are you in a monogamous marriage?

[dominatrixjane]

are you in a monogamous marriage?

if yes

then please tell us the reasons why you choose to be monogamous.

thank you

 

[Salbertson]

are you in a monogamous marriage?

if yes

then please tell us the reasons why you choose to be monogamous.

thank you

Yes, because that's what it means to me to be married

Not judging anyone else but that's what we decided, otherwise we would just date

 

[JackOffer]

Hell no, and wouldn't want to be.

 

[screwher]

Yes I'm in a monogamous marriage. But my wife isn't. Just yesterday she had sex with another man with my full knowledge and approval. Our marriage evolved into a semi open, hotwife type relationship.

Throughout our marriage my wife cheated on me with a couple different men. The first time almost ruined our marriage. I was of a very different mindset then. But I forgave her and we moved on. Soon after her tryst started to arouse me as opposed to anger me. I started to fantasize about other men screwing her and desired for her to do it again. Last summer she confessed to doing it again. After that time I confessed to her my feelings which started our exciting new marriage.

 

[luckyseven]

Yes I'm in a monogamous marriage. But my wife isn't. Just yesterday she had sex with another man with my full knowledge and approval. Our marriage evolved into a semi open, hotwife type relationship.

Throughout our marriage my wife cheated on me with a couple different men. The first time almost ruined our marriage. I was of a very different mindset then. But I forgave her and we moved on. Soon after her tryst started to arouse me as opposed to anger me. I started to fantasize about other men screwing her and desired for her to do it again. Last summer she confessed to doing it again. After that time I confessed to her my feelings which started our exciting new marriage.

I've been there too. As there are no jealousy issues we have evolved in a similar direction. Some wives need to be satisfied sexually by many men.

 

[joelafayette]

.....

 

[screwher]

I've been there too. As there are no jealousy issues we have evolved in a similar direction. Some wives need to be satisfied sexually by many men.

Yes, Mrs. Screwher had limited experience before we got together. After years of monogamy she started getting sexually restless and curious of other men. So now here we are in hotwife type relationship.

 

[cfuhrer]

Yes.
Because I love only him and want to fuck only him.

 

[SissySalina]

No, that is the way She wants it and sissy loves Her so that is the way it will be.

 

[legsrus]

We've been married for 44 years & monogamous throughout.

When we first married Mrs Legs was very conservative, but by gently bringing out the sexy lady hidden in her, we haven't needed others. We've used oral, mutual masterbation, fantasy, role play, & my favourite, her dressing in stockings & sexy underwear & photo taking. In fact there isn't much a loving couple could try that we haven. We took our time coming to these fun sexual experiences, & Mrs Legs now enjoys them as much as I do.

We're both getting on in years, but our sex life is still very active & long may it continue!!

 

[silverwhisper]

monogamous by preference but we haven't ruled out a menage a trois.

 

[gtnlynn]

Yes. It was a promise I made, and I intend to keep it. My wife had a few adventures outside our marriage, with my knowledge and permission, but that was long ago. I don't need another woman.

 

[Hedo_Harry]

We are monogamous most of the year. But we go on vacation at a very naughty Caribbean resort, and then we turn into "vacation swingers." But once back home, we're back on the straight and narrow. Well, most of the time!

 

[DewMee]

My 1st marriage was monogamous for 10 years. The last six months it wasn't, and I was glad it ended. My current marriage is not, and is much more enjoyable.

 

[Clem99]

Yes I'm in a monogamous marriage. But my wife isn't. Just yesterday she had sex with another man with my full knowledge and approval. Our marriage evolved into a semi open, hotwife type relationship.

Throughout our marriage my wife cheated on me with a couple different men. The first time almost ruined our marriage. I was of a very different mindset then. But I forgave her and we moved on. Soon after her tryst started to arouse me as opposed to anger me. I started to fantasize about other men screwing her and desired for her to do it again. Last summer she confessed to doing it again. After that time I confessed to her my feelings which started our exciting new marriage.

Hey man, I was wondering...why do you not get some additional action yourself? Not interested in playing with others like your wife does?

 

[suckonsimon]

Yes.

I answered "I will" to the question "Will you love her, comfort her, honour and protect her, and, forsaking all others, be faithful to her as long as you both shall live?" I followed that up with a vow which extended the "I will" into every eventuality of life: "for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish"

And she likewise.

