Annual Retreat Time

[wildp]

How would you feel if your spouse came and let you know that this year you could go on their work's annual retreat? While might think awesome you finally get to go on this yearly trip, but you then remember what happened on last year's trip. Your spouse got tipsy and ended up sleeping or well just fucking 3 work associates, all of whom will also be on this trip?

 

[cubbyfire04]

How would you feel if your spouse came and let you know that this year you could go on their work's annual retreat? While might think awesome you finally get to go on this yearly trip, but you then remember what happened on last year's trip. Your spouse got tipsy and ended up sleeping or well just fucking 3 work associates, all of whom will also be on this trip?

I guess that all depends on how I felt about her fucking them in the first place. My ex-wife and I had an open marriage... It would have been something I encouraged and probably received video of. And I would probably be excited because odds are, at least one of the 3 would be willing to participate in a 3-some with us this year.

Not the case with my current wife. We play together with men, but not apart... She would have been doing this deceitfully, and it probably would have already ended the marriage. If we'd worked through that and were still together, I'd be mature enough to remain professional and cordial. After all, they don't owe me the favor of policing my wife's fidelity. If they knew she was cheating on me they're assholes, but if my wife deserved forgiveness then why shouldn't they?