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_Odette_ said:
Hey everyone!

I learned that this was the right dynamic for me a few years ago after lots of trial and error, trying to figure out where I belonged.

I haven't been active as a little/babygirl in a few years now, but the relationship I did have before that was what made me believe this is it for me.

I've been gradually dipping my toes back into this part of myself over the last few weeks and it feels good to not suppress it.

Thanks for the safe space here!
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Hiya Odette. Welcome to the club. 🙂
 
Ssbbw4u1974 said:
Just out of curiosity,
When did you realize that the DDlg lifestyle was your ideal space?

Share as much as you feel comfortable💜🎶💜
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I love this question!

I think I'm a bit different than many littles as I don't really have a "little" mindset: I mean, I like to play and to be cheeky and to build forts and all, but I see that as part of being able to let loose and finding joy in everyday because i need to (but maybe that is a little mindset lol). For me, DD/lg is about dynamic of nurturing and protecting that very core of who I am, where I can be completely vulnerable with someone. I am, at heart, a caretaker. I want to take care of everyone and heal them, often to the great great detriment of me, and a DD/lg relationship forces me to take care of me, and this is difficult for me, forces me to let others take care of me. It's a nurturing through D/s rather than a control of D/s (I mentioned it when asked in the other thread lol)

This is all important because it answers the question of "when" lol.

It was years ago, when my then-Dom and I decided that we part ways. After we had the difficult conversation, he--my former lover and Dom--suggested that when I'm up to it, I should look into a DD/lg relationship because he thought it could offer me something that he couldn't, even though he loved and cared for me. He told me that he could not protect my Atman, because it's in his nature to want to dominate it, that my "essence" contains a grain of purity that is untouched(we both hate that word, but it's the only one that works) that should be nurtured and protected. Anyway, it was about then that it made sense, and that's when I realized that a DD/lg is an ideal space for me, though maybe in a slightly different way. I had a beautiful DD/lg relationship, that even though ended, showed me such beautiful things.

I don't know if I made sense lol. I should prolly eat before I post lol
 
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Ssbbw4u1974 said:
Just out of curiosity,
When did you realize that the DDlg lifestyle was your ideal space?

Share as much as you feel comfortable💜🎶💜
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I think for me it’s been an ongoing process of discovery. The first time I heard about Dd/lg I had no idea that was what I was looking for. But now almost 5 years on, I’m comfortable saying that yes, I am.

I haven’t had much chance to actually explore the dynamics in a real world setting, but I’m hopeful that will change sooner rather than later, lol.

For me, the upside of that is that I’ve been able to explore a lot on my own. I have a pretty good idea of how I need to be cared for as a little and what things I do/don’t like. As we all know here, there’s no one way to be little, and no one size fits all Daddy so it’s really important to know yourself and what exactly it is you’re looking for. On both sides of the /. :rose:
 
Oh boy.. lets see if I can answer without writing a book

First off, I don't identify as a little. Maybe a middle. But honestly, I don't focus on that aspect of it. Being called a baby girl sounds pretty good though :)

i started out in the Dom lifestyle, as a sub.. and as time went on, and I learned, I felt that I wanted a Daddy Dom more than a "regular" Dom. I want someone who will care for me, nurture me, not find me to be a pest or needy, and just want to be with me. Not to say prior Dom's haven't been that, but I think its just an extra something in a Daddy.

At first, the term Daddy did freak me out, but as I've thought about it and become comfortable with it, its made its way into my mindset. I remember a few years back, talking to a Dom and my mind felt that I should call him Daddy.. he was intrigued and hadn't been that before, so tried it out and he liked it. Unfortunately, he was not a good dom... but that's another story.

Unfortunately, I have not found my Daddy yet. I've talked to a few, met one or two, but that's as far as its gotten. Hopefully one day.

The pillow fort I saw earlier in here looks awesome! Not quite what my happy space would be, but nothing wrong with that :)
 
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