Legs tied open

[DemimondeDenizen]

The wife likes her legs held firmly for fingering, licking, etc.

We’ve tried light restraint over the years and had some fun.

We’re getting a bit older and stiffer, and not in a good way, sadly. So any suggestions for position and methods with the following in mind would be appreciated:

-wife always says she wants her legs held open so she feels out of control ( she loves when I tease her and tell her if she moves, I’ll stop and also that she can’t possibly get away. I will bring her to the edge a time or two by stopping when I feel that little twitching of her pussy, before finally making her come hard and loud)

-she likes when I use my hands to hold her legs wide while I dine or when I use a leg to spread her legs wide while fingering her.

-I would like to give her what she wants while also freeing my hands up for simultaneous fingering, toy use, etc

- I’ve tied her spread eagle in the past and recently she’s mentioned that she doesn’t like having her hands tied much (not a trigger(?), but not her bag)
This knocks out some of the thigh cuff to hand cuff options. Regular spread eagle on the bed doesn’t give the best angle for access

-we are older middle aged, so not flexible enough for extreme angles and durations. So looking for less stressful positions or methods

-like many of you we have various cuffs, straps, wedges toys, etc But nothing much past basics.

I’m a visual learner, so pics are priceless. Plus they’re hot!


thanks for any suggestions.

 

[IARainman]

Sounds like a larger part could be more mental than physical. Have you tried taking her to a restaurant and having her peel off her panties from under her dress, at the table?

 

[DpropertyofR]

Maybe something like this? Her hands would still be free, and it’s adjustable. https://stockroom.com/products/saffron-thigh-sling

 

[AlwaysInTrouble]

Instead of pulling them apart, how about pushing them via a Spreader Bar?

 

[Boat1]

The wife likes her legs held firmly for fingering, licking, etc.

We’ve tried light restraint over the years and had some fun.

We’re getting a bit older and stiffer, and not in a good way, sadly. So any suggestions for position and methods with the following in mind would be appreciated:

-wife always says she wants her legs held open so she feels out of control ( she loves when I tease her and tell her if she moves, I’ll stop and also that she can’t possibly get away. I will bring her to the edge a time or two by stopping when I feel that little twitching of her pussy, before finally making her come hard and loud)

-she likes when I use my hands to hold her legs wide while I dine or when I use a leg to spread her legs wide while fingering her.

-I would like to give her what she wants while also freeing my hands up for simultaneous fingering, toy use, etc

- I’ve tied her spread eagle in the past and recently she’s mentioned that she doesn’t like having her hands tied much (not a trigger(?), but not her bag)
This knocks out some of the thigh cuff to hand cuff options. Regular spread eagle on the bed doesn’t give the best angle for access

-we are older middle aged, so not flexible enough for extreme angles and durations. So looking for less stressful positions or methods

-like many of you we have various cuffs, straps, wedges toys, etc But nothing much past basics.

I’m a visual learner, so pics are priceless. Plus they’re hot!


thanks for any suggestions.

Comfort is of the utmost importance.
That said, I think I could achieve what you're going for, with one of these, plus pillows, lots of pillows.
I'd try using the leg restraints for holding the legs open, as intended, but I'd use the hand restraints differently, pulled downward, to the ankles, pulling the legs/knees upward for comfort while being restrained in two directions (use pillows underneath, to facilitate comfort).
They also make numerous "extension straps" if needed, to make this work.
Best of luck with whatever you decide on!

https://www.amazon.com/Restraint-Bo...sprefix=bondage+bed+restraints,aps,169&sr=8-1

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Sounds like a larger part could be more mental than physical. Have you tried taking her to a restaurant and having her peel off her panties from under her dress, at the table?

Not yet, but we have been having fun—at home—with a lovense. Maybe on vacation i can see if she’ll wear it in a loud restaurant.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Maybe something like this? Her hands would still be free, and it’s adjustable. https://stockroom.com/products/saffron-thigh-sling

We tried a cheaper version once. She’s in better shape now, so will give it another try.

 

[DemimondeDenizen]

Instead of pulling them apart, how about pushing them via a Spreader Bar?

I like the idea, but we have over a foot in height difference between us. So I always felt a spreader would get in the way of me getting up in between her legs without accidentally bumping the bar and tweaking her ankles. I dislike footboards for similar reasons.

 

[lowcollar]

Maybe something like this? Her hands would still be free, and it’s adjustable. https://stockroom.com/products/saffron-thigh-sling

Excellent device. Love it.

