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I have a far from perfect body and as I have gotten older it has gotten hard to keep it even close to where I would like. I love that many of the women don't seem to mind a few imperfections and even like them. I am 5'11" tall and weigh 205 lbs, a 46 inch chest and a 34 inch waist (though I tend to buy 36 inch pants for work cause of sitting all day) so I am a bit soft around the middle, grow facial har down almost to my shirt collar and up to my cheekbones, so I don't meet your body builder pool boy image, and even if I could do it I am not sure I would want to. I would love to lose 20 lbs, but not at the expense of being happy or having fun, I like my pasta and sweets too much.
But I want to thank all of the women how have made us less than perfect men realize you still find us desirable and even find out faults another thing to love about us.
Carnus
But I want to thank all of the women how have made us less than perfect men realize you still find us desirable and even find out faults another thing to love about us.
Carnus
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better late than never.....
Being new has its disadvantages.... including getting in late on good threads.
Personally, I think I like a guy who (regardless of whatever physical "flaws") has his own sense of personal style. Be that wearing hawaiian shirts every day or the same baseball hat with everything (including a tuxedo) or the same pair of torn up vans tennis shoes since his 1987 skater days...or a guy who is dressed to the nines every moment of his life. Whatever it is that makes him unique and creates a personal style of his own...that turns me on.
And of course there is nothing sexier than a great conversationalist.
Personally I have always gravitated towards shy men (funny... I married an outgoing guy so...go figure). I have also gravitated towards men with at least a little something soft to grab onto. And if they come skinny... hell I have just fattened them up.
i also appreciate when a guy smells really good...mmmm... aqua de gio....
And I LOOOOOVE tattoos. The more tattoos (sleeved preverably) the better. Having a lot of tattoos myself I find that I like a guy with at least as many if not more.
I love men who are graying and men who wear glasses. I love guys who have big fingers and hands.
Damn... I just love guys! I mean seriously... I love everything about men. Particularly that little indention right where your tummy and thigh meet... damn that is HOT! Particularaly I like men who are naked and will let me enjoy looking at them..
Alas... I am married so many of my naked men are just those that exist in my mind these days. But hell... there is a lot to be said for the intimacy of manogamy.
OK... I just like all men I guess. lol
~WOK (Short, a little pear shaped with a little belly, tons of tattoos and athletic legs....lol... as far from barbie as they get)
Being new has its disadvantages.... including getting in late on good threads.
Personally, I think I like a guy who (regardless of whatever physical "flaws") has his own sense of personal style. Be that wearing hawaiian shirts every day or the same baseball hat with everything (including a tuxedo) or the same pair of torn up vans tennis shoes since his 1987 skater days...or a guy who is dressed to the nines every moment of his life. Whatever it is that makes him unique and creates a personal style of his own...that turns me on.
And of course there is nothing sexier than a great conversationalist.
Personally I have always gravitated towards shy men (funny... I married an outgoing guy so...go figure). I have also gravitated towards men with at least a little something soft to grab onto. And if they come skinny... hell I have just fattened them up.
i also appreciate when a guy smells really good...mmmm... aqua de gio....
And I LOOOOOVE tattoos. The more tattoos (sleeved preverably) the better. Having a lot of tattoos myself I find that I like a guy with at least as many if not more.
I love men who are graying and men who wear glasses. I love guys who have big fingers and hands.
Damn... I just love guys! I mean seriously... I love everything about men. Particularly that little indention right where your tummy and thigh meet... damn that is HOT! Particularaly I like men who are naked and will let me enjoy looking at them..
Alas... I am married so many of my naked men are just those that exist in my mind these days. But hell... there is a lot to be said for the intimacy of manogamy.
OK... I just like all men I guess. lol
~WOK (Short, a little pear shaped with a little belly, tons of tattoos and athletic legs....lol... as far from barbie as they get)
In the ideal world I like, I guess, the "ideal" woman, at least as a fantasy. There are two at work at the moment, one is 20ish fantastic to look at but dull as dishwater to talk to. The other is anywhere between 2 and 10 years older than me and while probably wouldnt constitue a bbw is not slim by any stretch of the imagination.
