could you have a same sex lifetime commitment

[sexy-girl]

could you have a same sex lifetime commitment


this thread is kind of follow on from lil-minx's (hope you dont mind )


for bisexual people or bi-curious indeed ... could you have a lifetime commitment with someone of the same sex if you fell in love with them ... would you desire to sleep with someone of the opposite too or would you be content in a same sex relationship

 

[Guest]

I am bisexual and as I've said before, if I had met a woman that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, I would have committed to her, instead.
As I am content within my marriage to my husband, I would be as content within a same sex partnership. I commit regardless of sex.

 

[Scabbers]

Well I couldn't, but that doesn't mean it couldn't happen at all.

I'm not that curious.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I am bisexual but know that my commitment to a relationship would be with a man in a life time deal. If that man did not want me to be with another woman that would be fine. Because I am in a relationship with him, it would mean I respect him and his wishes

Being a bisexual person is not always a cut and dryed as it seems sometimes. People have different urge levels with their bisexual urges....

 

[Calamity Jane]

I don't think I could. I'm not entirely sure that 'lifetime commitment' is in my range of emotional abilities at all.

Someday, I'll explore a sexual relationship with a woman, but I can't see it being a long term thing.

I love men, most of my friends are men, if I'm at aparty, I tend to be hanging out with the guys, not the girls. I can't imagine giving men up.

 

[lavender]

 

[RisiaSkye]

Yes. Why not? It seems as possible as a hetero lifetime commitment, imo.

 

[Andreina]

Yes... if I love this person, why not? For me love has to be monogamous no matter if it would be with a male or female humanoid.

 

[Topher]

I could commit to a woman (opposite sex), but men are just for sex, not romantic relationships. I could see our being friends, but not a couple.

I've had 3 c.2-year relationships (a pattern?) with women and I have never cheated. I would still long for mansex, but it would be a small price to pay for the right lady (now I know I'm 30-something - I said "lady").

 

[fallon2]

No

If I was I still couldn't but I am not and so I won't.

 

[lilminx]

I don't mind this thread as a follow-up to mine at all...

In fact, I think it's a great question that I've been pondering lately myself. Here's my answer:

Well, I don't know if I ever could have a lifetime commitment, either with a man or a woman. If I WERE able to do it, I would have to say that it would be with a man. I think women are beautiful, but I as pagancowgirl said, I have too many male friends and get along with men better than womenl. Plus, I love cock too much.

 

[Rubyfruit]

I've never understood this question. Why is it harder for bisexual people to commit than either gay/lesbian or heterosexual?

Committing to a lifetime of monogamy seems really difficult, no matter the circumstances behind it. Heterosexuals still find others desirable after they are married, as I'm sure gay and lesbians do when they are in committed relationships.

When I was with women exclusively for 3 years, I never thought ahead enough to wonder if I'd ever be with men again, nor did I think it was "a phase." It was simply what I was doing then.

I refused to be labeled. It pissed everybody off. My lesbian girlfriends felt threatened by my heterosexual past. My family wanted to pigeon hole me. Well, are you gay? Bisexual? Is this just a phase? They were the ones who wanted to label me.

I still don't really care for labels. I am a sexual being. Isn't that enough information?

 

[MissTaken]

In many respects, I have to agree with Ruby.

So, I will not reiterate her post.

I will say simply that when I fall in love and am loved back with the right person, he/she will have a lifetime commitment from me.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

Yes. Why not? It seems as possible as a hetero lifetime commitment, imo.