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Cuckoldry and humiliation: a thread for women as well as men

liqueur said:
There seems to be a very lively interest in many threads about cuckoldry & cheating, and all their various ass-pects. So I thought I'd post my own question. I’d love to hear from both women with step out on their own, and the men who love them for it.

My question is about humiliation. I myself have had a lifelong kink for humiliation, and I think the humiliation that I've experienced in cuckold-type situations is what first turned me on to it. There are other things about it that also turn me on, but humiliation is by far the biggest factor. How about you?
Does humiliating him, or being humiliated by her, turn you on?
Or is it just the general sexiness and freedom from constraints that does it for you? Or something else?
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Yes it turns me on se my young wife be owned by a very old man black or white
 
LeaHaven said:
We are new to this kind of lifestyle, and I am still learning, so I just read this whole thread.

When we have sex, my husband will cum before we hardly get started. It is very frustrating for me, and I know that makes him feel shame, but I have learned that if I "use it against him," it actually arouses him. But if I were to call him an idiot, that would hurt his feelings. As our sex life has evolved into a hotwife/flr/femdom - whatever you call it - I've had to give this a lot of thought. I needed to know where to draw the line. So here is what I think I see.

First of all, you have to understand that my husband wants to serve me. That's what he wants. It has taken me a few years to wrap my head around it. He wants me to be the boss, make all the decisions, tell him what to do....in EVERYTHING. He calls me "the superior one." He says he wants me to have all the pleasure. Don't ask me to understand it. I don't. But I've quit fighting it. Now I roll with it. I mean, why not?

As for the humiliation part, it seems to me that if the humiliation is more of a humbling sort of thing, he likes it. In other words, if the humiliation is associated with me demonstrating my authority, or that I deserve all the pleasure, or that he's disappointing in bed, he likes it so much it will give him an erection. If I do it when we're having intercourse, he will cum almost immediately. But if I were to denigrate him as a person, it would hurt his feelings. And I have to add that it seems like there has to be some element of truth. He's not an idiot, so that doesn't work. He does, truly, have a problem with cumming too soon. If I tell him that, it works.

I don't know if any of this makes sense, but at least for me, I've kind of learned where the boundaries are. At first, I was hesitant to be so honest with him. But now, I've got no problem with it. To be honest, I kind of enjoy it. I know that sounds terrible, but it works for us.

Sorry I wrote so much.
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Never be sorry for writing such an informative response. I have read it over a few times and see a lot of similarities.
 
LeaHaven said:
But if I were to denigrate him as a person, it would hurt his feelings.
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For me there is a difference between humiliation and degradation. And, also what defines humiliation? For example, if I was a sissy cuckold, I wouldn't find it humiliating to suck her lover's cock to get him hard for her, or sucking him clean after he finished, as well as cleaning her pussy clean with my tongue and giving her another orgasm. Another example, is I wouldn't find it humiliating if she told all of her friends.

Denigrating to me involves BDSM, which I'm not a fan of.
 
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