That said she is so pretty (I really hate that word, its soo twee) and as personality goes is right up my alley, as they say. I love talking to her, part of it is a match of opposites at least at a superficial level....
Sheesh I dunno I'm rambling, as ever on an anonymous board the chance to just let rip and go with what you actually think.
That said she is so pretty (I really hate that word, its soo twee) and as personality goes is right up my alley, as they say. I love talking to her, part of it is a match of opposites at least at a superficial level....
Sheesh I dunno I'm rambling, as ever on an anonymous board the chance to just let rip and go with what you actually think.
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Nice to hear a man talk like this. Makes me veel very sexy at the moment. If you're ever in the Midwest.....
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I suppose this is somewhat contrary to the spirit of this thread, but I'd like your indulgence to post this anyway.
What I like most about my lover's body is that it's attached to her.
Now, to get back into the spirit of the thread: what I notice most about women I see out in public is confidence in their skin, caring for their physical well-being (though not the near-anorexics who spend three hours a day on the treadmill and then drink a high-protein carrot juice for their daily nutrition), and great eyes.
As for shape, small breasts usually appeal far more often than large (despite the note in my profile) and i like to see a womanly curve at the hip. Women who approach middle age (or worse, get there this way) with the hips of a middle-school cheerleader simply don't appeal to me. One of the most sensual parts of a woman's body is the curve down from her ass to the small of her back. Ummm, I could nuzzle that slight downy spot and breathe in the aroma for hours.
What I like most about my lover's body is that it's attached to her.
Now, to get back into the spirit of the thread: what I notice most about women I see out in public is confidence in their skin, caring for their physical well-being (though not the near-anorexics who spend three hours a day on the treadmill and then drink a high-protein carrot juice for their daily nutrition), and great eyes.
As for shape, small breasts usually appeal far more often than large (despite the note in my profile) and i like to see a womanly curve at the hip. Women who approach middle age (or worse, get there this way) with the hips of a middle-school cheerleader simply don't appeal to me. One of the most sensual parts of a woman's body is the curve down from her ass to the small of her back. Ummm, I could nuzzle that slight downy spot and breathe in the aroma for hours.
I like women who are natural, no store bought additions, thank you very much. I like a woman who is not the skin and bones type. a soft and curvy lady. Btw, I found my lady on Lit, and she isperfect for me....everything I like in a woman and morePinkOrchid said:There seem to be a few posts that, at least indirectly, have to do with people having a body type (or related issue) that does not fit into the barbie doll/ken doll models of perfection. So I thought maybe start a thread where people could post things they like in bodies that don't fit into these types.
This isn't a place to say what you don't like (ok, so I'm looking for a little fluff here), but rather things that you like that defy trendiness and often unrealistic expectations.
I'll start.
On men, I love guys with a little pot belly and I also like average to smaller penises
On women, I think big butts are beautiful.
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I like women who have small tits the smaller the better, have some meat on them not to much but someone who i can hug and not feel like i'm going to break.
A girl how can make me laugh and to just like to talk, have a home cooked meal then a movie at home and cuddle up on the couch.
A girl how can make me laugh and to just like to talk, have a home cooked meal then a movie at home and cuddle up on the couch.
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PinkOrchid said:There seem to be a few posts that, at least indirectly, have to do with people having a body type (or related issue) that does not fit into the barbie doll/ken doll models of perfection. So I thought maybe start a thread where people could post things they like in bodies that don't fit into these types.
This isn't a place to say what you don't like (ok, so I'm looking for a little fluff here), but rather things that you like that defy trendiness and often unrealistic expectations.
I'll start.
On men, I love guys with a little pot belly and I also like average to smaller penises
On women, I think big butts are beautiful.
I think I'm strange as body type ,age,race ,hair colour etc mean nothing to me at all & I feel that I have had a wonderful mix from small & petite to BBW with just about every combination in between. I guess I'd describe my likes as ladies......
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I found it facinating that so many people do not have the "10" mentality in being attracted to the opposite sex. I always thought that I was weird that way.
I feel that the woman's form is so beautiful in MANY shapes and sizes. There are so many parts of a woman's body that can turn my head. If I had to pick one or two things that attract me immediately it would be legs and smile. How she dresses is obviously very important.