We chose this because we both felt that the sexual chemistry and the depth of love and the joy we each gave the other and our shared dreams for the future was all in all the most exciting thing. Forty one years later we both feel we got that right.

 

[Porkwarrior]

I was monogamish for 14yrs for a simple reason. My ex-wife gave the best head and blowjobs I had experienced.

As soon as the head ended, so did the marriage.

 

[Hornblende]

Monogamous except for those occasions when we invite someone to join us.

 

[luvdoublepenetration]

Mrs Screwher

Yes I'm in a monogamous marriage. But my wife isn't. Just yesterday she had sex with another man with my full knowledge and approval. Our marriage evolved into a semi open, hotwife type relationship.

Throughout our marriage my wife cheated on me with a couple different men. The first time almost ruined our marriage. I was of a very different mindset then. But I forgave her and we moved on. Soon after her tryst started to arouse me as opposed to anger me. I started to fantasize about other men screwing her and desired for her to do it again. Last summer she confessed to doing it again. After that time I confessed to her my feelings which started our exciting new marriage.

She ever dped??Ask her to do it..she will love it

 

[luvdoublepenetration]

are you in a monogamous marriage?

if yes

then please tell us the reasons why you choose to be monogamous.

thank you

My hubby is monogamous...he has had sex only with me in his life...my am a cock slut...i frequently cheat on him..he has no idea...i love gangbangs and dps so whenever he is out i go on a hunting spree....Aside from the sex part i love my hubby...

 

[screwher]

Hey man, I was wondering...why do you not get some additional action yourself? Not interested in playing with others like your wife does?

It's just the way of marriage evolved. We're now a hotwife type marriage, as opposed to swingers.

Years ago my wife cheated on me. People make mistakes and I forgave her. Cheating is wrong regardless so I never had the desire to go out for a revenge tryst or anything like that. Soon after I started to become aroused by her affair. I started fantasizing of other men screwing her and desiring for her to do it again. She doesn't have these same desires for me with other women. So she would be devastated if I slept with another woman. I couldn't hurt her like that. So by our mutual agreement, a hundred guys could fuck her. But I'd be cheating if I did it.

 

[Ratchetman1982]

My wife is. Whoops

 

[justherhusband]

Yes we are. 25 years and counting...

I've given her permission to play with others if she wants but she doesn't have any real interest in it. I'm happy being monogamous to her but make no such requirement of her. And our sex life in our 50's is off the charts!

 

[pplwatching]

My wife and I are monogamous after almost 23 years. I personally feel that vows express intent, but at the end of the day vows aren't what define a marriage or inspire monogamy and fidelity.

Sex allows my wife and me to be intimate with and vulnerable to each other in a very unique way. It enhances our love relationship and builds and reinforces the bond between us.

Speaking for myself, I have never been able to have sex without some kind of emotional attachment because sex is an act of service. When I have sex with my wife, I am completely devoted to meeting her needs first and foremost. Meeting her needs makes me feel fulfilled in a very unique way. It is physical pleasure, but it is also an expression of love between us.

I am monogamous in part because marriage is a very fragile thing, even during the best of times. We put a lot of work into building a relationship, including learning the subtleties and nuances of how to make sex really resonate between us. I am not able to wrap my head around mercenary sex. I am certain that even a "no strings" sexual relationship outside of my marriage would end up with strings, because that's the way that I am wired and how I approach sex. I don't think that I would be capable of fooling around outside of my marriage without weakening my relationship with my wife. At best it would be a distraction keeping me from making my relationship with my wife everything that it can be. At worst it would sap the energy and strength that sex brings to my marriage.

I am monogamous because I feel a very deep sense of satisfaction from focusing on our marriage. I really enjoy being so completely focused on my wife. It is very humbling to know that she could choose to give herself to others, but instead chooses to give that part of herself to me. It is very gratifying to work through the dry spells together, working to keep our sex life vibrant and deeply satisfying as life throws curve balls at us (not to mention aging).

My wedding vows are not chains that keep me from looking outside my marriage for sex. They are only a reflection of the kind of marriage that I want to have and live. I forsake all others not because I spoke the words. I spoke the words and live them because it is the way that I want to live my life with my wife.

 

[WisBlueEyes]

It was for 38 years .