Cheating wife?

During our first 2 decades together if either of us had sex with someone else it would have contaminated our marriage with everlasting toxic doubts about whether or not we married the right person..

But now, after about 25 yrs of raising kids, supporting each other through numerous tragedies & health crises, forging lifelong shared friendships, travel, a planned retirement, etc.. it is clear that NOTHING is going to break up our marriage, or diminish our deep love for each other. That is how strong our bond is. So, several years ago I was very comfortable with telling my wife, “From now on, go ahead and have sex with someone else once in a while if you want to. I'm fine with it because I know with absolute certainty that the ties that bind us will hold strong - that your home and your future will always be with ME.” It felt very liberating tell her this.

I adore my wife. If being with a different man once in a while would allow her to experience "like young again" orgasms - especially since menopause has made them so elusive - why wouldn't I want that for her? My wife and I have had sex over 3000 times (>2/wk for >30yrs), so of course sex with someone else is going to be more exciting! It wouldn't be because he's a better lover. Indeed, I'm quite certain there's nothing he could do with his fingers, mouth or dick that I haven't done hundreds and hundreds of times already or would eagerly do if she asked. It would be more exciting for the simple reason that it's someone OTHER than me - someone new. I wouldn't take her enjoying it personally and I wouldn't feel threatened by it.

So tell me, why should I stand in the way of it?
Best answer I have read yet
 
When my wife came down with Alzheimer's, two of her married friends took turns coming over and taking care of me. One of them said my wife had asked her to, when she realized her condition. I always wondered if their husbands were aware.
This sounds like a kind, final gift that your wife gave you. Kudos to her friends for helping out too
 
I am a cheating wife, who is addicted to gangbangs and DPs. Always been a cheating slut.
We never did it, but my wife and I chaperoned a gangbang for her friend. I provided security to make sure things did not get out of hand, and my wife provided care and comfort, and may have also fluffed a few cocks. Her husband was the last to have her. It was messy and he did cleanup. When we got home, my wife damned near raped me, she was so turned on.
 
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We never did it, but my wife and chaperoned a gangbang for her friend. I provided security to make sure things did not get out of hand, and my wife provided care and comfort, and may have also fluffed a few cocks. Her husband was the last to have her. It was messy and he did cleanup. When we got home, my wife damned near raped me, she was so turned on.
Good friends!
 
love it!

Does she allow you to be with other women?

My wife does not and I'm fine with it. Why? Because I think she needs the freedom to occassionally be with other men to keep her overall interest in sex high. Which ultimately means more sex for me. But I, on the other hand, don't need the same remedy as my sexual interest in my wife is about as high as humanly possible :)

Plus, she thinks I'm more likely to form attachments if I had sex w/ other women. So I'm totally fine with the asymmetry of this aspect of our relationship.
Well answered the "keep her overall interest in sex high"

And yes keeping you happy not only physically but emotionally and verbally. Seeing her be more adventurous and then enjoying her afterwards is pretty hot in particular things about her meetings with other men.
 
We never did it, but my wife and I chaperoned a gangbang for her friend. I provided security to make sure things did not get out of hand, and my wife provided care and comfort, and may have also fluffed a few cocks. Her husband was the last to have her. It was messy and he did cleanup. When we got home, my wife damned near raped me, she was so turned on.
Did she have dps?
 
I remember my BIL posiing this question after being on a Jamaican vacation wondering why so many men want their wives to have sex with other men🤭
 
You’re so right! It’s all about what people think is sexy and hcoot
It is interesting how a thing changes a conservative couple into a Hot wife and Non Judgmental Husband. I new Cocktail dress that make her feel a new sense of sexy. A party with both friends and strangers but all have common interests. Talking about turn-on and people that arouse both of you . And the husband giving her the space to explore...
 
I need to try that. Thanks for the suggestion.
I haven’t ever, intentionally smelled one but we have played with a couple, the wife of which appears to have very high levels of testosterone- witnessed by her very large clit (which I love to lick & suck).

I’ve noticed that she has had on occasion, especially after a night of dancing, a slight underarm smell that mixed w her perfume and pussy scent I DO find absolutely intoxicating!!
 
It is interesting how a thing changes a conservative couple into a Hot wife and Non Judgmental Husband. I new Cocktail dress that make her feel a new sense of sexy. A party with both friends and strangers but all have common interests. Talking about turn-on and people that arouse both of you . And the husband giving her the space to explore...
That is exactly how we got started
 
I haven’t ever, intentionally smelled one but we have played with a couple, the wife of which appears to have very high levels of testosterone- witnessed by her very large clit (which I love to lick & suck).

I’ve noticed that she has had on occasion, especially after a night of dancing, a slight underarm smell that mixed w her perfume and pussy scent I DO find absolutely intoxicating!!
You haven’t experienced real pleasure. Imagine your nose deep in her sweaty underarms as you penetrate her pussy. Intentional, long sniffs of her natural armpit odor will keep you aroused and bring you to orgasm.
 
You haven’t experienced real pleasure. Imagine your nose deep in her sweaty underarms as you penetrate her pussy. Intentional, long sniffs of her natural armpit odor will keep you aroused and bring you to orgasm.
It’s been pretty damn close to this!
 
Ok seen as we're talking about cheating wives. Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her. I've been with married or attached women who have willing let me ass fuck them but would never let hubby or boyfriend do them in the ass.
 
Ok seen as we're talking about cheating wives. Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her. I've been with married or attached women who have willing let me ass fuck them but would never let hubby or boyfriend do them in the ass.
Just because it has happened to you once or twice doesn’t make it a thing.
 
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Ok seen as we're talking about cheating wives. Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her. I've been with married or attached women who have willing let me ass fuck them but would never let hubby or boyfriend do them in the ass.
I think it’s because it feels really kinky to go “all the way” with someone else.
Also, giving it to hubby means you’ll need to keep giving it to them. Giving it to someone else comes with no obligations
 
I think it’s because it feels really kinky to go “all the way” with someone else.
Also, giving it to hubby means you’ll need to keep giving it to them. Giving it to someone else comes with no obligations
One reason why, is it's more thrilling to commit various sexual acts with another who is in a relationship with another person as its more exciting and hot.

They let themselves go just like in a new relationship.
 
that turns me on so much thinking of my wife that she is so wet and turned on by some other guy that she is letting him fuck her ass
 
Tell us more!
(I thought I had responded to this, but I can’t find the thread so here you go…)

One of the couples that we play with on a fairly regular basis, the wife has a very distinct, pleasant body “scent”. Often times we’ll all go out dancing with them, which of course is very physically exhilarating, and not uncommon that we dance so much that we sweat.

I’ve detected on multiple occasions when we’ve been playing with them afterward, that familiar scent of body perspiration. As I’ve been playing with her - kissing her, caressing her, licking her pussy, and, of course, fucking her, her scent is not overwhelming, but it is present, that female aroma. It is so intoxicating! She also wears a very distinct perfume, and when mixed with that heavenly scent, absolutely brings my cock to full attention, which is convenient because she loves to fuck!
 
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