Cucking and Watching

I've been interested in this for a while, indeed I am here on this site to work on stories to help me understand these fantasies that I have or at least had. I will save the details for now, but happy to share if someone asks. But years ago I had a girlfriend who very into cuckholding, I unfortunately wasn't. But we talked about, I came somewhat interested. We cane close to trying it a couple of times, but the stars never aligned. After we broke up my interest grew, I became almost obsessed with the idea, and would read all I could, my fantasies ranged from mild, just watching or even just hearing about it after, to extremes of humiliation, forced, bi sex, fluffing. My obsession has waned, and I have no interest to bring this, or my other fetishes into my current relationship. However, I want to understand these feels and desires, I want to figure out what did I or do I really want, I'm hoping sharing my stories with others and hearing theirs will help, so let's keep the conversation going
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I watched from the sofa as my wife Joanne and her ex-boyfriend Steve made out. I admit their kissing was very hot. Joanne was moaning into Steve's mouth and grinding ass into Steve's hard cock. Steve at the time was pulling her hips back to him with one hand as if they were already fucking and was also squeezing her breasts with the other.

He was looking at me as he cupped Joanne's breasts. He knew exactly what he wanted, and he didn't care that he was taking her in front of me. It was as if he wanted to humiliate me and fuck her at the same time and he was well on his way to achieving both. I watched as he fondled her breasts while looking straight at me.

Joanne turned to me and began kissing me and even rubbing my throbbing cock as she asked me if I was having as good as time as she was.

"I, er, um, yes..." that was all I could muster. My voice sounded like it was coming from bottom of a deep pit. When I told her that she looked deep into my eyes and told me to move to the chair across from them and watch. I saw Steve smiling at me as I got up and moved across from them onto the other chair.

I saw Joanne turn to Steve and then she let her legs spread a little so that I could see that the buttons on the front of her dress had come open at the bottom. Then she grabbed his head, and immediately started kissing him. As she did, she spread her legs even more. I was sitting there practically panting watching them kiss. Steve's eyes opened and he looked at me as he reached up and cupped her breast. Her nipple was trying to poke a hole in the material of her dress, and she let out a sigh as he gently squeezed her breast and then lightly pinched the nipple.

Steve undid the buttons on the dress and suddenly, Joanne’s breasts were completely in view.. Steve's hands were playing with one nipple and then the other as they kissed. I sat with an aching erection watching. Joanne was groping Steve's cock through his pants, her hands trying to get to his zipper. Steve then bent down and placed his mouth over her breast and I saw him suck hard on as much her as he could get into his mouth. Joanne moaned as he did that. He then raised up and pinched her nipple again, only this time he gave it a real hard pinch. Joanne let out another moan and slid down a little on the couch, causing her skirt to slide up, and her legs spread wider. Now, I could clearly see her cunt. I could see that she was already very wet and pussy juice was leaking out the bottom of her slit.
It was hard to believe she was letting Steve bite and suck her breasts. Joanne was almost constantly moaning and squirming around on the couch under Steve's biting and squeezing. She was clearly ready for his cock. It was then I noticed that she was fumbling at his crotch, trying to get his pants undone. Steve sat back on the bed and let her finish getting his pants open. He then stood up so she could pull them down and expose his cock. I heard her squeal before I saw the monster of a cock he had in his pants. It was easily 9” long and it wasn't fully hard yet. How was he ever going to fit that thing in her? Joanne gazed at his cock, the cock she remembered so well, the cock she had dreamed about, and she knew that she just wanted his cock in her.
 
I watched from the sofa as my wife Joanne and her ex-boyfriend Steve made out. I admit their kissing was very hot. Joanne was moaning into Steve's mouth and grinding ass into Steve's hard cock. Steve at the time was pulling her hips back to him with one hand as if they were already fucking and was also squeezing her breasts with the other.

He was looking at me as he cupped Joanne's breasts. He knew exactly what he wanted, and he didn't care that he was taking her in front of me. It was as if he wanted to humiliate me and fuck her at the same time and he was well on his way to achieving both. I watched as he fondled her breasts while looking straight at me.

