Being felt up

[Freya]

Fondly remembering the 22 year old...and wishing there was more to the story......

BTW....are your plans for tonite still in tact Freya?

For the most part they are - heading out with friends to do some dancing and drinking and general noisemaking - with any luck, I'll experience being felt up as well.

 

[TWB]

Here's to being felt up, in the good way.

Cheers!

 

[Aphrodisiac]

lol... ahh I need that more than you can ever imagine

I just had to .... an urge I could not resist.....

 

[Guest]

I just had to .... an urge I could not resist.....

I don't think anyone should resist their urges

 

[Lancecastor]

Thats different and welcome.

Being sick and having a hand on your boob still is not affection.

Well then I go back to my first post....here's the play by play:

Miss Grumpy Boobs is feeling sick and wasn't in the mood to be felt up.

Mr. Got His Weiner Slapped then tried to repackage his unwelcome feel as "affection".

Grumpy boobs, slapped weiners....it's all very sad. :-(

I suggest you go wash some dishes in an apron to clear things up.

Dr. Love

 

[Mia62]

But if your are supposedly comforting me and your hand goes to my boob, it aint affection.

Maybe this is something that should have been discussed between the perceived groper and yourself in private, yes?

 

[Belilica]

I've also had other guys where you'd swear they were testing the firmness of a side of beef.

That would be a friend of mine.... and he knows it's not OK.

 

[Rambrat]

That would be a friend of mine.... and he knows it's not OK.

Friends are allowed to grope you?!

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Be it in a relationship or not, is the same.

If someone hands are groping your body, its being felt up.

Just because you say you love them does not make it affection, at least in my opinion.


What do you think?

If the woman knows me, it is affection...if she doesn't know me, it is a fantasy...lol...

 

[Belilica]

Well, they kinda are (shhh... don't tell him!) but not the way he does it!

 

[Rambrat]

Well, they kinda are (shhh... don't tell him!) but not the way he does it!

so, how long have we been friends?

 

[Belilica]

*giggle*

Long enough to be....?

 

[TigerClaw]

Hmmmm, all this groping, feeling up, affection is getting my tail a twitchin.

I just love grabbing my woman and hugging her close and emphasizing my words with holds and touches. I dont consider it being felt up. Someone close thinks this is being "felt up".

GRRRRrrrrrrrrrrr

I for one put my vote for showing affection and fondness of the woman in my life.

Giving her pleasure with my touch and well as presence.

GRRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

[TigerClaw]

Maybe this is something that should have been discussed between the perceived groper and yourself in private, yes?

LOL, yes we have. It is not an arguement. So, what is your vote?

 

[TigerClaw]

maybe it was an action caused by habit?

Hmmmm, I like this one. Ok, I love to do it out of habit. Cats love to rub up against people they love and affectionately carress parts of the body...


GRRRRRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

[Lancecastor]

LOL, yes we have. It is not an arguement. So, what is your vote?

I vote for a spanking!

 

[Mia62]

To be honest, Tiger...

If I am feeling like crap, the last thing I want is for someone to grope me in a sexual way. To me, that is not foreplay...that is just plain annoying.

A hug...where his hands are rubbing my back or my shoulders or neck...provides all the necessary elements of affection and nurturing.

I think it may be a man/woman conundrum, tho. It is the same as having someone walk up to me and tweak a nipple when I am in the middle of something. That again is annoying not foreplay or comfort...no matter how he tries to spin it.

 

[svenmn]

For the most part they are - heading out with friends to do some dancing and drinking and general noisemaking - with any luck, I'll experience being felt up as well.

well if you clubbing in our area good chance you''d get felt up

Sven

 

[Killswitch]

Well then I go back to my first post....here's the play by play:

Miss Grumpy Boobs is feeling sick and wasn't in the mood to be felt up.

Mr. Got His Weiner Slapped then tried to repackage his unwelcome feel as "affection".

Grumpy boobs, slapped weiners....it's all very sad. :-(

I suggest you go wash some dishes in an apron to clear things up.

Dr. Love

Haiku Anyone?

Grumpy boobs slapped wieners
I suggest you do dishes
Wear a nice apron.

Im just pokin fun here...not dissing you LTR.

 

[Shaq]

I am not talking about a sexual groping,lol.

I mean, it was told to me, that once you are in a relationship, its no longer considered groping, its considered affection.

But if your are supposedly comforting me and your hand goes to my boob, it aint affection.

*delivers compassionate pat on back*

 

[lovetoread]

 

[Sillyman]

While I believe being able to grope your partner now and then is a perk of a relationship, the breast is not the first place I would go for when trying to be comforting, no.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Maybe this is something that should have been discussed between the perceived groper and yourself in private, yes?

Cath, I am shaking my head in disbelief here. Who are you to advise anyone that something should be kept private? Just because you fancy yourself to have inside knowledge of this particular situation doesn't give you the right or the leeway to come off as sanctimonious under some do-gooder guise.

What a crock. I wish you'd kept 1/10th of your actions and feelings private but I've managed to keep my trap pretty well sealed up to now. You've strewn this board with more of your personal shit than a runaway Roto Rooter.

 

[Mia62]

Before you insert your feet any further into your mouth, RR...you may want to know that I had discussed things in private with ltr and neither her nor Tiger were upset with my genuine concern...but thank you for your sanctimonious concern.

You may wish to edit the above post seeing as how I have not quoted it.

 

[Rambling Rose]

Nope. I considered talking to you about this privately, but I stand by my original reaction.

Happy New Year.