As a Bi, Which Gender Do You Prefer?

[Marty Fisher]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

For me, there are things to appreciate and enjoy with both sexes but I think it's human nature to crave the things you've deprived yourself for whatever reason. So when you've grown up fingering, fucking, and eating pussy and sucking tits, it's only nature to craze a cock if you have the slightest inkling to step over the imaginary heterosexual line and enjoy the fruits on the other side. If I could chose ONLY ONE, I would chose cocks now only because I've had much more pussy and tits than cocks up to this point. The beauty is, I know I can have both without any regrets!!

 

[tristantrotsky]

I have a lot of mixed desires so many things still aren’t making sense.

Cocksucking can be very satisfying in a no-strings blow-&-go way.
But I can only be truly romantic with a woman...

 

[P0peye]

It depends of the activity. With another man, I'm strictly a Cocksucker. And I NEVER accept a blowjob in return! With women, the sky's the limit. I'll do it all! Although I lean towards going down on them as well. What can I say? I'm stuck in the oral stage.

 

[DickandDoof]

Cocksucking can be very satisfying in a no-strings blow-&-go way.
But I can only be truly romantic with a woman...

It sounds like a simple choice for people like you. It’s a much harder choice for people like me who are equally attracted to men, women and transexual women.

 

[Escierto]

It sounds like a simple choice for people like you. It’s a much harder choice for people like me who are equally attracted to men, women and transexual women.

True. For me, there is no element of choice involved. I see my girlfriend as a woman and I am super attracted to her.

 

[OralAllOver]

Hi all. I'm Charlie. I have a thread that chronicles my recent foray into bisexuality. Actually need to update it, because I sucked off my new buddy the other night. Only the third time I've sucked, and just the second guy. And I'm currently talking with a Lit friend, who's currently only bi-curious. But a thought occurred to me when I was talking to him. That I'm still much more attracted to women. I just happen to have found that I love cock, especially making a guy cum in my mouth. Haven't ventured into anal yet, but I definitely want to experience everything.

Anyway, I was curious how all of you feel about your gender preferences, if you have any. I want to know if those of you who have always been bi are more likely to enjoy men and women and others equally. And for those like me who were straight their entire lives, do you still prefer the opposite sex, even though you now enjoy same sex relationships? Or do you guys now prefer other men over women?

Hoping everyone shares their experiences and preferences here.

It depends. Whomever has a tasty penis and will shoot cum in me -- that's the gender I prefer

 

[RP_Goals]

How does this comment continue the dialogue or conversation in this thread?

People aren't sharing things here just to turn you on.

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I'm not bi, @SmokingFap but have been in MFF situations. I still prefer a man. I'd say more, but comments like the one I replied to make me hesitate - and squeamish.

You can't control what people do with what you post.

 

[RP_Goals]

You can't control what people do with what you post.i

I mean that In the most respectful way possible. I didn't realize how hostile it sounded

 

[Mrman69]

More attracted to women. It's just the cock that draws me to men, probably why I find trans women so irresistible. Beautiful fem body and a manly cock.

Exactly

 

[tristantrotsky]

It depends. Whomever has a tasty penis and will shoot cum in me -- that's the gender I prefer

I like your style...

 

[Playwithmee]

Women that like bi men.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

In my girlfriend's case, it was something she wrote. On that site, you could see who visited your profile and she could see that I had visited a bunch of times without sending her a message.

TBH, I thought she was out of my league. Finally she sent me a message and she said it was the first and only time she messaged someone first. She said, "You don't have to say anything." That surprised me and I started chatting with her. I thought then and I think now, this is no ordinary girl.

I love reading about what you and your girl have, Escierto. I’m sure neither of you could have guessed at the onset that such an amazing love would blossom.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

As I keep telling everyone, there are hundreds of thousands of Filipina trans women, most of whom speak English and most of whom do not have partners. I have been to the Philippines numerous times for extended periods and while it is a Third World country, it is a cool place to hang out.

Ah that really makes me want to buy a plane ticket…
How did you discover this and where would be a good place to start looking…
This is outside the scope of this thread, I apologize, I am easily distracted

 

[Escierto]

I love reading about what you and your girl have, Escierto. I’m sure neither of you could have guessed at the onset that such an amazing love would blossom.

That's true. I chatted with her for several months before I finally went to see her and even then, I thought that it would be a couple of weeks of sex and then finished. She has fucked probably a hundred guys over the years but she says that was the first time she fell in love.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

I feel like your question was directed more toward men, but I'm happy to add my perspective.

For me, I think I am equally attracted to both genders in most ways. Women are beautiful, sensuous and sexy. Men are handsome, verile and sexy. I like having sex with both, and I would have a hard time choosing based on sex alone.

In my experience, I have never had a man eat my kitty like my favourite female partners have. Likewise, being fucked with a strap-on is not the same as a real cock. Soo, they are different, without a doubt!

All that said, I think it comes down to the person, really. I'm in a monogamous relationship now, so my behaviour is based on commitment to a person rather than a gender.

The last paragraph nails it for me.
Thinking on the middle paragraph… not like you asked me to lol… love and devotion win out over technique in the end for me. No one has ever given me a blow job with the same zeal and expertise as men have, but it pales and becomes nothing more than complex masturbation in comparison to the love with which my girlfriend brings to my cock.

 

[Escierto]

Ah that really makes me want to buy a plane ticket…
How did you discover this and where would be a good place to start looking…
This is outside the scope of this thread, I apologize, I am easily distracted

I discovered this by accident. The first trans girl I ever met virtually was on a defunct web site where you could see all the people online and chat with whoever got your interest. Over a few months we formed a friendship and I had no idea she was trans. Finally she told me and she had to show me to convince me lol. She was a Filipina girl who lived outside of Manila.