Joanne turned to me and began kissing me and even rubbing my throbbing cock as she asked me if I was having as good as time as she was.

"I, er, um, yes..." that was all I could muster. My voice sounded like it was coming from bottom of a deep pit. When I told her that she looked deep into my eyes and told me to move to the chair across from them and watch. I saw Steve smiling at me as I got up and moved across from them onto the other chair.

I saw Joanne turn to Steve and then she let her legs spread a little so that I could see that the buttons on the front of her dress had come open at the bottom. Then she grabbed his head, and immediately started kissing him. As she did, she spread her legs even more. I was sitting there practically panting watching them kiss. Steve's eyes opened and he looked at me as he reached up and cupped her breast. Her nipple was trying to poke a hole in the material of her dress, and she let out a sigh as he gently squeezed her breast and then lightly pinched the nipple.

Steve undid the buttons on the dress and suddenly, Joanne’s breasts were completely in view.. Steve's hands were playing with one nipple and then the other as they kissed. I sat with an aching erection watching. Joanne was groping Steve's cock through his pants, her hands trying to get to his zipper. Steve then bent down and placed his mouth over her breast and I saw him suck hard on as much her as he could get into his mouth. Joanne moaned as he did that. He then raised up and pinched her nipple again, only this time he gave it a real hard pinch. Joanne let out another moan and slid down a little on the couch, causing her skirt to slide up, and her legs spread wider. Now, I could clearly see her cunt. I could see that she was already very wet and pussy juice was leaking out the bottom of her slit.
It was hard to believe she was letting Steve bite and suck her breasts. Joanne was almost constantly moaning and squirming around on the couch under Steve's biting and squeezing. She was clearly ready for his cock. It was then I noticed that she was fumbling at his crotch, trying to get his pants undone. Steve sat back on the bed and let her finish getting his pants open. He then stood up so she could pull them down and expose his cock. I heard her squeal before I saw the monster of a cock he had in his pants. It was easily 9” long and it wasn't fully hard yet. How was he ever going to fit that thing in her? Joanne gazed at his cock, the cock she remembered so well, the cock she had dreamed about, and she knew that she just wanted his cock in her.
Hope you’ll finish this great encounter between your wife and her ex
 
This response just makes this whole headspace more intriguing. It also adds a layer of attraction, mystery.

I think this is how I would want my wife to react. Keep her thoughts and feelings to herself. Letting me know it was happening but allowing my mind to make up how much she was enjoying it, whether she was actually loving it, or he was a dead fish that gave her no pleasure in my mind he was ravaging her physically and mentally and she was completely satisfied after each time. This thought would be the drive to work hard to keep her interest in me in other ways.
 
I wish my wife was into it. I'd love to be either humiliated or forced to watch her take another cock
 
I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?
I have been a bull with in a few different situations. Being with the woman, both with and without the man being present. Either way the man knew what was happening. I do not get off necessarily from humiliating the guy but if it helps the overall experience and it is expected I have no problem with it. No matter the variation communication is key.

I realize I came at this from the other side. Lol
 
I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?
For me is not a fantasy. I have watched my wife get fucked. It is super hot. I love to see her satisfied the way I can’t satisfy her.
 
We have talked about it in fantasy and out. There are specific things that she wants. She wants more than me just watching. She wants participation from me before during and after. She says that she would also want me caged several days prior to any activity like this, and just maybe several days after. The other person would also have to be open to my active participation.

We have the cage, and I wear it when she is in a dominant mood.

That is as far as it has gone at this point.
My wife and I have talk about cockolding me in chastity and not letting me out for a week after and the doing again so the I would be more submissive and cleaning her and maybe more.
 
Both sides

I have been on both sides of this. In my early 30's I found myself cucking several married couples. This was not due to me really putting myself out there for this particular service, it just sort of happened that way. Fast forward a decade when my wife and I were cucked hard by a guy we brought in for a roleplay.

I think the one thing I can say about these experiences is it all depends on the status of your relationship and why you are getting into it in the first place. If it is because you want to have some fun, explore a fantasy, and build on an already solid sexual relationship, then I think you will find this incredibly hot and have a blast. If you are doing this because you do not have a good sexual relationship to begin with, this will not end well. Trust me :)
I also have been on both sides, mostly as the other guy. However, as I am a switch, I had a girlfriend do it to me.
 
