It's pretty well known that men get turned on by watching two women pleasing each other. Do women think it's erotic seeing two men together? Or have you ever had thoughts of sharing your husband/boyfriend with another man? Although my wife and I have talked about this during an intense sexual evening, we as yet have not crossed that line. Please let me know what you think.
Bi curious in Jax, Fl. Do women enjoy watching and /or participating?
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Thoughts have crossed my mind
Yes the thoughts have definitely crossed my mind. Many times. However, I am like you in the sense I have never even tried to act on them. But it is a fantasy of mine. I would have no desire for a one on one with a man. But if a woman was present it could be so hot. Also, I have never discussed this with wife. She would not see the attraction. So it's my secret I guess. If interested in contacting me send me a note. I travel to your area often and we're about the same age range.
Yes the thoughts have definitely crossed my mind. Many times. However, I am like you in the sense I have never even tried to act on them. But it is a fantasy of mine. I would have no desire for a one on one with a man. But if a woman was present it could be so hot. Also, I have never discussed this with wife. She would not see the attraction. So it's my secret I guess. If interested in contacting me send me a note. I travel to your area often and we're about the same age range.
i'm in the same boat as niceman,,, wife isn't into it, or much else really 
but have been curious about it for awhile,, i'd like to talk more about it if you like, check my profile and let me know,, ya never know what might develope,, although i'm starting to get very discouraged
but have been curious about it for awhile,, i'd like to talk more about it if you like, check my profile and let me know,, ya never know what might develope,, although i'm starting to get very discouraged
Hi there niceman4u
I'm sorry to hear that you and your wife can't discuss the matter. Although my wife and I have talked about getting another man involve, it seems to actually be more of a fantasy we can openly talk about during sex than a subject that you would sit down over a drink relaxing and discuss. I'm not sure that she is really wanting it as much as I am. I'm to the point now though that the talk and the fantasy has me wondering if I would enjoy it without her or another woman there reguardless. The urge is becoming very strong to just be with a guy. I understand what you said about not being able to go one on one with just another man, I have felt that way also. But recently the desire is overcoming those boundries. Thanks for writing and the input.
I'm sorry to hear that you and your wife can't discuss the matter. Although my wife and I have talked about getting another man involve, it seems to actually be more of a fantasy we can openly talk about during sex than a subject that you would sit down over a drink relaxing and discuss. I'm not sure that she is really wanting it as much as I am. I'm to the point now though that the talk and the fantasy has me wondering if I would enjoy it without her or another woman there reguardless. The urge is becoming very strong to just be with a guy. I understand what you said about not being able to go one on one with just another man, I have felt that way also. But recently the desire is overcoming those boundries. Thanks for writing and the input.
Hey Toker
I guess you can see where I stand by reading the reply I gave to niceman4u. I too have just about gotten discourged, but that isn't going to stop me from exploring this part of myself. I would enjoy getting more of your views and background on this though. One fantasy my wife and I have gotten into is "cleaning her up" after another man has filled her. Again though, this seems as though it will remain a fantasy. I think she is a little insecure about either having another man with us or that I may enjoy it too much and want to just to be with men afterward. Whaterver the case, I like women too much to change completly. But I am curious and this will stay with me until I have an answer. And I will eventually find out, this I know. What do you think?
I guess you can see where I stand by reading the reply I gave to niceman4u. I too have just about gotten discourged, but that isn't going to stop me from exploring this part of myself. I would enjoy getting more of your views and background on this though. One fantasy my wife and I have gotten into is "cleaning her up" after another man has filled her. Again though, this seems as though it will remain a fantasy. I think she is a little insecure about either having another man with us or that I may enjoy it too much and want to just to be with men afterward. Whaterver the case, I like women too much to change completly. But I am curious and this will stay with me until I have an answer. And I will eventually find out, this I know. What do you think?