I have always believed that sexy is an attitude and not a shape. A woman that is confident, dresses sexy with a nice smile, bright eyes and a friendly voice can cause me to immediately mentally undress her, pretty much regardless of height or weight. I do prefer small to medium sized breasts but breasts are far down the list from things I find attractive. Let me reprhase that - breast size and shape aren't that important to me. Let me try that again, breast size and shape .... Oh forget it, I like all breasts. Long hair also turns me on.
After first impressions, they have to be intelligent and kind though to keep that sexy aura. I could NEVER understand how some men find the dumb blonde, brunette or redhead image sexy no matter how attractive they were.
I found it facinating that so many people do not have the "10" mentality in being attracted to the opposite sex. I always thought that I was weird that way.
I feel that the woman's form is so beautiful in MANY shapes and sizes. There are so many parts of a woman's body that can turn my head. If I had to pick one or two things that attract me immediately it would be legs and smile. How she dresses is obviously very important.
I have always believed that sexy is an attitude and not a shape. A woman that is confident, dresses sexy with a nice smile, bright eyes and a friendly voice can cause me to immediately mentally undress her, pretty much regardless of height or weight. I do prefer small to medium sized breasts but breasts are far down the list from things I find attractive. Let me reprhase that - breast size and shape aren't that important to me. Let me try that again, breast size and shape .... Oh forget it, I like all breasts. Long hair also turns me on.
After first impressions, they have to be intelligent and kind though to keep that sexy aura. I could NEVER understand how some men find the dumb blonde, brunette or redhead image sexy no matter how attractive they were.
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I think that 'by definition' my build could be discribed as "barby-doll" ...which is not so disireable if you are a man! (Okay, i'm much smaler around the chest...)
My second look at women is always on their shoes: The clothing tells much about a person, but her (or his) shoes tell nearly everything about her character...
(Okay, i'm much smaler around the chest...)My second look at women is always on their shoes: The clothing tells much about a person, but her (or his) shoes tell nearly everything about her character...
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I've got two favourite body types... if we're talking eye candy...my instinct takes me to tall, dark and handsome...atleast 6', brown hair, brown eyes, even various shades of dark skin. But that's just eye candy.
If we're talking my fav body type for real life 'relationship' guys...I love what ever body type comes with the man that captures my heart....he can be the eye candy type, but he's just as likely to have blonde hair, blue eyes, be fair, and balding (like my ex husband was), or my height, dark and quite thin, or a younger looking Santa Claus, or middle age, balding and slighty over weight. If the person is right (and that's got nothing to do with body shape) and there's some chemistry....my rose coloured glasses make him absolutely gorgeous.
If we're talking my fav body type for real life 'relationship' guys...I love what ever body type comes with the man that captures my heart....he can be the eye candy type, but he's just as likely to have blonde hair, blue eyes, be fair, and balding (like my ex husband was), or my height, dark and quite thin, or a younger looking Santa Claus, or middle age, balding and slighty over weight. If the person is right (and that's got nothing to do with body shape) and there's some chemistry....my rose coloured glasses make him absolutely gorgeous.
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Originally posted by Gil_T2
HO HO HO...
I LOVE Ghristmas Gil....and just what present is Santa going to leave me?
*does that answer your question?*I love a guy with meat on his bones...
My guy has to have some meat on his bones-lol. I love broad shoulders and chests, strong legs and hands. I don't like bones poking me. I like my guys big! My husband is probably 230 pounds, 6' 1". He satisfies me entirely!!!!
My guy has to have some meat on his bones-lol. I love broad shoulders and chests, strong legs and hands. I don't like bones poking me. I like my guys big! My husband is probably 230 pounds, 6' 1". He satisfies me entirely!!!!
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wicked woman said:I LOVE Ghristmas Gil....and just what present is Santa going to leave me?
Ummm just thinking I do have a Santa suit & if I had a digital camera I could do a special pic for you but alas I don't have one but be sure Santa does take care of GOOD girls
& especially interested in BAD girls to So cum sit on Santa's now is this where I put lap or face
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Originally posted by Gil_T2
Ummm just thinking I do have a Santa suit & if I had a digital camera I could do a special pic for you but alas I don't have one but be sure Santa does take care of GOOD girls
Now now Gil...don't hijack the thread!
