Legs tied open

The wife likes her legs held firmly for fingering, licking, etc.

We’ve tried light restraint over the years and had some fun.

We’re getting a bit older and stiffer, and not in a good way, sadly. So any suggestions for position and methods with the following in mind would be appreciated:

-wife always says she wants her legs held open so she feels out of control ( she loves when I tease her and tell her if she moves, I’ll stop and also that she can’t possibly get away. I will bring her to the edge a time or two by stopping when I feel that little twitching of her pussy, before finally making her come hard and loud)

-she likes when I use my hands to hold her legs wide while I dine or when I use a leg to spread her legs wide while fingering her.

-I would like to give her what she wants while also freeing my hands up for simultaneous fingering, toy use, etc

- I’ve tied her spread eagle in the past and recently she’s mentioned that she doesn’t like having her hands tied much (not a trigger(?), but not her bag)
This knocks out some of the thigh cuff to hand cuff options. Regular spread eagle on the bed doesn’t give the best angle for access

-we are older middle aged, so not flexible enough for extreme angles and durations. So looking for less stressful positions or methods

-like many of you we have various cuffs, straps, wedges toys, etc But nothing much past basics.

I’m a visual learner, so pics are priceless. Plus they’re hot!


thanks for any suggestions.
Read Japanese bondage I'm sure you'll find answers there. Most comfortable and erotic
 
The wife likes her legs held firmly for fingering, licking, etc.

We’ve tried light restraint over the years and had some fun.

We’re getting a bit older and stiffer, and not in a good way, sadly. So any suggestions for position and methods with the following in mind would be appreciated:

-wife always says she wants her legs held open so she feels out of control ( she loves when I tease her and tell her if she moves, I’ll stop and also that she can’t possibly get away. I will bring her to the edge a time or two by stopping when I feel that little twitching of her pussy, before finally making her come hard and loud)

-she likes when I use my hands to hold her legs wide while I dine or when I use a leg to spread her legs wide while fingering her.

-I would like to give her what she wants while also freeing my hands up for simultaneous fingering, toy use, etc

- I’ve tied her spread eagle in the past and recently she’s mentioned that she doesn’t like having her hands tied much (not a trigger(?), but not her bag)
This knocks out some of the thigh cuff to hand cuff options. Regular spread eagle on the bed doesn’t give the best angle for access

-we are older middle aged, so not flexible enough for extreme angles and durations. So looking for less stressful positions or methods

-like many of you we have various cuffs, straps, wedges toys, etc But nothing much past basics.

I’m a visual learner, so pics are priceless. Plus they’re hot!


thanks for any suggestions.
use a suitable length of pvc pipe about 1" and 4 ft is about right and get about 4 small eye bolts and drill holes for them at about what her knees spread to. then put the eye bolts thru two of the holes. place this under her knees and have he spread them far as she can. then use her pantyhose to loop thru the eyes and tie around her legs. it's quick, easy, she cant get loose. she can move and walk oddly. instant spreader bar. excellent for on all 4s fun. lots of possibilities. use your imagination.
 
The more we’ve been sharing our fantasies lately, my wife isn’t so much into being tied herself, but instead she really likes it when I hold her legs apart so she can’t close them. Especially if I tell her she can’t escape and I have control of her cumming.

This is fun for her when she’s laying on her back in the usual position to receive licking, or when I lay to her side and use one of my legs to force her legs open while I finger her deeply and tease her clit.

The best though may be in 69 with me on top when I fold her towards me by using my upper arms/elbows against the back of her knees to get her good and wide. She gets very wet and excited when I tell her she’s not getting away until she cums hard. This position also give me the ability to use a hand for teasing or dildoing her while I let her suck me, or, to make a point about her lack of control, fuck her mouth as I want.

This quickly drives her wild so I edge her to let her know she’s not in control and keep the burn going.

As I write this I’m realizing I don’t need the ties for her, but to play more with dominating her verbally and physically. She really got hot when she was trying to top me and I rolled her back pinned her arms and sucked her nipples and then just straddled her face and shoved my cock into her mouth. later I gave her a little spanking that made her wet af. She came very hard and told me she was fantasizing repeatedly about it while driving home.

We are both sort of switchy, thank goodness she likes tying me occasionally for payback.
 
A leg spreader, neck ties to the sides of the bed at the ankles and knees would provide what you might be looking for.
 
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