All I Want You For Is SEX: Is That Ok?
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Depends on if Your Happy
If all you want out of the relationship is sex then keep him!!!
If you want a lasting relationship then find someone new. It depends on what you want that point in time and what you personally are comfortable with.
I have to have someone I can talk to so I look for someone intelligent that's also great in bed.
Probably why I'm still single and looking so far they seem to be at least a 1000 miles away.
If all you want out of the relationship is sex then keep him!!!
If you want a lasting relationship then find someone new. It depends on what you want that point in time and what you personally are comfortable with.
I have to have someone I can talk to so I look for someone intelligent that's also great in bed.
Probably why I'm still single and looking so far they seem to be at least a 1000 miles away.
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Re: Aaah,,, Ummmm
No you cannot have someone just for sex..got it?
Now as for me.....
No, I want more than just sex. Gawd,I want at least some decent sex talk.
Tiger_n_NJ said:
No you cannot have someone just for sex..got it?
Now as for me.....
No, I want more than just sex. Gawd,I want at least some decent sex talk.
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Re: Aah, Only read the thread title
Sure ya did.....
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Sure ya did.....
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It all depends on a couple things.
Does he know you just want him for sex? He might be looking for a real relationship, dumb people have feelings to.
Would you be comfortable with that? I'd feel awful funny just fucking someone, and never talking to them.
If it was me, I'd have to let him go. I need it all to be happy.
Does he know you just want him for sex? He might be looking for a real relationship, dumb people have feelings to.
Would you be comfortable with that? I'd feel awful funny just fucking someone, and never talking to them.
If it was me, I'd have to let him go. I need it all to be happy.
Re: Re: All I Want You For Is SEX: Is That Ok?
OMG!!!!
YOUR AV IS FUCKING FANTASTIC!!!!!!
I am on my way to you, babe......whoooohoooooo
Cassidy
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If he's not intelligent... he just don't float my boat.
For me, it starts *up* there before it moves *down* there.
As always, there's exceptions to that rule
OMG!!!!
YOUR AV IS FUCKING FANTASTIC!!!!!!
I am on my way to you, babe......whoooohoooooo
Cassidy
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JuicyLips - you need the sex, so By all means, keep him around. You can always come to Lit for the stimulating conversation you desire. In fact, just contact me. I'm smarter than a box of...... er,.........um,.......... socks, was it?
Hell, just come to me for the sex then!!
Thanks for the thread!!
Hell, just come to me for the sex then!!
Thanks for the thread!!
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Ummm....I kept him for 4 years.
Very, very good-looking, very sexy, great lover. *sigh*.....IQ of a turnip. Damn!
{We didn't split up because of that, though. there were other things.}
Very, very good-looking, very sexy, great lover. *sigh*.....IQ of a turnip. Damn!
{We didn't split up because of that, though. there were other things.}
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juicylips said:
Heck, I liked the title for this thread, but I have no desire for a dumb stud.
Hey, Cass, can I have you just for sex?
storm1969 said:JuicyLips - you need the sex, so By all means, keep him around. You can always come to Lit for the stimulating conversation you desire. In fact, just contact me. I'm smarter than a box of...... er,.........um,.......... socks, was it?
Hell, just come to me for the sex then!!
Thanks for the thread!!
Fortunately, I don't have this problem. Brains is a big MUST HAVE for me. Not that I am not tempted by a tight ass and bulging jeans.
Someone's words, attitudes and general personality far outweighs what he looks like. Honest.
There are those who post here that get me lusting just by their intelligence and wit. I never have to really see what they look like. Now, if YOU are offering just sex....I am THERE
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sounds insulting and abuse
If I think a person is only good for sex, what does that say about me? Have I been with someone who could only bring sex to the table, yes. When I slept with someone knowing that that was all I could have, I felt low and unworthy. I don't want just sex from anyone so when I've done it was because I didn't believe I could do better. People with low self-esteem, sell themselves short and sex is a one of the toys we use to get someone's attention.
Now for someone who is emotionally healthy and geniuenly only wants sex, I accept that works for him.
For me, we're whole people with feelings, needs, and expectations. If I can't value it all, it feels cheap for me to take what I can get. Sleeping with someone for that reason only reduces that person to an object in my mind and that is wrong. This whole notion feels icky to me and anyone who has ever allowed themselves to be used and used someone to cover up feelings of inadequacy knows exactly what I'm talking about.
Never mind IQ, the bigger issue is my self-worth and valuing other human beings. I know that sounds high-minded and my intent is not to be a kill-joy, but sex is a problem for a lot people and this notion you've presented has been a major hurdle for those trying to change and to develop healthy sexual behavior and images for themselves.
Peace,
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If I think a person is only good for sex, what does that say about me? Have I been with someone who could only bring sex to the table, yes. When I slept with someone knowing that that was all I could have, I felt low and unworthy. I don't want just sex from anyone so when I've done it was because I didn't believe I could do better. People with low self-esteem, sell themselves short and sex is a one of the toys we use to get someone's attention.
Now for someone who is emotionally healthy and geniuenly only wants sex, I accept that works for him.
For me, we're whole people with feelings, needs, and expectations. If I can't value it all, it feels cheap for me to take what I can get. Sleeping with someone for that reason only reduces that person to an object in my mind and that is wrong. This whole notion feels icky to me and anyone who has ever allowed themselves to be used and used someone to cover up feelings of inadequacy knows exactly what I'm talking about.
Never mind IQ, the bigger issue is my self-worth and valuing other human beings. I know that sounds high-minded and my intent is not to be a kill-joy, but sex is a problem for a lot people and this notion you've presented has been a major hurdle for those trying to change and to develop healthy sexual behavior and images for themselves.
Peace,
daughter
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ROCKS!!! That's the word I was looking for. Geez, how could I forget rocks.
Me fail English? That's unpossible!!
Yes, I'm offering sex. How could I not offer YOU sex, you sweet, ....... um, .......er,.........I, ....... oh, crap! Forgot what I was thinking.
Wait - does this mean you find me incredible attractive but unintelligent? I can assure you, my IQ's over 75...........
Me fail English? That's unpossible!!
Yes, I'm offering sex. How could I not offer YOU sex, you sweet, ....... um, .......er,.........I, ....... oh, crap! Forgot what I was thinking.
Wait - does this mean you find me incredible attractive but unintelligent? I can assure you, my IQ's over 75...........
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I'd let him go but not without at least one round of mind blowing sex to see if removing that pressure would free up some brain cells. You could always work off the supposition that the increased pressure/tension was causing him to not think correctly. <Well hell, it sounds good anyway>
Storm baby, if you are offering sex <need to remove your tension as well it seems>, I'll volunteer to assist.
Dawn
Storm baby, if you are offering sex <need to remove your tension as well it seems>, I'll volunteer to assist.
Dawn
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Georgia Girl said:
Hey, I've got a lot of tension built up here!
Can I have some assistance?
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My momma said you just need a good ol fashion Forrest Gump fuckin. Now what's wrong with simple minded?
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Georgia Girl.......
I'd offer you Anything, baby!!!
I'd offer you Anything, baby!!!
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I think I question the premise. I think intelligence is a key to being a good lover. I don't think I would get to the point of sleeping with someone if there was nothing else offered in addition to sex. I think it would be something similar to hiring a prostitute for a night. Not an idea I love.
