First time swingers club advice

[hugh_jarce69]

Good morning. This isn’t going to be a full update but just to say - wow. Ha ha.

A very fun night. I promise I will write up a ‘review’ and maybe share what I wore but I just need a few hours this morning to process everything a bit more.

Glad it went well. Can’t wait for the write-up

 

[xdresssissytoes]

Good morning. This isn’t going to be a full update but just to say - wow. Ha ha.

A very fun night. I promise I will write up a ‘review’ and maybe share what I wore but I just need a few hours this morning to process everything a bit more.

Mmmmm....yes....bask in the afterglow of all you saw and experienced....commit every detail to memory to relive again and again.

 

[Medicalman13152]

Good morning. This isn’t going to be a full update but just to say - wow. Ha ha.

A very fun night. I promise I will write up a ‘review’ and maybe share what I wore but I just need a few hours this morning to process everything a bit more.

Very happy for you, seems it was a positive experience for you. Looking forward to further updates after you process it.

 

[Justabaldguy70]

Good morning. This isn’t going to be a full update but just to say - wow. Ha ha.

A very fun night. I promise I will write up a ‘review’ and maybe share what I wore but I just need a few hours this morning to process everything a bit more.

Well it doesn’t get any better than this!

 

[peekingone]

Good morning. This isn’t going to be a full update but just to say - wow. Ha ha.

A very fun night. I promise I will write up a ‘review’ and maybe share what I wore but I just need a few hours this morning to process everything a bit more.

Lovely, can't wait to hear about it. Sounds like it was a success.

 

[LittleGreene]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.

We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.

I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.

The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.

But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It took a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.


I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.


I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.

I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).

They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couple that knew them walked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.

Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.

We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.

I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .

After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.

So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.

Let me know to you have any questions s

 

[ernesthornimann]

Wonderful. So brilliantly described. You're certainly describing something that many of us will never take part in.
I'm very intrigued as to what it was like to touch another man and for him to touch you x

 

[Xplrngplsr]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.



We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.



I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.



The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.



But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It too a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.



I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.



I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.



I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).



They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couples that knew them asked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.



Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.



We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.



I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .



After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.



So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.



Let me know to you have any questions s

Sounds like such fun, exciting adventure. Reading your account of the evening got me turned on too.

 

[peekingone]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.



We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.



I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.



The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.



But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It too a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.



I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.



I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.



I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).



They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couples that knew them asked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.



Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.



We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.



I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .



After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.



So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.



Let me know to you have any questions s

Thank you so much for sharing your experience.

 

[TravisAW]

"A very very successful night"

A very good account of it too. Many thanks for sharing your experience. Mrs AW and I are a looong way behind this but will hopefully get there someday.

 

[LittleGreene]

"A very very successful night"

A very good account of it too. Many thanks for sharing your experience. Mrs AW and I are a looong way behind this but will hopefully get there someday.

Honestly. Such a sexy night. Even if we hadn’t interacted with anyone it would
Still be up there’s as one of our best sexual experiences

 

[dz2681]

Thank you for sharing your experience, very enlightening and sounds like an amazing night never to be forgotten. Have you two had a chance to talk about your thoughts about the evening and possibly wanting to return with new expectations?

 

[LittleGreene]

Thank you for sharing your experience, very enlightening and sounds like an amazing night never to be forgotten. Have you two had a chance to talk about your thoughts about the evening and possibly wanting to return with new expectations?

We spent most of the morning in bed talking about what we saw, what we felt, what next. So yes. But we won’t make any decisions immediately. I think we need to give ourselves a few days to really let everything settle in

 

[Cdn_Couple]

Love how you two approach this adventure. Something we have been discussing as well and always nice to hear from others how they dip their toes sort of speak

 

[dz2681]

We spent most of the morning in bed talking about what we saw, what we felt, what next. So yes. But we won’t make any decisions immediately. I think we need to give ourselves a few days to really let everything settle in

Of course and don’t forget bask in that euphoric feeling from the evening with lots of sex recounting different details and memories from the night

 

[LittleGreene]

Love how you two approach this adventure. Something we have been discussing as well and always nice to hear from others how they dip their toes sort of speak

I think we’ve taken a mature and steady approach rather than jumping straight in. We both felt we could have done more last night but I think what we did was the right amount

 

[Cdn_Couple]

I think we’ve taken a mature and steady approach rather than jumping straight in. We both felt we could have done more last night but I think what we did was the right amount

I think you two are doing it the right way. As long as you both are enjoying it go for it. Look forward to hearing about your journey and also learning from the steps you both have taken.