Sounds as if ...
hey licurthing ... sounds to me like you have decided to have sex with a man. I have wondered at times. I still think it would be much hotter to have a woman there to play along. That ain't going to happen with my wife, I am sure of that. And it sounds as if you're in that same boat. But I still don't think I want to be exclusively intimate with a man. I would love to explore sucking a man's cock, but only in a very horny environment. Don't know I could get myself to that level of excitement just one on one. With a woman you kiss and all the foreplay but with a man what do you do other than just being sucking and licking? And the big question for me is the danger involved. My fear of disease is much greater than my horniest fantasy in this area. how do you know the guy you get hooked up with isn't one who has had many lovers and thus a large health risk?
hey licurthing ... sounds to me like you have decided to have sex with a man. I have wondered at times. I still think it would be much hotter to have a woman there to play along. That ain't going to happen with my wife, I am sure of that. And it sounds as if you're in that same boat. But I still don't think I want to be exclusively intimate with a man. I would love to explore sucking a man's cock, but only in a very horny environment. Don't know I could get myself to that level of excitement just one on one. With a woman you kiss and all the foreplay but with a man what do you do other than just being sucking and licking? And the big question for me is the danger involved. My fear of disease is much greater than my horniest fantasy in this area. how do you know the guy you get hooked up with isn't one who has had many lovers and thus a large health risk?
Niceman I agree...
The thought of just a man isn't as much of a turn on as having a woman there for the excitement. I can't see myself kissing or doing a lot of things with a man the way I would with a woman. Don't get me wrong, I think all people, men and women, are beautiful, it's just I can't see myself getting worked up with a man the way I would with a woman. As far as the dangers of having sex with another man, well that's true with anyone these days, precautions will always have to be taken. You can't be sure of anyone who you don't know. That is the scary part. As much as I may fantasize about having a cock in my mouth, I ain't dying for it. Thanks for the thoughts. I still haven't heard from any women answering my original question though. Would the thought of seeing two men enjoying themselves be a turn on in watching or would it be better if the woman was involved and sharing the experance?
The thought of just a man isn't as much of a turn on as having a woman there for the excitement. I can't see myself kissing or doing a lot of things with a man the way I would with a woman. Don't get me wrong, I think all people, men and women, are beautiful, it's just I can't see myself getting worked up with a man the way I would with a woman. As far as the dangers of having sex with another man, well that's true with anyone these days, precautions will always have to be taken. You can't be sure of anyone who you don't know. That is the scary part. As much as I may fantasize about having a cock in my mouth, I ain't dying for it. Thanks for the thoughts. I still haven't heard from any women answering my original question though. Would the thought of seeing two men enjoying themselves be a turn on in watching or would it be better if the woman was involved and sharing the experance?
LOL,, licurthng & niceman,, you both have taken my thoughts and put them here,, 
the thought of kissing a man don't do a thing for me, i mean NOTHING !!
and the mfm thing would be my ideal way of trying it, with a couple that were maybe kinda experenced at it,, the std issue is always there, can you just imagine having to tell wife you got an std,,,,,, shit, makes my ass pucker-up so tight you could'nt get a pine straw needle up there
but the thought of holding a cock in my hand, feeling it throb, licking the head and shaft,, slowly take the head into my mouth and just letting it slide in,, then start to work it in and out as i pump my hand up and down the shaft,, pulling on his ball sac or maybe even pokeing my finger around his asshole, and yes, i might even try licking his hole, feel it twitching on the tip of my tounge as i jerk him off, his cum covers my hand,, my fingers pinching the slippery head, takeing some of his cum and rubbing it on his asshole,,
but here's the problem,, where in the hell am i gonna find a couple, or guy, with a safe place to shower and lay around naked getting used to it, then getting past the std issue,{ i detest comdoms,, hate them fuckers } and then try to explain to wife where i've been for the last 3 or 4 hours,,,,, shit, gives me a fuck'n headache LOL.....
just a brain fart i had..............
the thought of kissing a man don't do a thing for me, i mean NOTHING !!