 

[Playwithmee]

The wife likes her legs held firmly for fingering, licking, etc.

We’ve tried light restraint over the years and had some fun.

We’re getting a bit older and stiffer, and not in a good way, sadly. So any suggestions for position and methods with the following in mind would be appreciated:

-wife always says she wants her legs held open so she feels out of control ( she loves when I tease her and tell her if she moves, I’ll stop and also that she can’t possibly get away. I will bring her to the edge a time or two by stopping when I feel that little twitching of her pussy, before finally making her come hard and loud)

-she likes when I use my hands to hold her legs wide while I dine or when I use a leg to spread her legs wide while fingering her.

-I would like to give her what she wants while also freeing my hands up for simultaneous fingering, toy use, etc

- I’ve tied her spread eagle in the past and recently she’s mentioned that she doesn’t like having her hands tied much (not a trigger(?), but not her bag)
This knocks out some of the thigh cuff to hand cuff options. Regular spread eagle on the bed doesn’t give the best angle for access

-we are older middle aged, so not flexible enough for extreme angles and durations. So looking for less stressful positions or methods

-like many of you we have various cuffs, straps, wedges toys, etc But nothing much past basics.

I’m a visual learner, so pics are priceless. Plus they’re hot!


thanks for any suggestions.

Try putting a pillow under the small of her back before restraining her legs, will improve access and more.

 

[lisaharlot]

A spreader bar cut to a length she finds comfortable should do the trick. If you’re handy, you find what you need at your hardware store.

 

[N2outdoors]

Not yet, but we have been having fun—at home—with a lovense. Maybe on vacation i can see if she’ll wear it in a loud restaurant.

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[dkak001]

We get a lot of mileage out of 10ft long yoga straps. (Buy like 4 of them! lol) These are basically double D ring soft cotton belts that are 10 feet long.

One trick I like is to put two together, loop it under the bed (Or one each to the bed frame), and go around each leg (at the knee) with it. If you put the strap under the bed closer to her head, you can set it to pull apart and up slightly at the same time. As long as you don't fight the strap, it's a comfortable position. Keeps legs up, and spread for all sorts of fun...

 

[likitisplit]

tied open is how it should be done. closed? why? makes no sensse

 

[Representingmyhotwife]

It would be real hot if another man did this with her.

 

[lilmissdarling]

Instead of pulling them apart, how about pushing them via a Spreader Bar?

I concur.. maybe spreader bar. But I would say bent over cushions or the edge of the bed. (Depending on height.)

Please see position 4 and 6 at the link below.
https://bedbible.com/best-spreader-bar-positions/

 

[subdudeme13]

I concur.. maybe spreader bar. But I would say bent over cushions or the edge of the bed. (Depending on height.)

Please see position 4 and 6 at the link below.
https://bedbible.com/best-spreader-bar-positions/

I also liked the ones with the fur lined leather cuffs. It was a great feeling and contrasted with what was coming.

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

I think that would excite me to no end

 

[Dashabout]

Shopping at the big hardware stores with your SO can be a lot fun if you keep an open mind and have some imagination. I go with mine almost every time he needs to get something for the numerous projects we have while rehabbing this place. just looking at things can be wild if you dress right, sundress, short skirt and tank top and aren't too shy about quick peeks and making sexy suggestions. He has a Love/Hate thing about taking me along but the ride home is always fun even when we can't wait to get there before trying some of the ropes, chains, shackles and pulleys.

Any thing can be created at a decent store.

 

[Waiter519123]

My divorced daughter moved in. Can any one tell me what this is used for?
https://i.ibb.co/8xf4pJj/IMG-5435.jpg

 

[Easypeter]

Call me I’ll hold her legs up so you can have your way with her. Then you can help me take her .

 

[lowcollar]

There is an adjustable device which is mostly cloth which attaches to one knee,the goes behind the head , then attaches to the other knee.

 

[Bisexguy70]

Maybe something like this? Her hands would still be free, and it’s adjustable. https://stockroom.com/products/saffron-thigh-sling

This thing looks incredible! I love having my legs spread while being edged and teased. My inner thighs are very sensitive and this would expose them. Thanks for the idea. Ive been getting more and more into BDSM

 

[DpropertyofR]

This thing looks incredible! I love having my legs spread while being edged and teased. My inner thighs are very sensitive and this would expose them. Thanks for the idea. Ive been getting more and more into BDSM

Happy to be of help to someone. Have fun with it if you get it!

 

[emme8]

I am fantasizing recently about being tied open and fisted by my Dom. Stretched open