Any good ideas?????

[LittleMsNaughty]

I have a friend who has been in a relationship for about 1 year and the "honeymoon period" is over - she would like some ideas of how to get the feeling back into her relationship.

I suggested a midnight picnic, romantic dinner, hand made gift certificates/awards certifying the recipient to certain priveliges, but she needs more ideas. Her man is not a hopeless romantic but will follow her lead if she initiates a romantic evening.

Any Suggestions??

 

[higherlevel4u]

Pep-up a relationship?

Mmm - maybe it's a bit of spice that's needed, like food that get's too bland, it needs heating up a little with some added ingredients. Maybe it's not a romantic solution that's needed . . .

 

[LittleMsNaughty]

Do you have a recipe with lots of spice???????????

 

[Gord]

It is very easy to fall into routine and sometime if you go for the big romantic gesture it can fall a bit flat.

Some ideas to spice things up:

Plan a night away from the house - something very different- and it need not be expensive, get a tent , and just drive - go walking and have fun in the outdoors - making a fire , cooking al fresco and then a night under the stars - or if not camping a cheap pub for the night

Instead of having sex at the same time , same place , all the time make a plan to have sex as soon as you get home - take sex out of the bedroom ! and in to the lounge, kitchen , hallway- I remember me and my ex used to go for a drive sometime and then " parked up somewhere " - brought back all the memories of being a teenager again

play strip poker / strip anything one night

have a party - get friends round you havent seen for a while - have a theme - be a great laugh

Get a bottle of champagne , bubble bath , some nice music and sit in a hot steamy bath and drink champagne together - decadent

take up a hobby together - maybe a sport - something that takes you out of your ordinary routine