and the mfm thing would be my ideal way of trying it, with a couple that were maybe kinda experenced at it,, the std issue is always there, can you just imagine having to tell wife you got an std,,,,,, shit, makes my ass pucker-up so tight you could'nt get a pine straw needle up there
but the thought of holding a cock in my hand, feeling it throb, licking the head and shaft,, slowly take the head into my mouth and just letting it slide in,, then start to work it in and out as i pump my hand up and down the shaft,, pulling on his ball sac or maybe even pokeing my finger around his asshole, and yes, i might even try licking his hole, feel it twitching on the tip of my tounge as i jerk him off, his cum covers my hand,, my fingers pinching the slippery head, takeing some of his cum and rubbing it on his asshole,,
but here's the problem,, where in the hell am i gonna find a couple, or guy, with a safe place to shower and lay around naked getting used to it, then getting past the std issue,{ i detest comdoms,, hate them fuckers } and then try to explain to wife where i've been for the last 3 or 4 hours,,,,, shit, gives me a fuck'n headache LOL.....
just a brain fart i had..............
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TWB said:
speak for yourself twb hehehe
I for one have been in overdrive with thoughts of watching 2 men together. Tasting, touching and fucking.
Thanks for the input folks
TWB...thanks for the opinion, nobody's wrong here.
Toker, it sounds like you have had these thoughts for quite a while and pretty much know what you want but can't get the time or place to make it happen. Too bad we can't get together with Shy Girl and give her a good show, huh.
Hey Shy Girl, you ever had the oppertunity to get in on something like this or is it just a fantasy? Would you like to just watch or be an active participant in a hot 3-way suck and fuck if you ever got the chance?
TWB...thanks for the opinion, nobody's wrong here.
Toker, it sounds like you have had these thoughts for quite a while and pretty much know what you want but can't get the time or place to make it happen. Too bad we can't get together with Shy Girl and give her a good show, huh.
Hey Shy Girl, you ever had the oppertunity to get in on something like this or is it just a fantasy? Would you like to just watch or be an active participant in a hot 3-way suck and fuck if you ever got the chance?
i've thought about what it would be like to have a small cock, like mine slowly slide in my ass, real slow ya know,, then feeling it pump a little faster, ...........
then to feel the cock swell as hot cum shoots into my ass, i wonder if it can be felt, the hot cum, as the cock slowly slips out,,
or sometimes maybe just the head in my ass as he jerks-off, then him cumming on my cock, starting at the top and running down to my balls.........
slowly slide in my ass, real slow ya know,, then feeling it pump a little faster, ...........then to feel the cock swell as hot cum shoots into my ass, i wonder if it can be felt, the hot cum, as the cock slowly slips out,,
or sometimes maybe just the head in my ass as he jerks-off, then him cumming on my cock, starting at the top and running down to my balls.........
Thanks Toker
I too have had the same thoughts as what you have mentioned. That I think would be a wonderful feeling. I have even had the fantasy of having two guys, one at each end, at the same time. maybe one day I will have the chance to have that "full" feeling.
And thanks for encourging others to chime in here. Cum on everybody, I know we arn't the only ones out here with these thoughts. Ladies, still looking for to hear from more of you and what you think on this subject.
I too have had the same thoughts as what you have mentioned. That I think would be a wonderful feeling. I have even had the fantasy of having two guys, one at each end, at the same time. maybe one day I will have the chance to have that "full" feeling.
And thanks for encourging others to chime in here. Cum on everybody, I know we arn't the only ones out here with these thoughts. Ladies, still looking for to hear from more of you and what you think on this subject.
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This is an interesting question. I have had a 4some with another couple, but the guys didn't do anything to each other. I don't really think it would do anything for me but I have never given it much thought. I would like to try a mfm just because I want to experience double pentration. I don't think it would gross me out to see the guys playing but I might feel left out and wonder where I fit in. What role do you see the woman playing in this experience?
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