Curious?

[irishgrl4u]

So I am somewhat curious about being with a woman. I have always fantasized about it but have no idea how to go about making it into reality. I know its normal for girls to have those fantasys or atleast it seems it. But how many actually suceed in having them live out. Any suggestions?

 

[southernsara]

I don't really have suggestions but I wanted to say that you are not alone! I always wonder, when I'm out with a group of girlfriends, how many of us are thinking the same thing.

 

[DormantEvil]

Been there, still am there, will be there for a while longer.

Sometimes it would be good to just talk to someone who lives near enough to organize a meet but far enough away not to make it uncomfortable if it didn't work out. Then experiment away!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Ladies, I suggest fetlife dot com. It's like facebook, for adult purposes. You can find out who's in your area, looking for what.

I hardly need to say that you should NOT use your real name untill you are sure you actually want to meet up with the people you've been talking to, right?

 

[irishgrl4u]

haha i wonder that too when I am out with my friends. I guess it's on a lot of peoples minds! I'll check into that website thanks!

 

[blade_rocknut]

So I am somewhat curious about being with a woman. I have always fantasized about it but have no idea how to go about making it into reality. I know its normal for girls to have those fantasys or atleast it seems it. But how many actually suceed in having them live out. Any suggestions?

My wife was ripe with bi-desire for quite a while before she got to act on it- with a "friend". It was a great experience, (I was there, as well as "friend's hubby) and they got together another time also. My wife wanted more, "friend" got too insecure about her sexuality and claimed she only did it for the guys Whatever- I was there. She wasn't thinking about it I guess while my wife was burrowing her face in her! They don't get along anymore ( turns out, insecurity is an awful thing to hafta deal with)- but my wife would really love another experience with someone. She just doesn't know how to make it happen, and doesn't want sex to interfere with any friendships. (she has another friend who has done many things in the past)

 

[irishgrl4u]

My wife was ripe with bi-desire for quite a while before she got to act on it- with a "friend". It was a great experience, (I was there, as well as "friend's hubby) and they got together another time also. My wife wanted more, "friend" got too insecure about her sexuality and claimed she only did it for the guys Whatever- I was there. She wasn't thinking about it I guess while my wife was burrowing her face in her! They don't get along anymore ( turns out, insecurity is an awful thing to hafta deal with)- but my wife would really love another experience with someone. She just doesn't know how to make it happen, and doesn't want sex to interfere with any friendships. (she has another friend who has done many things in the past)

How did she go about asking this friend. was it an actual friend or someone she randomly met or just a small acquintance?

 

[blade_rocknut]

It was a friend of hers, who turned out to be too immature to handle all the feelings Much innuendo has exchanged for quite a while, then one night (while I bartended) around a campfire, inhibitions came down while passsions ran high It was great while it lasted, they did it one other time a little less drunk, that was even better ( plus there were toys and a hot tub) The friend started questioning her sexuality too much, and didn,t want to admit she liked girls Now my wife is torn over whether or not to do anything with a friend- she isn't comfortable with a stranger either

 

[backyardbbq]

So I am somewhat curious about being with a woman. I have always fantasized about it but have no idea how to go about making it into reality. I know its normal for girls to have those fantasys or atleast it seems it. But how many actually suceed in having them live out. Any suggestions?

You basically just quoted what my wife has been saying although her's is a little more "we will never actually find anyone so why get too excited about it"