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Vitriolhack said:
Some guys want to be made a sissy who dress up for the Bull who will fuck their wife. If the couple is ok with it, that’s fine.

If you want to have a more swinger approach to it, that’s fine also.

Don’t worry so much about labels, as long as all participants are willing adults and derive gratification from their experiences, that’s ok.

;)
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It sounds so fun, and impossible!
 
drobert44 said:
Finding a kinky dame.......
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Yep, have found many women online that say finding a girl interested in this would be the simplest thing ever.

Out in the real world, nah. But then I'd always priorities other factors first - perfection is too difficult to achieve. What is it they say, an angel in the kitchen, a whore in the bedroom, or something like that. Except nowadays it's a successful career woman that also makes up the full package...
 
DevilInDetail said:
Yep, have found many women online that say finding a girl interested in this would be the simplest thing ever.

Out in the real world, nah. But then I'd always priorities other factors first - perfection is too difficult to achieve. What is it they say, an angel in the kitchen, a whore in the bedroom, or something like that. Except nowadays it's a successful career woman that also makes up the full package...
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Or, dont make the perfect the enemy of the good.
 
Husband typing.. As another poster said, all cuckolds endure some humiliation by virtue of watching another man plow his wife. It takes a certain type of male to allow (and often encourage!) that to happen, certainly someone less male than a *man*.

Humiliation is a key element for me. The bull besting the husband and taking the wife as his trophy. The bull relishing and basking in the wife's attentions while the now-cuckold is sidelined as a man and directed as a servant.

Over time, the wife starts respecting the bull more and becomes fond of him while looking down at her cuckold. And why shouldn't she, when the cuckold has failed at the single most important act that defines a man: ducking. Sure there remains love and compassion and concern between wife and cuckold but she'll treat him as the pantywaist he's become.

This could be subtle or graphic. When the bull visits and the wife helps him out of his jacket in the foyer and holds it out towards her cuckold, thats a subtle humiliation.

When she slides her panties off from underneath her dress and throws them into her cuckold's lap while he is chauffeuring her to her bull's flat is less subtle.

And its blatant, in-your-face humiliation when she pulls her cuckold face tight against her messy pussy while she lies back in post-coital bliss and kisses with her bull. Oh, his chuckle!

Humiliation is so effective at enhancing and displaying the power exchange that is essential to a cuckolding relationship.

Just my thoughts. Now having a wife and a bull that are on the same wavelength, thats harder!
 
impotenthub_N_milf said:
Husband typing.. As another poster said, all cuckolds endure some humiliation by virtue of watching another man plow his wife. It takes a certain type of male to allow (and often encourage!) that to happen, certainly someone less male than a *man*.

Humiliation is a key element for me. The bull besting the husband and taking the wife as his trophy. The bull relishing and basking in the wife's attentions while the now-cuckold is sidelined as a man and directed as a servant.

Over time, the wife starts respecting the bull more and becomes fond of him while looking down at her cuckold. And why shouldn't she, when the cuckold has failed at the single most important act that defines a man: ducking. Sure there remains love and compassion and concern between wife and cuckold but she'll treat him as the pantywaist he's become.

This could be subtle or graphic. When the bull visits and the wife helps him out of his jacket in the foyer and holds it out towards her cuckold, thats a subtle humiliation.

When she slides her panties off from underneath her dress and throws them into her cuckold's lap while he is chauffeuring her to her bull's flat is less subtle.

And its blatant, in-your-face humiliation when she pulls her cuckold face tight against her messy pussy while she lies back in post-coital bliss and kisses with her bull. Oh, his chuckle!

Humiliation is so effective at enhancing and displaying the power exchange that is essential to a cuckolding relationship.

Just my thoughts. Now having a wife and a bull that are on the same wavelength, thats harder!
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I got a CD pal who is cucked by hotwife, loves it! My cock twitching!



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I think I mostly agree with the take a couple of posts before me. I think cuckolding by nature involves humiliation, but there are varying degrees and approaches to that humiliation. On the extreme end, there is direct down talking and degradation and even though that seems to be depicted quite a bit online, from the people that I've talked to, it seems to be the most rare in actual practice.

For my wife and me, it comes more in the form of teasing rather than outright degradation and they are things that we discovered over time. For example, my wife is at Coachella this weekend with a guy that she's been talking to. I paid for the tickets, the airbnb, even rented a nice car for them. Now, this isn't something where the guy is making me pay for it or my wife is making me pay for it. At no point did either of them make me feel inferior or beta for the fact that I was spending money for them to have fun. I certainly don't feel humiliated by it. Quite the opposite, I find it thrilling and fulfilling. However, from the outside looking in, I think anyone would probably consider that a bit heavy humiliating act.

My wife is also a size queen. I'm average, and I never had any hang-ups about my size. But when I started to see the size of the cocks that my wife would enjoy, it certainly became fun to start comparing myself to them. I started to enjoy hearing my wife talk about certain positions that she enjoyed more with other guys because of their size, or even the overall feeling of getting fucked by a bigger cock. My wife never complained about my size and seemed satisfied enough but I will admit that it was exhilarating the day that I finally got her to admit that she wouldn't mind me being just a little bit bigger. Again, I didn't necessarily feel humiliated by that nor do I feel inadequate, nor does my wife point it out or belittle me because of my size. But of course they're certainly is that aspect that lingers in the background. It's not overt, but it's certainly implied.
 
Dave60ga said:
My ex suddenly decided I should try wearing panties. she found it humorous. I loved it. And yes, the humiliation of it was a turn on. Sadly, it never went much further.
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Thank you for sharing, how much further would you want it to go? 😉
 
JR284 said:
I think I mostly agree with the take a couple of posts before me. I think cuckolding by nature involves humiliation, but there are varying degrees and approaches to that humiliation. On the extreme end, there is direct down talking and degradation and even though that seems to be depicted quite a bit online, from the people that I've talked to, it seems to be the most rare in actual practice.

