"Daddy"

[KillerMuffin]

Just out of curiosity here. I'm rampant with it.

Do you think of it as a turn on to call your lover "Daddy" during sexplay? Obviously this is a male lover you'd have. If you're a guy, do find it a turn on to be called "Daddy" during sexplay?

 

[glamorilla]

oh yeah.

 

[MissTaken]

While I have done some reading on the topic etc, it does nothing for me.

I have worked with too many children, of all ages, who have been victimized by family members for me to be able to even play at an incestuous role or write an incest story.

It is a personal thing for me, not a judgement on others.

 

[Tony_Blair]

One of the members of Bush's SS detail loves to be called daddy.

Uhhh don't ask me how I know that.

 

[RisiaSkye]

One more power trip, that's all.
Why not?

I'm certainly not thinking of my father. (So *not* my type, even if I were incestuously inclined) But somebody's, perhaps. Or the Priest. Or my Profs. Or a cop. Or any other authority figure.

 

[Star of Penumbra]

Nope. Doesn't do a thing for me.

 

[JazzManJim]

I'm more or less undecided on it. If it happened more or less naturally and the moment was there, then sure, it'd be okay. It has happened to me once, and I quite enjoyed it. But it's definitely not a regular yearning of mine and I don't think it'd work all the time.

 

[curious2c]

I found out early on in our marriage that even to mention 'daddy' was a sure way to NOT have sex for several months.

Um...don't ask me how I found this out.

 

[Riles]

I know I'm not a guy but I have distinct feelings on this. When I was with my ex, I got weired out when somebody called him "daddy" in relation to our "kids" (pets). And god forbid if any man EVER came out with that "Who's your daaaaaaaddy?" comment in bed!

 

[KillerMuffin]

I have to admit that I like to play the "Daddy" games every once in a while. I'm not into a steady diet of anything but chocolate, so variety makes my world spin 'round.

I think it's fun to put on the cliched catholic schoolgirl outfit and pretend to be so prim and proper on the outside and then seduce my "Daddy" when he's not expecting it.

I've never had any sexual inclinations toward my own father. I never called him "Daddy" either. However, the roleplay is fascinating, I think. It's wallowing in the utter taboo without actually having to do something disgusting and break the real taboo.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

would disturb me and my partner.. I've already had people mistake me for his daughter.. thats bad enough.

 

[JazzManJim]

I have to admit that I like to play the "Daddy" games every once in a while.

 

[Monazwx]

would disturb me and my partner.. I've already had people mistake me for his daughter.. thats bad enough.

That term for anyone else but my father makes me cringe.

 

[Pixie Mischief]

been called Ma'am in bed thought lol whatever that was meaning

 

[MissTaken]

One more power trip, that's all.
Why not?

I'm certainly not thinking of my father. (So *not* my type, even if I were incestuously inclined) But somebody's, perhaps. Or the Priest. Or my Profs. Or a cop. Or any other authority figure.

That is exactly why my post says it is my own baggage that prevents me.

As you know, I rather enjoy power exchange.

It happened once with me and that is when I read about it and discussed the issue ad nauseum. It just didn't sit well due to my occupation.

 

[Riles]

I should probably tack on that anything he'd want to do behind the privacy of our bedroom door is open for discussion. And "roleplay" - no matter what role I'm in, is often accompanied by a lot of loving and laughter. It just so happens that "daddy" has never been on the tip of my tongue during moments of passion.

 

[lilminx]

One more power trip, that's all.
Why not?

I'm certainly not thinking of my father. (So *not* my type, even if I were incestuously inclined) But somebody's, perhaps. Or the Priest. Or my Profs. Or a cop. Or any other authority figure.

That's how I feel. It's not a familial term for me during sexplay; it's more like power play.

 

[k¡tty]

I think far too many people make the mistake of assuming that calling someone "Daddy" during sexual play, means that you, or he, are lusting after a family member in an incestuous manner.

Personally for me, it's more about control, dominance and authoritive figures. Maybe even as a sugar daddy scenerio.

This is a hard subject for me to come out and admit that I enjoy this roleplay from time to time.. I did so once and spent over an hour defending and explaining. I felt attacked and embarrassed. I've come to realize that we all have a certain kink that other's might find offensive or strange.

However it isn't a roleplay that I want to play often or it may lose what appeal it holds for me.

 

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[JadeEyes]

I think far too many people make the mistake of assuming that calling someone "Daddy" during sexual play, means that you, or he, are lusting after a family member in an incestuous manner.

Personally for me, it's more about control, dominance and authoritive figures.

I agree with what kitty said. I don't play that "game" often, but it can be very fun. I used to speak with someone on the phone regularly who absolutely loved it when I called him "Daddy." It heightened the play quite considerably. It's a power and control thing with me.

I've also been known to use it as a term of endearment when trying to get my way with my SO. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn't.

I will note here that I was not raised by my real father, so there are no paternal feelings towards the word for me. I've always called both my stepfather and real father by their first names.

 

[HeavyStick]

Depends on the mood I'm in.

 

[Earthmuffin]

Heyyyyyy KM!

Long time - no? Glad to see your rampant curiosity is still presently present!

Of all the things that have come up in my life the "Daddy" game isn't one. I'm o.k. with that.

 

[James G 5]

Has daddy's girl been a bad girl?
Across daddy's knee, naughty one

 

[P. B. Walker]

I just can't imagine KM saying "daddy" lol.

But I voted yes for ya anyhoo...



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