Advice from women about vibrators, please.

[Cardinal]

I have always been turned on by women that can be pleasured by a vibrator or dildo. After 10 years of with my wife we finally had an evening in bed where we used a vibrator. The vibrators that we used were massage type vibrators - like from Sharper Image - and a smaller one as well. In other words they were not made for penetration. I used the vibrator on her and she seemed to like it, although she was not thrashing on the bed.
My question is this...when you use a vibrator how often do you use it for internal stimulation compared to outside stimulation? Is there extra benefit to get a "sexual type" vibrator or should we continue to use the massage types? Also, since you're here, do you avoid or seek direct clitoral stimulation? Or how should I use it on my wife?
Thank you in advance for the advice.

 

[Blackbich]

I'm not a big vibrator person so I might not be the best person to answer this. Because each woman is different, it's going to take lots of experimentation to find out what causes her to go nuts. I have a friend that 'loves' the egg type vibrators, this might be an idea for you. You definitely want to hold out for other responses, though, cause I'm not the best judge when it comes to vibrators. Sorry.

 

[Valcorie]

Trying to help..

I have never personaly tried the massage type viberators. To answer your question regaurding how often to use one for diferent types of sitmulation that would depend on the individual and what you were doing with it.

I have one caled the lady bug. Other variations are the bumble bee, or butterfly. the basic principkle it that they have adjustible speeds,and vibrate directly against the clit. They have a strap to hold them in place during sex, or use can use them during foreplay or masterbation. They seem quite versital.

I have heard good things about the egg types also. However, I have not tried any.

In my experiance (not a lot) vibrators work best with direct clitoral stimulation.

I hope this helps!

-Valcorie

 

[SexyChele]

I absolutely LOVE my Hitachi massager! It's a little pricey, yes, but does the trick every time. And, from what I've seen on the web, they now make attachments for it to allow for penetration. I like it because it has a bigger head to it, allowing for a broader area of vibration. Also, the multiple speeds are nice. The best thing? It's electric, so I never need to concern myself with batteries!

Not all women warm to vibrators, though. And some prefer the dildo shaped ones for penetration. I've had one of those, and it was okay. I also have a vibrating egg, but use it anal stimulation, rather than vaginally. Although, if your wife is g-spot sensitive, an egg might just be the ticket.

When I use my vibe, I prefer to be teased with it. Because it is also a massager, I use it on my neck, shoulders, back, etc. The multiple speeds work well for this. I especially like to tease my nipples. Oh yeah, that is great!

For me, I need direct clitoral stimulation. Other women can't tolerate that, and would rather have the vibration around the clit, but not on it. I heard one woman state she prefers the vibration over a piece of cloth.

You can pick up a vibe that can be inserted for relative cheap, so why not? As long as you have a massager, I would play around with both. I wouldn't use them to orgasm with at this point, just use them for stimulation/foreplay, and see where it goes from there.

Good luck and have fun!

 

[psyche]

I have an electric massage type vibrator that I use on and around my clitoris. If I am in the mood for a quick orgasm this is one of the best methods for me. It has a round head and is very comfortable. It also has a slow speed, which is just right for building up to an orgasm.

If I have time, and I have not had sex for a while, I like to use the electric vibrator on the outside of my pussy, while using my gel, g-spot vibrating dildo for penetration. I use astroglide for lubrication and I like the soft gel dildo because it has some give to it when I cum. Mmmmmmm.................the dildo in my pussy vibrating, the electric vibrator on the outside makes for some very intense g-spot orgasms that can go on and on until I am screaming...........

My lover uses a vibrating dildo on me also, and it is so hot........he puts it on my clit, makes me cum over and over again, then penetrates me with it when I am wet...........

 

[bbwforsugar]

Well in my opinion, you should get a vibrator called the rabbit, I love it! You should check into it, although the good ones are expensive, around $100-150 but they last forever

 

[lilpriss]

I have a Gspot vibe, from Adam and Eve. It's just a basic vibrator no frills, it is for penetration though and it's absolutely incredible... it's actually called the Gspot Vibrator, came with a book... supposed to help you locate the Gspot.... That thing is great, I'll turn it on and use it to stimulate my gspot at the same time rubbing my clit and Watch out!!!

 

[esylay]

about vibrators

Hello...I am a great fan of vibrators,dildos,anal beads and just about anything else made to pleasure.
The most important thing when using it on your wife is to ask her how rough or gentle she would like you to be. The best for me is to put the small bullet in my ass and turn it on med high vibrate, while using my 9" soft gel vibrator in my pussy. It helps to tilt your hips up on a pillow and aim the big one right at your g-spot. When you hit the right spot-nothing will stop your orgasm from coming hard and long...the other suggestion is to put her favorite vibrator in her ass on low-med speed and let her ride it up and down like she was being ass-fucked.in the meantime, lick her pussy slowly and deliberately gentle. The combimation of rough and gentle will make her cum over and over.(at least it works for me!)
Hope this is some help for you both...

 

[Valcorie]

Well in my opinion, you should get a vibrator called the rabbit, I love it! You should check into it, although the good ones are expensive, around $100-150 but they last forever

Yikes...my rabbit was $35.00 from lover's pantry

 

[SexyGiggles]

Also depends on what kind of stimulation she wants....some vibrators work better for clitoral stimulation, others work better for vaginal stimulation...some work well for both!

I'd suggest getting a few, trying them out, and finding out what works best! I have a couple that I use...sometimes just one, sometimes one that hits both, and sometimes both, one on each!

Then there's the anal ones...hee hee hee....