Should they read their subs posts?

[thetiesthatbindme]

If a D has an online s they met on lit and talk outside this site,should they read/ comment on each other's posts on lit? Is it weird that your sub posts on threads you've liked/ commented on,but you've never like/commented on ANY of your subs posts.? Is it weird your sub follows u,but u don't follow them? Should the sub be hurt/worried/irritated?

 

[lilmissdarling]

Completely my opinion, but it's weird.

And they are entitled to feel however they do about it. Without any backlash.

 

[Utmale48]

If a D has an online s they met on lit and talk outside this site,should they read/ comment on each other's posts on lit? Is it weird that your sub posts on threads you've liked/ commented on,but you've never like/commented on ANY of your subs posts.? Is it weird your sub follows u,but u don't follow them? Should the sub be hurt/worried/irritated?

I think these are all very individual depending on the dynamic. If this is something that’s bothering the sub they should have an open honest conversation with their Dom. Just my opinion

 

[lilmissdarling]

The sub they should have an open honest conversation with their Dom. Just my opinion

I don't disagree.

I'm just saying if it were me in that situation. It seems like a red flag. And I would feel hurt/irritated by it.

 

[Utmale48]

I absolutely understand that for sure. In that situation it seems very one sided. Amd that’s not ok.

 

[Yarglenurp]

I don't disagree.

I'm just saying if it were me in that situation. It seems like a red flag. And I would feel hurt/irritated by it.

It would show a lack of concern, that’s for sure. The only exception is if the Dom just isn’t active at all. So if they have an account, technically, but don’t ever post or respond, then…. Not so weird, since it clearly doesn’t mean much to them anyways.

If the dom is active but not following the sub, then I assume it’s that the dom doesn’t really care that much.

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

Oh,he's active. He does follow her ( that's very recent), but never reacts to any of her posts,even though she purposely posts on threads he regularly likes/loves others posts.

 

[Utmale48]

Oh,he's active. He does follow her ( that's very recent), but never reacts to any of her posts,even though she purposely posts on threads he regularly likes/loves others posts.

Not gonna lie. This seems odd to me.

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

I absolutely understand that for sure. In that situation it seems very one sided. Amd that’s not ok.

Agreed

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

Not gonna lie. This seems odd to me.

Yeah,to me too

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

It's also odd when the Dom follows over 300 people..
But not his own sub..
He doesn't "like" their posts in open forums, only in private chat.

Hmmm

 

[Utmale48]

I would want to know all about my sub. What they are doing. What they are liking. All that stuff.

 

[13Fantasies]

I do find that odd.

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

It's also odd when the Dom follows over 300 people..
But not his own sub..
He doesn't "like" their posts in open forums, only in private chat.

Hmmm

Yeah,well I just ended things. He read my message,but didn't respond. That says it all I guess.

 

[Utmale48]

Yeah,well I just ended things. He read my message,but didn't respond. That says it all I guess.

awww. I’m sorry. That’s rough.

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

I would want to know all about my sub. What they are doing. What they are liking. All that stuff.

Yeah,I just messaged him. He read it but didn't respond...it's over now.
Thanks for all your advice and comments

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

awww. I’m sorry. That’s rough.

Thanks...it's OK u guys just confirmed what I already knew

 

[Yarglenurp]

Thanks...it's OK u guys just confirmed what I already knew

It’s not like there’s a dearth of men out there. Find someone better.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Ironic, i ended it with my Dom because i know i deserve better!

It's going to be hard and sad for you, i totally relate..
Take the time to heal.. But you're beautiful inside and outside, and you deserve the best Dom!!

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

Thanks,I will

 

[Boat1]

Thanks...it's OK u guys just confirmed what I already knew

I hadn't replied earlier, as it just seemed like there was some type of "pressure" on you, which I truly hope works out the very best way possible for you...
That's said, I'm actually honored that my Lovely Domme reads and follows my posts, as all I can ever say about Her is the truth, about how ABSOLUTELY PERFECT, She is to, for and with me!

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

Ironic, i ended it with my Dom because i know i deserve better!

It's going to be hard and sad for you, i totally relate..
Take the time to heal.. But you're beautiful inside and outside, and you deserve the best Dom!!

Awwwwe,thanks,so do you!

 

[thetiesthatbindme]

I hadn't replied earlier, as it just seemed like there was some type of "pressure" on you, which I truly hope works out the very best way possible for you...
That's said, I'm actually honored that my Lovely Domme reads and follows my posts, as all I can ever say about Her is the truth, about how ABSOLUTELY PERFECT, She is to, for and with me!

That's so sweet. All I want is to find a DD that I can devote myself to. You're both very lucky

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

My Dom follows you, but not me..i won't say who he is.. That's jr high on my part.

 

[Utmale48]

@thetiesthatbindme youre gonna be ok no doubt. And you will find the perfect Dom for you.