Cock Slapping

BenHoping

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So--New direction for this geezer.
I've been indulging an FWB (well, me too) with some ass spanking, pussy belting, nipple twisting, and other stinging stuff. Always liked bare hand OTK--part of foreplay for decades, and learned how rare it was to find another spankee after the wife died. We've had some really fun playtime.

Then I started wondering how come she liked it so much. I've always liked getting my nips sucked hard after I was good and revved up with other foreplay. I asked her to smack my cock to see if it was anything similar.

Holy crap--it's fun!! Now we incorporate a little switchiness into play time.

I've never really tried to figure out BDSM roles before. It's not in me to be degrading, and REALLY not in me to be a sub, but damn I like getting my dick whacked good and hard from time to time.

Does Dom-leaning switch come close? Like to hear from this group!
 
So--New direction for this geezer.
I've been indulging an FWB (well, me too) with some ass spanking, pussy belting, nipple twisting, and other stinging stuff. Always liked bare hand OTK--part of foreplay for decades, and learned how rare it was to find another spankee after the wife died. We've had some really fun playtime.

Then I started wondering how come she liked it so much. I've always liked getting my nips sucked hard after I was good and revved up with other foreplay. I asked her to smack my cock to see if it was anything similar.

Holy crap--it's fun!! Now we incorporate a little switchiness into play time.

I've never really tried to figure out BDSM roles before. It's not in me to be degrading, and REALLY not in me to be a sub, but damn I like getting my dick whacked good and hard from time to time.

Does Dom-leaning switch come close? Like to hear from this group!
LOL--if you like it, skip the labels! Good for trying it, and yeah--playful pain absolutely has its place! Don't give me that degrading, name calling, commanding shit, but please yes, Pinch my nips, flog my pussy, and smack the hell out of my ass when I'm in the mood! Lucky you to have a reciprocal playmate!! (And just scrolled from another of your posts--have you found a cock to suck yet?)
 
I've had Pro misstress leave me with my cock completely black and blu and that way for a day or two..She had whipped it, chewed on it, made me lick her asshole and drink her pee,...pinch and twist it until I'm on my knees licking the bottom of her shoes.
and worse.
She has used needles and ben gay, but only professionals, never met with a woman who would do that for me for free.
 
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You can do any kink without making it about D/s.

I mean, D/s people can't, but you can.
 
LOL--if you like it, skip the labels! Good for trying it, and yeah--playful pain absolutely has its place! Don't give me that degrading, name calling, commanding shit, but please yes, Pinch my nips, flog my pussy, and smack the hell out of my ass when I'm in the mood! Lucky you to have a reciprocal playmate!! (And just scrolled from another of your posts--have you found a cock to suck yet?)
No--no cock sucking for me. Yet. I blow hot and cold on the idea, lol!
 
Yeah, I used to be pretty switch when I was younger, but now I tend to lean dom.

For me it's about enjoying the pleasure of it all, just go wild. Don't hold back, and I like it when it's spicy, but not permanently damaging. Some love bites, scratches, and carpet burns just remind me of them when we're apart.
Not permanently damaging--yeah, that! And I'm astonished how much it can take without damage!
 
With a ruler by a woman. Until I'm begging her to stop, and then for just a little longer.
unless of course, if she insists...in that case I have no say in the matter.
 
I love when my Mistress slaps my erect cock and looks at me with disdain. I also love having my balls slapped until I have to use the safe word.
 
My new mistress, S&S, repeatedly slapped my strapped cock hard from side to side last night when I asked her want she wanted. It was full with blood...throbbing and wobbling in the air......rock hard deep red and purple! She said, "A true slut would know what to do! Use your brain!" She pulled me by my ponytail down to her stilettos....one toe up into my balls. "Start an the bottom, Slut! Clean my feet with your tongue....work your way up my legs and thighs! Bury your face in my wide open cunt....rub your cock and balls on me as you go.........and don't you dare cum yet!"
I hope she comes back so we can make that special sauce that we both crave!
 
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My wife used to slap both my cock and balls, something I enjoyed very much, as well as torquing my balls, using her long nails digging and scratching both to almost tearing the skin but would stop before bleeding would begin which I found all of it to be some of the most enjoyable times, however she stopped many years ago around the same time she stopped giving me blowjobs. Now she just enjoys totally mundane boring sex, not that just having sex with her is bad, but those old days were so enjoyable!
 
I had an online Domme who delighted in watching me slap my own cock for her in video clips. I’m not big on pain, but doing what she wanted from me was exciting. I miss her
 
I love to be fully restrained and have a mistress slap my cock around, among other things
 
:giggle: Hot and cold can both be fun!!
Hey Val, I'm now an authentic cock-sucker!

Glad I gave it a try, but--can't say there was any magic. Maybe the guy, maybe the cock, maybe maybe maybe, but not as satisfying as m/f delights. Wasn't a turn-off either, and the threesome was fun. She slapped my cock and balls around and sucked me forever--never had such a spectacular blow job!

I'd probably accommodate another dick if it seemed to move the evening forward. Stroking him while she worked on me was certainly fine, but neither were erotic highlights.
 
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Cool, Ben! Good for you to give it a shot. Like you say, maybe maybe maybe. Keep an open mouth, I mean mind. No--mouth is right--you're clearly open-minded!! Keep up the good dicks!
Val
Hey Val, I'm now an authentic cock-sucker!

Glad I gave it a try, but--can't say there was any magic. Maybe the guy, maybe the cock, maybe maybe maybe, but not as satisfying as m/f delights. Wasn't a turn-off either, and the threesome was fun. She slapped my cock and balls around and sucked me forever--never had such a spectacular blow job!

I'd probably accommodate another dick if it seemed to move the evening forward. Stroking him while she worked on me was certainly fine, but neither were erotic highlights.
 
LOL--if you like it, skip the labels! Good for trying it, and yeah--playful pain absolutely has its place! Don't give me that degrading, name calling, commanding shit, but please yes, Pinch my nips, flog my pussy, and smack the hell out of my ass when I'm in the mood! Lucky you to have a reciprocal playmate!! (And just scrolled from another of your posts--have you found a cock to suck yet?)
stimulating responce
 
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