bi-sexuality

[stratocaster]

I originally posted this on the personals page by mistake.

Ok, this one's for the ladies primarily, but guys are welcome to comment (homophob's can keep their opinions to themselves please).

We live in a day and age where bi-sexual activity is becoming more and more common,expecially among women. Most guys, myself included, love watching two girls get it on, it's taboo, sexy, erotic, etc.

But, what about two guys servicing each other? I'm not talking about gay sex, I'm talking about bi
activity in the presence of a woman. I've seen ads posted for this type of thing and have RP'd myslef on this subject. I'm curious to know what women really think about this. I get the impression that guy/guy sex doesn't have nearly the same effect on women as girl/girl sex has on guys.

What's your opinion? Does it turn you on? Turn you off? Have no effect on you? If it turns you on/off, why and in what way? What would you do if your boyfriend/spouse revealed a desire to have a bi threesome with another male, or perhaps a bi foursome with a male and female? If you respond, please indicate whether or not you your self are or have engaged in bi-activity.

Thanks,

Strat

 

[Jeff726]

I myself am not attracted to other guys and would not participate in anything involving another man, but I am not going to judge someone just because of something they enjoy. Live and let live I say.

I think one reason why guys enjoy f/f sex so much is because they can imagine themselves as being the woman who is servicing the other. That's why I like it so much.

Let people do what they want and leave the judging to God. Best way to live.



Jeff

 

[KillerMuffin]

Bisexual men are my particular fetish. I prefer them.

Somehow, though, I ended up with the StudMuffin. I still haven't figured that one out.

 

[Easy Boy]

Meaning of the words

I'm not talking about gay sex, I'm talking about bi
activity in the presence of a woman.

Sounds like gay sex to me, if she's just present. Now if she were to jump in, that would be bi sex.

The way I see it, a bisexual man is one who can enjoy sex with a man (gay sex) or a woman (straight sex). He may not even like bisexual sex, if he doesn't care for threesomes or more.

 

[stratocaster]

Easy Boy, by presence, I was refering to the woman taking part in the sex. Should have made that more clear.

Your comment was "The way I see it, a bisexual man is one who can enjoy sex with a man (gay sex) or a woman (straight sex)."

EB, Gay is gay and bi is bi, you can't mix the two.

 

[KillerMuffin]

A bisexual is someone who is sexually attracted and willing to have sex with either gender. You can be bi and have sex with only a woman or only a man. Both genders need not be present for the sex to be bisexual, since it isn't really bisexual sex. The bisexuality is inside the person, not in the act of mating.

 

[Easy Boy]

Huh?

Gay is gay and bi is bi, you can't mix the two.

I'm not following you, stratocaster. Why can't you mix? What about a bisexual man who decides that really he's gay, or vice versa? Sounds like mixing. Is there a difference between switching and mixing? To be bisexual is to switch, or at least be open to the possibility of switching.

I like KillerMuffin's point of view. We don't need to label sexual activity as bi.

 

[Guest]

KillerMuffin, I wanted to start my post by saying Thank You. Many times I have tried to explain what you just said to others. They just don't seem to get it. I especially loved how you said that the bisexuality is inside the person... It is a big pet peeve of mine when someone asked me "So, how long have you been bi?" or "When did you turn bi?" ~sigh~ Anyway, enough of that. This thread wasn't so much about that. To answer the question, I find "man on man" love to be very erotic and sexy. I love watching "gay" porns and I love watching MMF 3somes. I also, have been involved in MMF 3somes and have loved them.

 

[KillerMuffin]

Me 2!!!!

I'm on my way to your house now Tiggsy, I'll bring the popcorn... (just kiddin)

I love watching two men having alot of fun together. I wish there were more bi sites with guys instead of mostly just gay sites. I almost feel filthy when I see a gay site, like I'm not supposed to be there cause I'm female. Somehow I get the impression that they don't want to share there sex with me cause I'm a girl.

 

[Guest]

I know what you mean. On AOL, Omaha (my home town) has its own chat room. There is also an OmahaM4M room!! I love going there, but after a while the boys don't wanna talk to the girl anymore. Hell, I even offered to put on my strap on if it meant they would talk to me! lol

 

[Weinergirl]

As I understand it I am considered a bi-sexual woman. I have relationships with men and women that sometimes include sex relations. It's always been that way for me. I never knew what bi or gay was. You either liked guys, girls, or both in my mind. No big deal. I found a person I love and who loves me without stipulations. That person is a man. My dh (dear hubby) is hetero-ladies only. He knows one of my fantasies is to be in a MMF and I absolutely love to watch men be intimate with each other on that level; I watch gay porn on occassion-he has seen it but didn't get turned on like I did/do. Because it is a fantasy of mine and dh wants to see me enjoy myself with another man we are open to a MMF when and if we meet the person we are both comfortable with. If I were not there my dh would leave.


I'm also right handed, Taurus, a half and half ice cream lover, a cat person, not a visual learner for all those label nuts.
What's the deal with all these labels ? No one seems to understand them anyway?!

Wg

 

[dancinvixen]

Ok, coming from a bisexual woman <g> I think that for me it would be an ultimate turn on. I am both an exhibitionist/voyeur at heart. In fact, this is one of my greatest fantasies. Why is it that guys refuse to even try???