LustfulIntentions2
DILF, Allegedly
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First, kudos to deciding to incorporate some new habits into your routine! I think deciding to get started and getting over that initial inertia is often the hardest part.
Second, I echo the keep it simple and start smaller advice that’s been shared. You want to set yourself up for success and then build on your wins.
Personally, I think it’s a great idea to try out more than one class to find what you really enjoy and works for you, but then pick just one of them to make a goal to attend regularly (on whatever frequency you decide.) Start small with once or twice a week and you can increase over time if you want.
I would also suggest finding something you can do from home if schedules for the class don’t always work out. That way you don’t feel like you failed if life gets crazy and you can’t make a class. Instead you’re walking, doing yoga, lifting small weights, etc. at home and still fulfilled your goals.
Finally, I’m a big fan of tracking things when trying to build new habits. There’s something very satisfying in checking things off a list and motivating in seeing your trend of how many days/weeks you’ve succeeded at your goal.
This last part is the part I'm the worst at. I hate disappointing myself because I will invariably then beat myself up for being short of goals. But you are right that it's super valuable.
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