For my wife and me, it comes more in the form of teasing rather than outright degradation and they are things that we discovered over time. For example, my wife is at Coachella this weekend with a guy that she's been talking to. I paid for the tickets, the airbnb, even rented a nice car for them. Now, this isn't something where the guy is making me pay for it or my wife is making me pay for it. At no point did either of them make me feel inferior or beta for the fact that I was spending money for them to have fun. I certainly don't feel humiliated by it. Quite the opposite, I find it thrilling and fulfilling. However, from the outside looking in, I think anyone would probably consider that a bit heavy humiliating act.

My wife is also a size queen. I'm average, and I never had any hang-ups about my size. But when I started to see the size of the cocks that my wife would enjoy, it certainly became fun to start comparing myself to them. I started to enjoy hearing my wife talk about certain positions that she enjoyed more with other guys because of their size, or even the overall feeling of getting fucked by a bigger cock. My wife never complained about my size and seemed satisfied enough but I will admit that it was exhilarating the day that I finally got her to admit that she wouldn't mind me being just a little bit bigger. Again, I didn't necessarily feel humiliated by that nor do I feel inadequate, nor does my wife point it out or belittle me because of my size. But of course they're certainly is that aspect that lingers in the background. It's not overt, but it's certainly implied.
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I can see where from the outside it might seem humiliating, but I can also see the Coachella scenario as you paying for a guy to fuck your wife. You’re the one indirectly giving her pleasure. It’s kind of like paying for a spa weekend for her, but a bit more intimate. And if you really want to, you can line up a girl to bang for the weekend. So your point is well taken, I don’t see it as humiliating either. Just another aspect of a sexual relationship to be enjoyed.
 
i like how Dr. Justin Lehmiller, founder and editor of Sex and Psychology, differentiates between two different dynamics which are often confused:

"In cuckolding scenarios, there’s usually a BDSM element involved. The cuckold takes on a submissive, sometimes masochistic role. In hotwifing, the BDSM element is not present. You have more of an ego-boost motivation.

Unlike those who like to participate in hotwifing, cuckolds often choose men who they view as sexually superior to themselves, adding an element of submission and emotional masochism into the dynamic.

Unlike cuckoldry, men who participate in hotwifing often derive sexual gratification from the opposite effect, viewing the act as an ego boost, whereby another man can experience how great their wife is, and therefore that dynamic lacks the underlying degradation element which defines cuckoldry."
 
impotenthub_N_milf said:
i like how Dr. Justin Lehmiller, founder and editor of Sex and Psychology, differentiates between two different dynamics which are often confused:

"In cuckolding scenarios, there’s usually a BDSM element involved. The cuckold takes on a submissive, sometimes masochistic role. In hotwifing, the BDSM element is not present. You have more of an ego-boost motivation.

Unlike those who like to participate in hotwifing, cuckolds often choose men who they view as sexually superior to themselves, adding an element of submission and emotional masochism into the dynamic.

Unlike cuckoldry, men who participate in hotwifing often derive sexual gratification from the opposite effect, viewing the act as an ego boost, whereby another man can experience how great their wife is, and therefore that dynamic lacks the underlying degradation element which defines cuckoldry."
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I think I’m in the hotwifing category. Interesting distinction.
 
sassysara67 said:
I have encountered quite a few cuckold's and cuckold wannabes in recent years and one thing that keeps cropping up in conversation is humiliation. I have heard quite a few variations on this, so would be interested to know others views on this?
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Let me give a little different take on this issue. I am currently writing a story semi-related to this thread, and have done a bit of research, including IRL from my younger days.

Men who desire humiliation, for whatever reason, fit into the Fetish category, as that is what it is, a fetish. And, the cuckolding is just the tool for you helping him achieve what he needs. In my mind, that is a very small subset of the cuckolding lifestyle/dynamic. However, I have had some long DM's/emails with several writers in this genre, including a very good female writer, who is of the opinion that all cuckold is fetish, and as such, have an element of humiliation. We have agreed to disagree.

Women, when your man has gifted you the ability to sample a strange cock, what has he done? He has made himself very vulnerable to you, hoping you won't gut him like a fish. In my story, the new potential hotwife is schooled by an experienced hotwife. Do you love your husband? Is he a good lover? Do not ever humiliate, embarrass, or denigrate the man you love and who you hope to spend the rest of your life with. Protect him, also from others. When you come home from that first time, the re-connection by you, and the reclaiming of his woman by him, will be the most explosive sexual experience you both will ever have. Most importantly, the aftercare, laying in each others arms, expressing your love, and thanking him for the gift of freedom, is the most important part. In one of the five couples in the story, they actually fall in love again, deeper than the first time, and after eight years of marriage, are acting like newlyweds. I believe that these relationships can be a beautiful thing, and not ugly
 
sassysara67 said:
I have encountered quite a few cuckold's and cuckold wannabes in recent years and one thing that keeps cropping up in conversation is humiliation. I have heard quite a few variations on this, so would be interested to know others views on this?
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going first and third and being told about the others being bigger is amazing when it comes to being super turned on while being cucked.
 
sassysara67 said:
I have encountered quite a few cuckold's and cuckold wannabes in recent years and one thing that keeps cropping up in conversation is humiliation. I have heard quite a few variations on this, so would be interested to know others views on this?
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I would love it, esp if wifey fed me his cock.
 
I agree that there is some element of humiliation in cuckolding. For me, the humiliation, and the turn on, comes from the same thing...knowing that she pursues it despite my reservations. And, I have those reservations even though I did agree to it. Anyone want to chat about this topic, it's 'close to my heart'?
 
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