Hope you both enjoy the ride

 

[Kuriousnomore]

Anything you now wish you’d done differently, with the benefit of hindsight? More of this, less of that, so to speak?

 

[BDA73]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.



We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.



I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.



The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.



But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It too a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.



I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.



I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.



I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).



They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couples that knew them asked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.



Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.



We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.



I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .



After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.



So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.



Let me know to you have any questions s

What an awesome post and experience..like so many out here your courage to venture is great....and im jealous that you and your husband have that kind of relationship to venture into that.
Will continue to live through your posts...thank you for sharing such an intimate experience with all of us.

 

[LittleGreene]

Anything you now wish you’d done differently, with the benefit of hindsight? More of this, less of that, so to speak?

I think maybe we could have had sex in the bigger room whilst the other couples swapped. But i don’t regret just watching them and finding our own space.

 

[LittleGreene]

Wonderful. So brilliantly described. You're certainly describing something that many of us will never take part in.
I'm very intrigued as to what it was like to touch another man and for him to touch you x

Not as weird as I thought it might best felt very natural. And as we made out the fact I held his cock was also a natural progression. I found it very sweet he asked that first time if he could touch me. We’d been told the club had great respect for consent.

 

[Xplrngplsr]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.

We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.

I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.

The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.

But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It took a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.


I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.


I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.

I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).

They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couple that knew them walked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.

Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.

We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.

I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .

After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.

So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.

Let me know to you have any questions s

Have you found yourself getting turned on today thinking about last night's events?

 

[LittleGreene]

We were very aroused in bed this morning .

We’re travelling back now. I guess there’s a underlying arousal for both of us

 

[Live4themoments]

Ok- I have no idea where to start.

We had a great night. Everyone we met was super welcoming and curious, especially when we told them it was our first visit.

We had a lot of nerves in the immediate lead up to going but we managed to keep it together.

I wore new red lingerie and a black dress, nothing too over the top but both got a lot of complements during the night.

You enter into the social area and it was busy but not overly packed. We got a drink, one of only two alcoholic ones that night. That helped calm a few nerves. There were lots of people chatting, mingling and it wasn’t long before we started talking to a few couples. Nothing explicit, a lot about how often we’ve been (never) have we come far, how long in the lifestyle etc. everyone was nice but I didn’t feel immediately connected to any couple. And a lot of people seemed to be taking their time. There was a mezzanine looking down to this area and upstairs led to the main play area. Downstairs was more geared towards bdsm which we did explore later in the night

I needed the bathroom after about 45 mins and as I went into the ladies another lady was coming out. She was slightly older than me, shoulder length darl hair. She complemented me on my dress and shoes. When I can back out my husband was still sitting in his own but as soon as I sat back down the lady from te bathroom and her partner came over and asked if they could join us. They introduced themselves (for this purpose we’ll call the Paola and Steve) and we started to chat. She was American/Venezuelan and he was British and we had a few work things in coming that helped the conversation. We spoke about the club, how long they’d been in the lifestyle and our firts impressions and hopes for the night, including our limits for the evening. After about 15 minutes another coupes came over and they knew Steve and Paola, we chatted again all for about 10 mins before they left to go to the play rooms. Steve said they’d be up soon. It was shortly after that that Paolo asked if we wanted them to show us aroudn upstairs with no pressure, just a friendly hand to hold.

We felt we were comfortable and relaxed so we’re happy to.