The vast majority of trans girls online are from Thailand and the Philippines. The problem with the Thai girls is only the pros (hookers) can speak any English. Some of them were very attractive and I was tempted to go see some of them but at the end of the day, they are pros.

The Filipinas were regular girls who usually worked in beauty salons but there were a lot who worked in call centers and as teachers or nurses. Most of them could speak pretty good English and some of them, like my girlfriend, are fluent in English.

There are several web sites that have tons of girls looking for guys but the most popular is PinaLove. You can use it for free but I paid for a month and I had so many contacts after that month that I never paid for it again. I found my girlfriend on that site but she has used different sites over the years including Tinder.

 

[Escierto]

That's true. I chatted with her for several months before I finally went to see her and even then, I thought that it would be a couple of weeks of sex and then finished. She has fucked probably a hundred guys over the years but she says that was the first time she fell in love.

Just to complete the story. She dropped me off at the airport to return to the US and she went back home to the apartment she shared with another trans woman. She was really sad about my leaving and her friend found her in her room crying.

The friend was shocked and said, "What is going on with you? I have NEVER seen you cry over a man." My girlfriend acknowledged this and just went on crying.

Later, I called her from the airport where I was waiting for my flight to the US and she told me what had happened. We agreed that we would continue to chat and see each other when we could. Little did we know that was the beginning of covid and two years apart but we chatted by cam every day until we could finally see each other again.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

It sounds like a simple choice for people like you. It’s a much harder choice for people like me who are equally attracted to men, women and transexual women.

I suppose one thing we can be thankful for now is that at least we (more or less) have the freedom to make that choice. When I was in the navy way back in the ‘80’s, I fell hard for an effeminate Latino onboard my ship…. Gender didn’t even enter into it, I just wanted to be with that person so strongly and I believe the feeling was reciprocal. And yes, that was a choice I could have made, if we both wanted instant discharge from the military and the consequences of being estranged from our families.
Thinking of his beauty still makes me sigh with desire.

 

[Escierto]

I suppose one thing we can be thankful for now is that at least we (more or less) have the freedom to make that choice. When I was in the navy way back in the ‘80’s, I fell hard for an effeminate Latino onboard my ship…. Gender didn’t even enter into it, I just wanted to be with that person so strongly and I believe the feeling was reciprocal. And yes, that was a choice I could have made, if we both wanted instant discharge from the military and the consequences of being estranged from our families.
Thinking of his beauty still makes me sigh with desire.

Sometimes you just click with someone and there is no explanation for it.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

I discovered this by accident. The first trans girl I ever met virtually was on a defunct web site where you could see all the people online and chat with whoever got your interest. Over a few months we formed a friendship and I had no idea she was trans. Finally she told me and she had to show me to convince me lol. She was a Filipina girl who lived outside of Manila.

The vast majority of trans girls online are from Thailand and the Philippines. The problem with the Thai girls is only the pros (hookers) can speak any English. Some of them were very attractive and I was tempted to go see some of them but at the end of the day, they are pros.

The Filipinas were regular girls who usually worked in beauty salons but there were a lot who worked in call centers and as teachers or nurses. Most of them could speak pretty good English and some of them, like my girlfriend, are fluent in English.

There are several web sites that have tons of girls looking for guys but the most popular is PinaLove. You can use it for free but I paid for a month and I had so many contacts after that month that I never paid for it again. I found my girlfriend on that site but she has used different sites over the years including Tinder.

Thank you for that info, Escierto. I did wonder about the Thai kathoey boys, is that the correct term.. all I really know about the Thai scene is from a great book called Bangkok 8, if I can throw a book recommendation out there… first and best in the series IMO.
PinaLove… will check it out
We’re all on a journey…

 

[Escierto]

Thank you for that info, Escierto. I did wonder about the Thai kathoey boys, is that the correct term.. all I really know about the Thai scene is from a great book called Bangkok 8, if I can throw a book recommendation out there… first and best in the series lol.
PinaLove… will check it out
We’re all on a journey…

Yes, the Thais call them kathoey and in the Philippines, bakla. In both places they are referred to as ladyboys.

My girlfriend hates the term ladyboy and only refers to herself as a trans woman.

 

[pleasuremodeloneten]

My girlfriend hates the term ladyboy and only refers to herself as a trans woman.

She is right and I agree with her.
She can take out the trans part for that matter, although I suppose it’s technically correct. I doubt she ever identified as male deep within, even if she was forced to as a younger person.
I get so aggravated with people that say, Oh they’re too young to know, they can’t make that choice!
BULLSHIT.

 

[Escierto]

She is right and I agree with her.
She can take out the trans part for that matter, although I suppose it’s technically correct. I doubt she ever identified as male deep within, even if she was forced to as a younger person.
I get so aggravated with people that say, Oh they’re too young to know, they can’t make that choice!
BULLSHIT.

For these people, it's not a choice like choosing what to eat for breakfast.

She says she has always been a girl as long as she can remember, wearing female clothes and playing with dolls with other girls. When she went to school, they were going to make her be a boy and cut her hair and wear male clothing. She told them that she would do one of the two, their choice, so she wore male clothing but left her hair long.

She says that in her town she was really a pioneer as the first trans woman who asserted her right to be who she was. Lucky for her, her family and most of the people there accepted her as a trans woman.

 

[steamboat610]

Tit ass and cock and wet pussy

 

[Faggyanna]

As a bi guy, I'm honestly not sure which I prefer, but I do find the roles change. I'm way more submissive with Men, and dominant with Women. As a romantic partner I tend to prefer women, but more recently sexually men. And while threesomes (me and 2 men or 2 women) seem great to me, the idea of a MMF threesome leaves me weirdly cold...