Instant Turn Off Words or Phrases

[Anon_shy]

I hate "down there." It just feels like the Christian mom is some terrible movie.

That's where I struggle to describe it, I never liked 'pussy' or similar names, always seem kind of cringey. To be honest I never actually talk about it in a sexual way in real life, often in a cute or fun way, but then it's my foof , Definitely not a turn on term I think. That's how I ended up using down there or front in my texts and writeups, definitely my own wierd problem!

 

[Dearelliot]

Generally speaking, the word hot for sexually excited, anything to do with high School or college dorms, I dislike the word Pussy! Any over the top description of how beautiful a woman is. Any descriptive name for a penis, "His rod, love wand, etc. The word jism, for semen. I love the word Cunt.

 

[1darknightowl]

I love the word Cunt.

I hate the word Cunt. Always feels derogatory.

 

[SmokingFap]

Ooooh stop it... You're turning me on with all that mountainous terrain and angel talk. Just imagining my man screaming this out to me in the throes of passion

Well, your screen name is Make Me Wet As Fuck, so you're welcome.

 

[devakama469]

I absolutely agree with the other poster on this one. Folks, there was only one Shakespeare, and you ain't him. If you're saying that a woman's tits rival a majestic sunrise over the Andes mountains and make the angels weep with jealousy, you're going a little too far. That may be more hyperbole than overly descriptive or flowery, but hopefully you get my drift.

OKOK, gotcha!

I can be quite descriptive and detailed when I write about something I'm passionate about, but definitely not flowery like *that* If anything, I've been told I'm quite raunchy when it comes to talking about sex, so definitely not attempting to compete against Shakespeare on that one

 

[SmokingFap]

OKOK, gotcha!

I can be quite descriptive and detailed when I write about something I'm passionate about, but definitely not flowery like *that* If anything, I've been told I'm quite raunchy when it comes to talking about sex, so definitely not attempting to compete against Shakespeare on that one

Descriptive and detailed is great. People just need to stick to plain, modern English, not 19th century Victorian English. And folks, you don't have to prove how "voluminous" your "lexicon" is by using every five-syllable word you've ever heard.

 

[SmokingFap]

Descriptive and detailed is great. People just need to stick to plain, modern English, not 19th century Victorian English. And folks, you don't have to prove how "voluminous" your "lexicon" is by using every five-syllable word you've ever heard.

And yes, I know lexicon has fewer syllables than vocabulary, but again, you get my drift.

 

[SmokingFap]

Also also, just using the most common word for something works, even if you don't think it's exciting enough. Just saying "labia" or "pussy lips" is fine if the rest of your storytelling is interesting and evocative. I don't know anyone who actually gets aroused by the term "meat curtains".

 

[devakama469]

Also also, just using the most common word for something works, even if you don't think it's exciting enough. Just saying "labia" or "pussy lips" is fine if the rest of your storytelling is interesting and evocative. I don't know anyone who actually gets aroused by the term "meat curtains".

"meat curtains"?! What in the actual fuck?! Does anyone really resort to terms like that in an attempt to sound in some way sophisticated?

When I'm writing something erotic and I've already said the word "pussy" five times, I do fear I may start to sound a bit crass if I repeat it sixth time… but I'll say it ten times more before resorting to "meat curtains" or anything even remotely similar!

 

[milkyboxer]

I'm always happy to reply to guys and sometimes have a bit of fun in the chats, but I feel I need to give people a fair warning of some things that instantly turn me off from replying or continuing, it's personal preference obviously. Feel free to share your own...

'Daddy/baby' talk, sorry, I love dom/sub dynamics, but I'm not a baby and and I have no interest in my daddy .

'Suckle', for some reason that word makes me squirm in a bad way, baby's suckle, men bite (gently)

'bitch' is a strange one, really context driven, if the tone sounds aggressive then nope for me, if it's used as part of a descriptive phrase of some sort, then usually OK.

Overly descriptive, flowery text. Some people love it, it can be nicely done in small doses, but generally not for me. I'm not the kind of girl who likes receiving flowers, so it fits my personality.

Eeehhhhhhhhhhhhhh. ‘suckle’ is of course divine for anr/abf enthusiasts

 

[SmokingFap]

"meat curtains"?! What in the actual fuck?! Does anyone really resort to terms like that in an attempt to sound in some way sophisticated?

When I'm writing something erotic and I've already said the word "pussy" five times, I do fear I may start to sound a bit crass if I repeat it sixth time… but I'll say it ten times more before resorting to "meat curtains" or anything even remotely similar!

"Pussy" does work just fine most of the time, but there are plenty of other words to name it. I like cunt in the right situation. If anyone is offended when I use that word, they can just punch themselves in the cunt. And I think vagina is perfectly suitable. I don't use "kitty", because I'm a guy. And I don't use "meat curtains", because I'm not a lonely desperate neanderthal.

I do hate the use of "sex" to describe a vagina. "The man placed his 11-inch, throbbing, fleshy divining rod at the weeping entrance of her sex."

I hate myself for just typing that sentence.

 

[MightyMilly]

I dont like being called 'babe', there is no reason for it, I just dont like it, call me slut or worse, but not babe, please.

 

[SophiaQ]

Once 'cunt' enters the conversation, I'm turned off. And when a DM starts off with a 'hey babygirl' or similar, it doesn't immediately kill it for me, but the conversation is tainted.

