Bondage question for subs, especially the ladies of Lit

[N2outdoors]

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[Sallyhansen6914]

For me it’s the excitement that I have no control, I don’t know what you’re going to do for sure, probably more to it but geah

 

[Submissivepat]

Like Sally said, it’s the excitement of having no control. I liked being bound in stocks with my legs spread. I also liked a spanking bench or a breeding bench.

 

[texas_gal]

For me, getting bound is a release of responsibility. I'm free to just enjoy whatever is happening to me in the moment and I can let go. I prefer ropes.

 

[N2outdoors]

For me, getting bound is a release of responsibility. I'm free to just enjoy whatever is happening to me in the moment and I can let go. I prefer ropes.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Thank you for your reply. Can you describe how you prefer to be tied with ropes? Do you like to be hog tied? Curious to know how sophisticated women want their ropes to be.

There will not be one universal answer to this. Women will not all agree and if you are thinking of a specific woman, you should ask her. If you are looking for wank fodder, the story section is easy to find. If your question is serious, my guy is a rigger and my absolute favorite part is while he is tying me up. His focus, he’s so serious and determined as he ties those knots.

 

[Lorelei907]

For me it’s the excitement of loss of control, of being helpless while my lover has her way with my body. The primal, if not morbid, desire to be used. Used for someone else’s sexual pleasure and satisfaction whereas my own pleasure is of no concern or importance for them. Doing what I’m told and punished when I don’t. (Sometimes I don’t on purpose ) It takes trust. She knows she can do anything she desires to me, though she knows my limits, but even with that trust there’s always that little inkling of doubt tucked away deep in the back of my mind that comes forward and rises a little fear in me.

Mmm… and the post cuddles and doting attention when I’m finally turned loose are so sweet.

 

[N2outdoors]

For me it’s the excitement of loss of control, of being helpless while my lover has her way with my body. The primal, if not morbid, desire to be used. Used for someone else’s sexual pleasure and satisfaction whereas my own pleasure is of no concern or importance for them. Doing what I’m told and punished when I don’t. (Sometimes I don’t on purpose ) It takes trust. She knows she can do anything she desires to me, though she knows my limits, but even with that trust there’s always that little inkling of doubt tucked away deep in the back of my mind that comes forward and rises a little fear in me.

Mmm… and the post cuddles and doting attention when I’m finally turned loose are so sweet.

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[N2outdoors]

There will not be one universal answer to this. Women will not all agree and if you are thinking of a specific woman, you should ask her. If you are looking for wank fodder, the story section is easy to find. If your question is serious, my guy is a rigger and my absolute favorite part is while he is tying me up. His focus, he’s so serious and determined as he ties those knots.

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[DpropertyofR]

I will have to echo what some of the other ladies say here by stating that being bound allows me to surrender to what is happening, and that feeling is incredibly liberating. I don’t really have a preferred position. My Master seems to like a ball tie or just having both my arms and legs bound as I lie on my back or stomach. I am okay with all these. Not all women have the same level of flexibility, so I think that needs to be taken into account when executing more complicated ties/positions.