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Astroman72

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Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.
 
Im not a narccisist. Or at least i dont think i am. But i like and am turned on by my own cock. I used to be very self concious of the fact it had a slight bend in it. But later in life i accepted it. Especially when i started to play with other men. When you have a guy say to you, mmm I just love your cock… or wow id love to suck on that!! Then you kinda get a big head (pun intended). Im not very big but im happy with it. I also like watching myself suck another mans cock. I have these private videos ofme sucking a guy when he video taped me using my phone.
 
Cocks were never something I craved, not even my own. I saw my cock as a tool to get inside another man: to get pleasure, to give pleasure, and to be one with another man even if it is for a brief time. I always craved a nice male body: preferred hairy, masculine, muscular, etc. I also liked nice balls as a source of virility (testosterone) and fertility (sadly, I'm infertile). I loved watching the scrotum skin move to make sure a man's balls are kept at the right temperature. As to cock, I used to see it as proof that a sex partner is turned on: hard, leaking precum, etc. However, it was something I didn't crave. Over time, I realized that if I loved the man, then I love his body -- including his cock. Because it is HIS. I also realized that a man can enjoy sex with you but his cock can be soft and maybe not leaking precum. My partner is that way. That is why when I watch porn a soft cock on a guy getting fucked isn't a turn off -- it is a turn on as it reminds me of the love of my life.

Note, since my cock is useless due to ED, I also learned that what really matters over any male body part is the HEART. What good is a hot body, if there is no feeling involved. If my partner were to die, and my cock worked, I would still crave what I crave in a man's body. However, if the guy was one of those "crave cock but not the man", I would have no problem passing on him. To not feel anything for a man, to me is not some such made up orientation such as "hetero-romantic", but rather a MAJOR character flaw. I'd get as much pleasure out of a sex doll as a non-feeling man. I never brought an engagement ring with me to pop out before I had sex with a guy; I never asked a man to dump his wife for me. Still if he feels nothing except an interest in my cock, then it is a waste of my time and energy.
 
Astroman72 said:
Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.
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News flash , all men regardless of sexual preferance are turned on by their cocks , just saying .
 
Astroman72 said:
Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.
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"I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation...."

Hadn't thought about it in these terms, but totally agree. Well-put. I need to get off. You need to get off. Let's do this. It's just sex. Not a relationship. Not a lifestyle. Just sex....
 
Astroman72 said:
Saw this question online somewhere else, and I saw a bunch of responses.

As a bi guy, I've always been extremely turned on by my own cock. I was a regular self-sucker in my younger years, and the cocks that have always turned me on the most are ones that look like mine. I almost always get an erection from showering and looking at it! I thought this was kind of normal for any bi/gay guys.

But I was surprised that so many of the responses (from bi and gay men) that said they were not--they were just turned on by other guys' cocks. And I guess I always saw gay sex as kind of a super-exciting form of masturbation rather than a real orientation for me.

Curious how other guys here would answer that question.
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More bi- as I love pussy.

I do get turned on and admire my own cock. I'd like to suck a similar cock like mine, with a woman...
 
J1biboi said:
When I was younger and could get really hard, mine was a little above average, cut and curved slightly up and to the left. I thought it looked pretty good and tried to suck it many times, but never got it done.
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...but you tried, didn't you? I think we all did.
saintcero said:
I would certainly go to town on mine or maybe on one that looked just like it.
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absolutely
it crosses my mind regularly
 
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