Are women evil or am I just unlucky?

[HarlemBlade]

Every girl I have ever had strong feelings for has either rejected me or treated me badly. Nearly every confession of feelings for someone has left me embarassed and/or scarred. Many have resulted in me being mocked incessently or she'll just never speak to me again. The one girl who did accept my feelings ended up going behind my back with one of my friends.

Comments? Suggestions?

 

[BlondGirl]

How old are you and what type of women are you attracted to?

The answers could be the key....

 

[lilminx]

It sounds like you are falling for women who are not accessible to you, or who are jsut totally wrong for you.

Are you insecure? If so, it's probably coming out in the way you present yourself to women. Maybe you should lay off the romance for a while and get to know yourself a little better?

 

[Guest]

See first sentence by Lilminx. Hit a different gene pool.......

And then look at her AV - they ARE evil......

 

[T.H. Oughts]

We have all kissed a few toads before we found our Prince/Princess.... hang in there

Relax and find yourself, switch off from searching for a woman and take time to get to know yourself and your friends......

Good things happen when you least expect them

 

[HarlemBlade]

I'm 21 and I'm usually attracted to girls similar to myself--a little bit reserved, academically oriented. I really don't think I'm attracted to a "type," though.

And it's been about a year since I've pursued anyone, actually. Insecurity was definitely a problem about a year ago, but not so much anymore.

T.H. Oughts--everybody says that, but it never seems to happen!!! (at least not when I expect it to)

 

[lilminx]

See first sentence by Lilminx. Hit a different gene pool.......

And then look at her AV - they ARE evil......

Hey, not ALL women are evil, just me and a select few...

Are you following me around, Storm?

 

[VanB]

Women are not evil tey're just different from men.

It takes a while to get to know that and the relationship thing gets easier. A little bit of belief in yourself goes a long way too.

 

[perks]

I think everyone has the capacity to be evil in a relationship.

As for all women? I can only speak for myself. I have been evil when a situation warranted it.

Do you think rejection is evil? I think someone who isn't interested in me, dating me anyway, making me spend my hard earned money just so they can have some fun is even more evil.

Why do you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?

As for the treating badly part, what do you mean exactly?

The cheating thing, have you dissected it. Do you know where your relationship broke down? Cheating is a symptom.

perks

 

[Guest]

Hey, not ALL women are evil, just me and a select few...

Are you following me around, Storm?

Between you and LillteDevilWithaHalo, I'm looking forward to going to HELL

I could follow you if you want me to...... I think we're just thinking alike today. So, what am I thinking of right now??

Need a hint??
Think really hard......

 

[Trist]

Hmm. Often I am told that all people of a certain sex ultimately consist of definate traits of which they have no control over possessing. There is one word for this: stereo-type.

"All men are cheating, lying bastards -- they'll say anything to get into your breeches, and then decide that they need to fuck more than one person at a time."

"All women are manipulative wenches that only act interested in guys to get into their wallet. Sex is a big fucking game to see what kind of prizes they can reap."

I've heard both sides of the stories -- but really, can we truly lump such large sums of people into a couple of words?

Yes, there are some 'evil' people out there that would love nothing more than to reduce another to nothing to make themselves feel significant, but I assure you there are some 'good' people out there. Continue the hunt and some day you will find 'the right one' for you.

Good luck!

 

[Aphrodisiac]

Wha ?!?!!

I am a woman and I am not evil. I do not have it in me to be evil to someone... especially a man who I have dated... etc...

... But then honestly I have never been in an unsavory relationship. But needless to say I am not "evil".... being bad .. well that is a whole other story.

As for your " evil women " problem .. maybe you should take things slow in your relationships and be friends first rather then go straight to a relationship. Maybe then you will see an insight into the woman's true personality.

 

[Mensa]

Early days

HarlemBlade, you say you're only 21. You've just begun , my friend, you have years ahead of you to try out women in all their variations. It's a great trip to take. At the end, you'll discover the truth, all women can have a little of the devil in them. But you wouldn't want them any other way, it's what makes them interesting and such great fun to be around.

Bon Voyage, my friend and enjoy yourself.

 

[Silverlily]

Re: Early days

it's what makes them interesting and such great fun to be around.

Pssst - he's pulling your leg, women are evil (note the discrepancy between post and sig line)



I'm kidding, relax you are only 21, give it some time

 

[Mensa]

Re: Re: Early days

Pssst - he's pulling your leg, women are evil (note the discrepancy between post and sig line)



I'm kidding, relax you are only 21, give it some time

You see I've discovered the ultimate truth. God is a man, but the Devil is definitely a woman!

 

[Silverlily]

Re: Re: Re: Early days

but the Devil is definitely a woman!

Aren't you the guy who loves to say "the Devil made me do it"?




remember HB, confidence is everything

 

[riff]

Evil

They are evil. Let no one persuade you otherwise.

They will ruin your life.
They will steal your happiness.
They will spend your money.
They will make you crawl and wish for death.
And then they will do some small thing that makes you understand they are worth it.

Luck has nothing to do with it.

 

[riff]

Oh and...

Glad you didn't ask if the "the women of Lit" are evil.

Everyone knows they aren't.

 

[Andreina]

I feel for you Harlem... I'm 21, I'm a student too, I love academia and most guys bore me after 2 weeks or so. Either that or I wore them out.

Hang in there.... every pot has its lid. (and yes, im impatient too)

Halo

 

[Mensa]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Early days

Aren't you the guy who loves to say "the Devil made me do it"?




remember HB, confidence is everything

That's how I discovered the ultimate truth. And you spend your time reconfirming it to me.

 

[naudiz]

Well, I'm evil, but it's probably just luck.

Though it was said that women and men are different, I tend to think the differences are magnified by perception. Society tells women and men how to act, and some of us cheerfully flip society the finger and just act like people.

Don't toss all women into one box. There are some gems out there, and you're still young. This is probably going to sound cliche, but get to know the person before you give your heart away.

Also, live it up while you're young. All that frustration and heartache will some day make a fond memory, or maybe I'm just a masochist.

 

[MunchinMark]

There are so many women out there that there must be many who are right for you. All you have to do is meet one.

Along the way you might think you've found her and then discover your mistake. Welcome to mankind. Just keep looking. The journey can be (nearly) as enjoyable as the destination. So keep walking.


Right, I've laboured that metaphor to death. Actually I'm in exactly the same boat. I don't see that there's anything to worry about.

Women aren't all evil, and in any case, you hope for at least a little wickedness.

 

[HarlemBlade]

It's funny how everyone keeps telling me I'm still too young because in the last few days I've started to feel so old!

At the campus convenience store I work at, people often use their student IDs that have a declining balance on it to purchase things. Some of the freshman coming in now have birthdays in 1985. Makes me feel old!

 

[StondTmplPilot]

It's funny how everyone keeps telling me I'm still too young because in the last few days I've started to feel so old!

At the campus convenience store I work at, people often use their student IDs that have a declining balance on it to purchase things. Some of the freshman coming in now have birthdays in 1985. Makes me feel old!

I was 2 years out of high school in 1985 and I still don't feel old!

 

[IA951]

alright, listen close.
yes, women are evil.
wicked, ugly, demonic evil straight from hell.

Lucky for you that you found the resident misognyst.

your only 21 huh?
don't fucking worry man, it's early, early enough to realize that you don't fucking need them.

Go and find yourself, discover who you are, don't let some tittering whore tell you who you are.

Beware of other men who will mock you and tell you that this is not the way to go, fuck 'em, goddamn those cunt junkies to hell man!