Committed loving relationship question

[Keepingjoy]

I kinda started another thread that was similar but I think I know how to say what I mean better now. Does anybody struggle to keep your own feelings of insecurity and jealousy from getting in the way of your partners good time. I mean if they are acting above board and communicating, but you are still struggling, how do you deal? It’s like I want to be the most loving, open, giving partner and support and encourage autonomy, but a bunch of my own shit and mainstream male culture bs gets in front and takes up the stage.
Any advice?

 

[DennisB]

It depends on your relationship, your character, and what you mean by “partner’s good time”?

Too much to write here on this subject but if you are legit and want an opinion, message me.