Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

[barefootgirl69]

My first of what will likely be a lot of questions.... Is it unusual for a Daddy to interact with the littles on the threads? Not in his role as a Daddy, but rather just banter or partaking in coloring in the pillowforts? The question was posed to me and made me curious....

Everything @Strixaluco said. I'd only add that no names like "little one" or "baby girl" should be used to people you don't know or have that type of relationship with. But, chatting and being friendly in the forums is quite okay.

Oh, and hugs. That can be questionable. Some people don't mind, and then there's people like me. Hugs without knowing me as a friend aren't welcome - but, others don't mind.

 

[Littlewolf8258]

Usually they have basically disappeared from active discussions after finding their own little. And that seems like they have their priorities straight. Though many times comments from experienced Daddies could be so beneficial, regardless of their status.

I agree that hearing more from experienced Daddies could certainly be beneficial. It helps to look at things from as many perspectives as possible. Do they have their own thread, where they can discuss being a daddy? I think that would be super beneficial for newcomers looking to learn specifically about that role.

 

[Strixaluco]

Do they have their own thread, where they can discuss being a daddy? I think that would be super beneficial for newcomers looking to learn specifically about that role.

I've been thinking about this, too.

 

[kyblue12]

@barefootgirl69 i had figured out the hugs thing. Totally a consent issue there. Would not happen without permission from both the hugee and my little.

The discussion on my question has been good and I love the feedback and guidance. I may have to create a new Daddy tip thread to see if any Daddies want to help teach too.

 

[Strixaluco]

The discussion on my question has been good and I love the feedback and guidance. I may have to create a new Daddy tip thread to see if any Daddies want to help teach too.

I wish it goes well and other daddies find it!

Be prepared to also shoo away some "hungry" type people. Usernames that at least say they are women, and little, but I wouldn't trust them, they are just fishing for horny men.

They appear here too, sometimes.

 

[kyblue12]

Oh I know @Strixaluco. I’m hoping I’ll still be welcome here to appropriately participate, but the lack of Daddies here makes me think our own space might be good too.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Good morning, Dawn. I hope today is feeling better.

Yes. It is. I've had some very lengthy conversations with many here and I'm feeling better each day.

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

I've been here about a year, and in my experience, this is a thread for Littles to learn from each other and support each other. Kind of our safe space. There's not a lot of interaction with the Daddies, although we know there are a few here, kind of watching over us. Any interaction with them is always respectful, and commonly only amounts to a Like or Love on a post. I've never seen a thirsty Daddy come looking for a Little on this thread. That type of behaviour is common in BDSM Personals. Being both owned and married, I have no interest in anything other than passing interaction with the few Daddies here.

 

[kyblue12]

Totally my intention @FrenchLopBunny . I do a lot of liking of posts, especially ones I find useful as a new Daddy and would never intentionally cross boundaries. But I am new and might do it unintentionally. Corrections are very welcome if I do.

My little and I have discussed this kind of interaction, and while she wants me to be active here I’m still hesitant because it’s the littles’ space, not the Daddies’. I have so much to learn.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I'd like to see a place where daddies and littles can mingle, that's what everyone is saying right? Because our daddies don't really mingle here even though it's a place they can lurk ...

Am I understanding that that?

 

[Strixaluco]

There's not a lot of interaction with the Daddies, although we know there are a few here, kind of watching over us. Any interaction with them is always respectful, and commonly only amounts to a Like or Love on a post.

It happened more 3 years ago, when I found this thread. Haven't seen many of those members in the whole Lit for ages (I know at least some of them found their own little), and we didn't get new regulars before they disappeared, so the "chain" was disrupted.

And I'm really sorry for that for your sake,
@kyblue12 , as their company could have helped you too.

I've never seen a thirsty Daddy come looking for a Little on this thread.

I have, occasionsly. They are chased away quickly, even posts removes.

 

[kyblue12]

Ty @Strixaluco it’s a big world I’m entering and support and mentors(even as a little) are important to me.

 

[barefootgirl69]

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/the-gentle-dom-daddy.1633379/

This thread was started recently and I'm hoping to see it evolve into more discussions with DDs taking part in it.

 

[kyblue12]

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/the-gentle-dom-daddy.1633379/

This thread was started recently and I'm hoping to see it evolve into more discussions with DDs taking part in it.

I do love when someone else does my homework for me…. Lol

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

https://forum.literotica.com/threads/the-gentle-dom-daddy.1633379/

This thread was started recently and I'm hoping to see it evolve into more discussions with DDs taking part in it.

This looks very interesting. I too hope to see it evolve into something that's as active as this thread. I've seen several times where a Little here has a bad experience with a dominant. IMHO that is a risk if either the D or the s don't fully understand what they want/need or what they bring to the dynamic.

 

[Strixaluco]

Going down that rabbit hole...

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

Going down that rabbit hole...

Care for some cookies? It’s a little tight in here for two.

 

[Strixaluco]

Care for some cookies? It’s a little tight in here for two.

Oh yes please, and I brought some chocolate cake with me!

I'm digging this hole of a thread deeper...

 

[cascadiabound]

I'd like to see a place where daddies and littles can mingle, that's what everyone is saying right? Because our daddies don't really mingle here even though it's a place they can lurk ...

Am I understanding that that?

Daddy types, both attached and unattached have participated in this thread from time to time in it's various iterations (this being #4). At times those men have been regulars in the thread, at other times (like recently) they are more infrequent. Under the kind of guidelines bfg and Strix outlined above, both attached and unattached daddys are welcome here as far as I'm concerned.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Daddy types, both attached and unattached have participated in this thread from time to time in it's various iterations (this being #4). At times those men have been regulars in the thread, at other times (like recently) they are more infrequent. Under the kind of guidelines bfg and Strix outlined above, both attached and unattached daddys are welcome here as far as I'm concerned.

Okay cool. So they don't necessarily have to have their own spot! That's great.
I didn't want to speak out of turn...
Personally, I think I would feel more comfortable with my little friends among me when I'm trying to seek out that Daddy role for me until I was able to be comfortable with him to take it privately.

I hope that makes sense .... It made sense in my head...

 

[dawn_of_night]

I must be in the wrong hole ....

Mine doesn't have snacks ... But there's lots of colors and papers!!?

 

[Apisto42]

I must be in the wrong hole ....

That happens sometimes. Just make the best of it.

 

[dawn_of_night]

That happens sometimes. Just make the best of it.

How you?

 

[FrenchLopBunny]

I must be in the wrong hole ....

Mine doesn't have snacks ... But there's lots of colors and papers!!?

Maybe @Strixaluco and I need to move the party to your place! We have plenty of sweets.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Maybe @Strixaluco and I need to move the party to your place! We have plenty of sweets.

What about this one????

https://64.media.tumblr.com/fc4864b.../aa581e19e792a75e79fa7269232fca1e37a24e8f.jpg