s own.

Don’t hide your bad days
LDRs are, after all, just relationships. Don’t impose on yourself the need to always come off as happy and put together. I’ve had calls where I’ve done little more than cry while my Dom listens and attempts to just be there for me. When another person can’t read your body language you need to make a greater effort to communicate what your feeling. Tell them if you feel sad, or frustrated, or angry. If you know that you’ll have trouble with this I’ve heard some people establish emojis or code-words ahead of time that they can use to communicate a mood when they can’t find the words.

Send a good-morning and goodnight message
This is an important practice, especially for people in different time zones. Let them know you are thinking of them when you wake. Tuck-in is a very reassuring ritual for submissives (especially littles) and these simple messages can go a long way toward reassuring both Dom and sub that they are thought of, and missed.

Have a comfort object
It’s my intention to write something more extensive about aftercare in a LDR later on, but a great place to start is with a comfort object. It can be a stuffy, a blanket, or a sweatshirt that smells like your partner; anything that reminds you of them. Create good associations by keeping the item close by while you are talking and enjoying yourselves, this will make the object more comforting when you’re feeling down.

Cut yourself some slack
Some days will be difficult. You’ll miss connecting because of busy schedules or bad luck. It’s easy to feel neglected and unimportant, but try to keep perspective. Remember and appreciate the effort that your partner puts into your relationship and try to cut them, and yourself, some slack.

written by @Pleasurewhore
 
It actually speeds the reading BFG…. Was not a complaint. Just reminded me that things change.
 
You see, I'm not the kind of little that you'd easily recognise as one. No glitter, no childish or even teenish clothes, my crafts are of very adult style etc.

But if you'd spot me at certain occasions, you might guess. Wading through autumn leaves. Or jumping into a pile of them. It's harder to spot me pouting, or talking a bit childish - more likely to hear me being onomatopoetic instead of using words to express myself...

But usually if not alone with my partner, I force myself to mask and behave, or at least communicate like an adult. And I didn't have that kind of company when I found out about being a little. But the memes spoke to me.
 
Very true @Strixaluco there has been a lot I’ve picked up from the active links, but it’s hard to tell dead from alive on those links. The newer thread I check them, but it’s too hit or miss on the older ones.
 
To me, being a Little is not about age regression, or childish behavior. I’m not one for glitter, children’s books, and coloring (though I do enjoy paint by numbers, thanks to my mom). Being Little to me is about deferring to his leadership, and trusting him to know what is best for me.
Some might say that we are just D/s, but they don’t understand the history behind us, and the mental healing process from my last relationship. I am most definitely his Little, as he is raising me to be the woman I was meant to be but never had the opportunity to become. I look up to him as a father figure, not just as a husband and lover. Being a Little is a relatively recent development in our marriage, and it has been transformative.
Few people know the details of our relationship, just a few close friends, mainly other DD/lg couples.
When we are out, few would suspect. Even our vanilla friends just think he’s an Alpha and I’m his smitten wife. Only others in the lifestyle are likely to pick up on the clues. (Well, there was that time in Amsterdam when he paraded me around on a leash in the Red Light district) When we’re alone, or at least out of earshot, it’s a different matter.
If you’re interested in getting a peek behind the curtain, you can read “When Bunny found her Wolfie” by Sofia LaFrench. That’s my author nome de plume.
 
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