It is still a fantasy of mine but I wish it was more than a fantasy; and if I had the opportunity to make it so, I would.

I would love to see my s.o. to be fucked and pleased; it is part of the power exchange to know that she can get her orgasms however she wants, whenever she wants, and with whoever she wants... but I can ONLY get my orgasms however she wants and whenever she wants. I am into the voyeuristic aspect of it, as well as the erotic humiliation aspect of it. Perhaps, it may also come, in part, from a deep seated insecurity of me not being able to satisfy her physically. But I would totally be okay with it being a reality in a relationship.

But as far as the varieties you list, I would be into all of them but the heartbreaking kind. I would want there to be a bond of romance, love and mutual understanding with my partner that if she does what (and who) she does, that it would not be done to "hurt" me, and that the emotional and romantic bond we share would still be there. If that makes sense. But if my mistress/GF got extreme enough to actually ask me to not only watch but to even go far enough as to participate as a "Fluffer" for Her and her lovers in person, that would be a hot way for Her (with a capital aitch) to push my limits, that I might even allow her to do...
does your S O know this ? Have you discussed this with her? As a cuckold for over 20 years it’s most important to talk, talk, talk. Take care to ensure you are both on the same page. It’s so easy for little misunderstandings to turn into major incidents.
 
^I have not. The simple reality is this: Almost every woman who I have known, whether I have actually dated them or not, if they were ever to fuck any guy other than me, or the one they were with, it would be because they no longer want to be with me (or whomever they are with.) OR, even if they might possibly be into a more open swinging relationship, as some women are, I would be afraid to bring it up. Because: 1) she might take it as I am no longer interested in her, or 2) it would make her no longer be interested in me.

Most women- and I don't mean to generalize because obviously there are a lot of exceptions- but most of the women who I meet and/or have dated, are inherently very vanilla, and very traditional, in their attitudes towards sex and relationships. As for the fantasy cuckold domme mistress of my dreams? Real woman, who you typically encounter in the real world and in the dating scene, just aren't into that. I'm resigned to accepting that.
 
I guess in some ways I was one of the lucky ones, I married a woman that was looking for a cuckold marriage. In the first couple of years it progressed slowly, As I had to get comfortable in role, and there were some roadblocks, and controversy that had to be overcome, but we made it through, now it is part of a life that we celebrate.

Before meeting my wife, I myself would have never in a million years have looked for a relationship like this. Nor would I have done the things sexually that I have done with my wife or for her.

The truth is, she is happy, I am happy, things are going well. We have a great life.

After talking to others that are in this type of relationship, you have to be all in, or not in at all. Because if it is just a fantasy that gets turned off when you have an orgasm, then it will never work, it will send mixed signals to your wife or girlfriend. You have to, in a sense live it and breath it. Best thing I have learned through all of this, stay horny, stay aroused, it is about her getting off, not you. Make it about her, not about your fetish or fantasy.

Convincing your everyday woman that this is a lifestyle that will benefit her , is a tough sell. Especially if she thinks it is to only benefit you.
 
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Wow. That is so hot. I no love being a cuckold. My wife hasn’t try BBC yet but I have been talk to her about it.
 
I want more experiences with cucking. It's one of my favorite brain spaces to get into with a man.

There are a few different varieties. The humiliating kind, the heartbreaking kind, the forced kind. Then the fun kind, the teasing kind, and the involved.

I have men who enjoy the fantasy but when it comes down to actually doing it... they chicken out.

Men, is this just left as a fantasy for you or do you actually want to see her fucked and pleased?
I saw an ex get spectacularly fucked in front of me and I was far from pleased at the time. There was some follow up, things moved on and we restablished a relationship. Thoughts of her being fucked stupid amuse my cock. It's all about her, my alpha princess being reduced to a helpless slut. I'm not sure if this is rooted in voyeurism, or cukolding. There is a lot of moving parts here. Complex situation.
 
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