We had to go upstairs and to the locker room to change as the play areas tended to be more risqué outfits, they stripped down straight away with lout any hesitation but it took a little courage for me to take the dress off and just be in my underwear. Again, both complimented me on my outfit, Steve especially couldn’t seem to get enough and I was flattered and embarrassed at the same time.

The play areas had lots of private sode rooms. Some with doors open and couples and more inside, others with doors closed which we knew meant they wanted privacy.

But it was the big play area that had the most action. So many people on various stages of nakedness and sexual activity. It was quite overwhelming with the sites, the sounds and even the smell. Very very arousing. My husband and I were holding hands as Paola led us around the room until we settled in one corner taking in some of the action.

There was a lot going on.!!!

Steve then asked if he could put his arm around me. I was comfortable with that, squeezed my had to indicate to my husband and he looked and smiled as agreed. Steve’s hand was on my waist but also stroked up and down my body, including my bum. He was chatting as we watched, saying that when I’m ready I could probably have anyone I wanted, and was there things I was seeing I liked. His hand was definitely exploring and I really liked the feeling holding my husbands hand as another man felt my body. My husband was chatting to Paola as we continued to watch so much.

Paola than lent over to ask us both if we’d be open to joining them to find a more private room. Again, she was very clear that they respected or boundaries but thought we might like a more private space to explore them. My husband checked in with me and o could tell he was up for it. And I was really liking Steve’s company so we agreed.

It took a few minutes to find an empty room. And as we went in Steve asked if we were ok to keep the door open. I wasn’t totally sure but I also knew we weren’t going to be doing too much so I agreed .

We sat at chatted as we relaxed on a big bed area, a few couples looked in but passed on by when they saw nothing was happening. Steve then asked if he could kiss me. Now kissing is a big thing for me, a huge turn on. And we had said kissing, making out, touching was our limits for the night. No penetration or oral of any kind.

So we shifted spots and Steve came over next to me and we slowly started to make out. I could see my husband and Paola watching and then they started. He was a great kisser. Really good. His hands explored but he checked in on each different part of my body.then he asked if i wanted to take my bra off. Paolo was already topless , her boobs were smaller than mine but long nipples.


I took it off and then he started to play with my boobs as we continued to make out. I felt his cock over his underwear and he stroked me over mine. I was very very very turned on.


I didn’t take my underwear off with him but his fingers did touch me , and I stroked his cock for a bit without taking his off.

I felt I wanted to stop there and he totally accepted that and my husband came back to me( with a raging hard on).

They then asked if we wanted to watch them fuck. And I really wanted to, so they started to have sex whilst we watched and my husband fingered me. A few minutes later the other couple that knew them walked past and saw them having sex and asked if they could join us.

Paola said we weren’t playing but they could if we didn’t mind. So they joined and all four of them started to have sex.

We actually left them to it about 10 minutes later, there were too many legs. Ha ha.

I grabbed my bra and we find a smaller room empty. We had sex with the door open, so people walking past could see. We had a few people hover for a while, but I was so into the sex I didn’t really notice .

After we finished we went back downstairs and got a drink. And recovered. The social area was really busy then. We took a short walk through the bdsm area, just to see it. And then felt we’d down enough for the night. We had no idea that by this time it was already 1am.

So we got dressed and got a taxi home.

A very very successful night. I hope this reads well, I’m missing out a lot of detail but o wanted to give a general review of the night.

Let me know to you have any questions s

Great account of what happened including your thoughts and feelings, thanks! I am glad you found the "ideal" couple to introduce you to the club. Appears they had your best feelings and thoughts in mind, they were gentle and not overbearing, understood what apprehensions and hesitations come with your first time. It brought back some fond memories, though our first time was a little selective compared to yours. I wish we had met a couple similar to Paola & Steve to give us our first intro.

Don't worry about trying to cram and fulfill all your fantasies at once. You've experienced an avenue to achieve those fantasies, if you choose to. For me it is always a little more erotic to think of individual experiences one at time as opposed to recalling several in 1 encounter.

Wonderful times may be just around the corner, enjoy and live life!

 

[BDA73]

Did you exchange info with the other couple?