*but thanks for the giggle...and my name tells you which I am*
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OK the thread is virtually dead....
Gil!!!!! You dirty old Santa!!!! I
love it!!! Where did you find that pic of me?????
Gil!!!!! You dirty old Santa!!!! I
love it!!! Where did you find that pic of me?????I want to post something here because I want to make a point.
I am a very muscular and somewhat tall woman. 5'8, about 190, and because of my job, I weight train constantly. I have no desire to be petite or small. I have always, always wanted a tall, big man that when I came home from protecting others, I could let go and feel protected myself. I have always dated guys who have been 6'4 240, for example. I have always been attracted to very tall, very intelligent, and somewhat big men (to dominate, snicker).
Now I am dating ... a small man. He's taller than me, 5'11 or so, but he weighs about 170, wears smaller (or sometimes the same) sized jeans as me, and I do pushups with him on my back. haha! That's no joke. The thing is... I love this guy. He isn't anything at all like I imagined my mate being, he's light haired and light skinned, I normally like dark hair and tanned or darker skin...there is a country song that reminds me of us, and I don't remember the name, but the one line in it says.. "It wasn't love at first sight.. but the moment I looked twice."
Anyway, I love reading the posts about people who say the body type they love is the one that's attached to their mate. I used to be very self conscious about being bigger than all the teeny girls around me, but when I let that go and became proud of my body, everything in my world changed. My baby loves me this way, and so do I. Besides, I take a little bit of pride in that those teeny girls will need to call me when they need a little help.
I am a very muscular and somewhat tall woman. 5'8, about 190, and because of my job, I weight train constantly. I have no desire to be petite or small. I have always, always wanted a tall, big man that when I came home from protecting others, I could let go and feel protected myself. I have always dated guys who have been 6'4 240, for example. I have always been attracted to very tall, very intelligent, and somewhat big men (to dominate, snicker).
Now I am dating ... a small man. He's taller than me, 5'11 or so, but he weighs about 170, wears smaller (or sometimes the same) sized jeans as me, and I do pushups with him on my back. haha! That's no joke. The thing is... I love this guy. He isn't anything at all like I imagined my mate being, he's light haired and light skinned, I normally like dark hair and tanned or darker skin...there is a country song that reminds me of us, and I don't remember the name, but the one line in it says.. "It wasn't love at first sight.. but the moment I looked twice."
Anyway, I love reading the posts about people who say the body type they love is the one that's attached to their mate. I used to be very self conscious about being bigger than all the teeny girls around me, but when I let that go and became proud of my body, everything in my world changed. My baby loves me this way, and so do I. Besides, I take a little bit of pride in that those teeny girls will need to call me when they need a little help.
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niviene said:I want to post something here because I want to make a point.
I am a very muscular and somewhat tall woman. 5'8, about 190, and because of my job, I weight train constantly. I have no desire to be petite or small. I have always, always wanted a tall, big man that when I came home from protecting others, I could let go and feel protected myself. I have always dated guys who have been 6'4 240, for example. I have always been attracted to very tall, very intelligent, and somewhat big men (to dominate, snicker).
Now I am dating ... a small man. He's taller than me, 5'11 or so, but he weighs about 170, wears smaller (or sometimes the same) sized jeans as me, and I do pushups with him on my back. haha! That's no joke. The thing is... I love this guy. He isn't anything at all like I imagined my mate being, he's light haired and light skinned, I normally like dark hair and tanned or darker skin...there is a country song that reminds me of us, and I don't remember the name, but the one line in it says.. "It wasn't love at first sight.. but the moment I looked twice."
Anyway, I love reading the posts about people who say the body type they love is the one that's attached to their mate. I used to be very self conscious about being bigger than all the teeny girls around me, but when I let that go and became proud of my body, everything in my world changed. My baby loves me this way, and so do I. Besides, I take a little bit of pride in that those teeny girls will need to call me when they need a little help.
