Ask Me A Question v. 1.9.19

Three and a half years ago I grabbed a book from a stack and never returned it. Best book I’ve ever read and I’m gonna keep it.

What question do you really want the answer to?

Should I stay or should I go now?

After all, If I go there will be trouble, and if I stay it will be double

So come on and let me know . . .

Would you have an affair, if you knew no one would ever find out?
 
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Should I stay or should I go now?

After all, If I go there will be trouble, and if I stay it will be double

So come on and let me know . . .

Would you have an affair, if you knew no one would ever find out?

Yes. And I would hope my wife would do the same (and she knows that).

Is it still an affair if there are no emotions, just sex?
 
Yes. And I would hope my wife would do the same (and she knows that).

Is it still an affair if there are no emotions, just sex?

One’s conscience should have that answer, I believe.

Do you feel pangs if guilt over any past indiscretions?
 
One’s conscience should have that answer, I believe.

Do you feel pangs if guilt over any past indiscretions?

Hmmmm...that’s a hard question to answer. I guess I would go with yes- I have moments of feeling some guilt. But they aren’t a constant and I don’t let them overtake me. Things that I do are my choices and I own them. And the few things that I have guilt about were AMAZING moments that I cherish...

How do you deal with your emotions? Like do you have a defense mechanism that you automatically go to?
 
Hmmmm...that’s a hard question to answer. I guess I would go with yes- I have moments of feeling some guilt. But they aren’t a constant and I don’t let them overtake me. Things that I do are my choices and I own them. And the few things that I have guilt about were AMAZING moments that I cherish...

How do you deal with your emotions? Like do you have a defense mechanism that you automatically go to?

Repress. My mechanism is laughter at sometimes uncomfortable moments. Humor to deflect.

Do you often think of old lovers?
 
I do. I'm single, but I have had my share of fun.

Do you think you'll have sex in 2019 with someone you have not yet met?

I don’t think I’ll have sex with the guy who I sleep next to...so nope.

Do you have any hobbies that would considered unusual?
 
I don’t think I’ll have sex with the guy who I sleep next to...so nope.

Do you have any hobbies that would considered unusual?

hmm.. I have unusual things that I enjoy but no actual hobbies that I think are unusual. (the internet has a way of connecting threads)

How much value do you place in your daily horoscope?
 
hmm.. I have unusual things that I enjoy but no actual hobbies that I think are unusual. (the internet has a way of connecting threads)

How much value do you place in your daily horoscope?

Not much. I think if you're going to look at something like that, you need to look at the whole chart/placement of planets, etc.

Do you buy locally or shop at box stores?
 
Not much. I think if you're going to look at something like that, you need to look at the whole chart/placement of planets, etc.

Do you buy locally or shop at box stores?

Whenever possible I buy local, and luckily my town has pretty much everything that I need sans big box guilt. Lots of independently owned shops, restaurants and services are all within walking distance.

If you are a working stiff, how long is your average commute?
 
Whenever possible I buy local, and luckily my town has pretty much everything that I need sans big box guilt. Lots of independently owned shops, restaurants and services are all within walking distance.

If you are a working stiff, how long is your average commute?

I am lucky enough to make my own hours and miss rush hours - morning is about 35 minutes and afternoon is about 45 minutes. And I work from home on Fridays so from bed to the living room :)

If you could change one thing about your past what would you change?
 
I am lucky enough to make my own hours and miss rush hours - morning is about 35 minutes and afternoon is about 45 minutes. And I work from home on Fridays so from bed to the living room :)

If you could change one thing about your past what would you change?

I would want to have remembered at a gig in Hawaii to tell my Bass player that my tuner was screwed up and sometimes, if you don't smack it, it will lead you to tune a half step sharp. Huge fiasco - a seasoned player could have handled it, but none of us caught what was wrong until the first set fell apart, we got fired and it killed the rest of the circuit which would have ended up in Japan.

Have you ever had a disaster that could have been fixed just snowball out of control?
 
I would want to have remembered at a gig in Hawaii to tell my Bass player that my tuner was screwed up and sometimes, if you don't smack it, it will lead you to tune a half step sharp. Huge fiasco - a seasoned player could have handled it, but none of us caught what was wrong until the first set fell apart, we got fired and it killed the rest of the circuit which would have ended up in Japan.

Have you ever had a disaster that could have been fixed just snowball out of control?

I am, admittedly, far too controlling for that but I have seen that snowball from a distance. For me, it’s has been the unforeseen snowballs causing (small) avalanches. I hate it when that happens.

Is there someone in your life who corrects your grammar, offers unsolicited advice and similar?
 
I am, admittedly, far too controlling for that but I have seen that snowball from a distance. For me, it’s has been the unforeseen snowballs causing (small) avalanches. I hate it when that happens.

Is there someone in your life who corrects your grammar, offers unsolicited advice and similar?

Not the grammar - most of the people in my life know much less about grammar than I do (and I NEVER correct them), but there's always an abundance of unsolicited advice.

What do you think of Litsters who quote people just to correct their grammar?
 
Not the grammar - most of the people in my life know much less about grammar than I do (and I NEVER correct them), but there's always an abundance of unsolicited advice.

What do you think of Litsters who quote people just to correct their grammar?

It’s a fine line between witty banter, caustic replies and a smiley emoji.
Mean spiritedness is one thing. Expectations of literacy and language fluency vary.
I take to heart the Lit followed by Erotica. Smart is always sexy.


Ever driven a Corvette convertible?
 
It’s a fine line between witty banter, caustic replies and a smiley emoji.
Mean spiritedness is one thing. Expectations of literacy and language fluency vary.
I take to heart the Lit followed by Erotica. Smart is always sexy.


Ever driven a Corvette convertible?

No.

What is your dream vehicle for a x-country roadtrip?
 
Today.

Which place has impressed you the most?

In my recent past, Alcatraz has left the strongest impression, though I can't say it was positive.

What are you likely to do with the time if you wake up an hour early?
 
In my recent past, Alcatraz has left the strongest impression, though I can't say it was positive.

What are you likely to do with the time if you wake up an hour early?

Spend it here of course..

Do you think it is important to use one's time wisely?
 
Spend it here of course..

Do you think it is important to use one's time wisely?

Seems logical, but I’m the last person who will tell someone how to spend their free time.

Last time you awoke smiling from a great vivid dream and what were you dreaming about?
 
Last time you awoke smiling from a great vivid dream and what were you dreaming about?

I was dreaming about an old boyfriend I haven't seen in about twenty years. He was naked and hadn't aged a day!

Do you have any exes who would probably jump at the chance to have sex with you again if you suggested it?
 
I was dreaming about an old boyfriend I haven't seen in about twenty years. He was naked and hadn't aged a day!

Do you have any exes who would probably jump at the chance to have sex with you again if you suggested it?

Yes, but I’m married so I wouldn’t suggest it.

If you’re single, would you jump at the chance to have sex with any of your married exes?
 
If you’re single, would you jump at the chance to have sex with any of your married exes?

Some exes, but never married ones.

In the past year or so, what is the longest you've gone between orgasms?
 
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