I'll add the word 'whore' to this. When it is used in conversations in reference to me, it implies that I'm somehow paid to perform sex acts, like prostitute. Not the case, and using the word when referring to me is a definite turn-off. I like sex. I may be a slut but I'm not whore or prostitute.

 

[devakama469]

I'll add the word 'whore' to this. When it is used in conversations in reference to me, it implies that I'm somehow paid to perform sex acts, like prostitute. Not the case, and using the word when referring to me is a definite turn-off. I like sex. I may be a slut but I'm not whore or prostitute.

Even though I love some good dirty talking, I wholeheartedly understand that, first of all, every single word you say has to be *earned* through hard work and trust, they can never be taken for granted!

Secondarily, every single one of those words has a time and a place, and the fact that they're appreciated in one situation does not necessarily mean they're appreciated in another situation, so knowing your partner well is more than critical for any of those conversations to be productive and enjoyable, which takes me back to my first point.

And thirdly, at the end of the day, we all have our tastes and quirks, and the fact that we may like one thing, no matter how much, does not imply that the other person shares that taste, so we always have to be very mindful and respectful of our differences. For me, for example, any word used during dirty talking, no matter how dirty, has to be very clearly meant as a compliment, never derogatory or even pretend-derogatory, because that's something I simply don't enjoy (for example, my significant-other being a slut, that's something I consider very arousing and therefore a high compliment), so I very well understand what you mean by disliking the word "whore" because of the connotation you attribute to it.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Dick,
If you call it a dick..I'm going to assume you're under age!! No thank you!

It's a COCK!!

 

[kinkincguy]

Dick,
If you call it a dick..I'm going to assume you're under age!! No thank you!

It's a COCK!!

Definitely don’t call it your peepee

 

[RubyNRock]

I really don’t like it when men say things such as ‘I’m going to shoot my muck up you’ and (as one man recently said to me in chat) ‘I’m gonna fuck you so fucking hard you’ll need a wheelchair for days’ - he didn’t even introduce himself, and he clearly thought that sounded pleasurable.

 

[Britva415]

Does anyone really resort to terms like that in an attempt to sound in some way sophisticated?

Not in an attempt to sound sophisticated, no.

Does anyone really use terms like that? Yes, but it can’t possibly be due to an attempt to sound sophisticated.

 

[Oshkosh60]

Exquisite

Superb


I feel like the person using these two are overreaching in an attempt to impress someone with their vocabulary, or they just enjoy sounding like a stoner from the late 1970's trying to describe the last blunt they smoked.

Upon reflection, I am happy when people use these words. It tells me everything I need to know.

 

[EMPTYSTAR]

This is 100% a fun thread to read lmao

 

[UKSilverFox]

I agree with lots of the comments people have contributed. I think in my limited time on here I have found that once you have progressed, with a chat or role play partner, it doesn't matter so much what you use. You can always be gently corrected and recentre. Sometimes things that you or your established partner thought they didn't want to hear or expect, just hit the spot, for that moment in time, maybe never to be repeated. But, in the heat of the moment, blurting out something for dramatic effect with somebody you have not built empathy with, is just asking for trouble. But hey I am a simple man who lets his excitement take over sometimes, so I try, but I guess I will still find myself doing it, let me get the apology out there now.

(By teh weigh you cna alwayys tell I am too invested in the play beecuase my tye ping goes to sh..... Sorry can't say that word it turns people off apparently and with my limitations, I can't afford to restrict my pool of potential future partners any further. )

 

[TwinkleStars]

You owe a lot in back taxes.

 

[devakama469]

Not in an attempt to sound sophisticated, no.

Does anyone really use terms like that? Yes, but it can’t possibly be due to an attempt to sound sophisticated.

If it is, the very least that can be said about it is that it's *sorely* misguided!

 

[strongnsensual]

"meat curtains"?! What in the actual fuck?! Does anyone really resort to terms like that in an attempt to sound in some way sophisticated?

When I'm writing something erotic and I've already said the word "pussy" five times, I do fear I may start to sound a bit crass if I repeat it sixth time… but I'll say it ten times more before resorting to "meat curtains" or anything even remotely similar!

Which is part of what makes this so funny!

 

[strongnsensual]

Even though I love some good dirty talking, I wholeheartedly understand that, first of all, every single word you say has to be *earned* through hard work and trust, they can never be taken for granted!

To me, this is precisely the point of using some the words a lot of people in this thread are saying they don't like, such as 'cunt' or 'whore.' It drives home that everyone involved is so turned on that they inhibitions are down, overwhelmed by desire. The sunbeams of arousal have fed the flowery crop of their lust garden, and they can no longer maintain the thin shell of decorum we all cover ourselves with while wishing that we could could shed our petty concerns and cavort like satyrs and nymphs in the midsummer garden of wee wees mucking in her sex.



Gad, that is horrible.

But really, that's a big part of the point of some of these terms. Fuck it, I'm so horny and aroused I'm just gonna say things I never would in any other circumstances. Might not make sense to all, but nothing is a turn on for everyone.

Personally, anything involving a man and his daughter - hell no. Horrible. An adult woman calling a man 'daddy?' somewhere between okay and really hot. But actual father/daughter, just anathema.

And all this 'oh my white wife wants black men because they are black men' stuff. Just no. If that's your thing fine, but it's sure as hell not mine.

All in all, this is the funniest dang thread I've read in a while.