WOW what a fantastic post you have here....& I guess life has been difficult for you with your size seeking out the type you desired but this is something I don't suffer as I've alway found some interest in a lady & body type etc just don't come into it at all seeing I've had ladies from tiny petite to Amazon like to BBW & all have held the same amount of desire to me.To me I find honest & open ladies very sexy an example is I dated a lady5ft1in tall then a lady 6ft3in tall & I'm told I'm about 5ft8in tall & both held my heart the same.
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wicked woman said:OK the thread is virtually dead....
Gil!!!!! You dirty old Santa!!!! I
HeHeHe I think you should just get over Santas knee & I'll make that bottom shine a little more to my liking
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I'm a big frickin guy
Its weird but i'm 6'3, 265 pounds, an above average sized penis...but i love all women. Big, small, tall, short, it doesn't matter to me. as long as they keep themselves clean and have a nice shaved pussy(just a wish lol) i'm good.
Its weird but i'm 6'3, 265 pounds, an above average sized penis...but i love all women. Big, small, tall, short, it doesn't matter to me. as long as they keep themselves clean and have a nice shaved pussy(just a wish lol) i'm good.
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I would respond The mind makes a woman worth keeping.
Open to all sizes and shapes here again the attractive part is in the portrayal.
I tend to be attracted to flater to flat chested, medium built, middle aged women with confidence and a smile. Honestly I steer away from the "10" nothing wholsome in my experience unless they have been humbled. Then they lack confidence catch 22.
Some of the most outgoing erotic women I know are heavier set and that too is attractive.
Mental games that is what this thread is?
My goal or respect as a male is George Clooney I think he has a sex appeal. I admire, not lust.
Open to all sizes and shapes here again the attractive part is in the portrayal.
I tend to be attracted to flater to flat chested, medium built, middle aged women with confidence and a smile. Honestly I steer away from the "10" nothing wholsome in my experience unless they have been humbled. Then they lack confidence catch 22.
Some of the most outgoing erotic women I know are heavier set and that too is attractive.
Mental games that is what this thread is?
My goal or respect as a male is George Clooney I think he has a sex appeal. I admire, not lust.
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Re: Body types
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I like women who are meaty. Breast size isn't really as much of an issue as nipple size. I love big nipples.
I like men who are meaty also. Manly kind of huggable bear kind of guys.
And I love a big ass on both men and women.
Shescurious [/QUOTE]
Reading through this thread you wouldn't believe how many insecurities were put to ease. As a girl with a little buddha-belly, big spanish ass (on a pretty pale girl.. hmm..) and rather large breasts.
I just have to say that I have always been extremely shy about the size of my nipples, and thought they were too big. But seeing now that it can be actually a turn on I think relieves me a bit.
I think true beauty is all in the way that one carries themselves. Its a bit strage, but I like girls who you can tell is shy by their body movement, and seem so reserved until they're behind closed doors. Also the shape of a womans eyebrows. I think the arch in the eyebrow is what makes the eyes so intruiging.
What turns me on about men is the shape of their backs. Like each and every contour to a mans back and how the muscles flow whiles they're moving about. Watching that alone could have me fall into orgasmic shudders.
Yeh, so I have strange turn ons?
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I like women who are meaty. Breast size isn't really as much of an issue as nipple size. I love big nipples.
I like men who are meaty also. Manly kind of huggable bear kind of guys.
And I love a big ass on both men and women.
Shescurious [/QUOTE]
Reading through this thread you wouldn't believe how many insecurities were put to ease. As a girl with a little buddha-belly, big spanish ass (on a pretty pale girl.. hmm..) and rather large breasts.
I just have to say that I have always been extremely shy about the size of my nipples, and thought they were too big. But seeing now that it can be actually a turn on I think relieves me a bit.
I think true beauty is all in the way that one carries themselves. Its a bit strage, but I like girls who you can tell is shy by their body movement, and seem so reserved until they're behind closed doors. Also the shape of a womans eyebrows. I think the arch in the eyebrow is what makes the eyes so intruiging.
What turns me on about men is the shape of their backs. Like each and every contour to a mans back and how the muscles flow whiles they're moving about. Watching that alone could have me fall into orgasmic shudders.
Yeh, so I have strange turn ons?
