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Know the feeling sometimes. I clean up and it's my fault my wife can't find stuff. Open wrappers and empty glasses lying around, wonders why they're not picked up. I either don't wash laundry right, dry right fold right.
Hope things improve dude.
Shes been in a mood all day.
I'm sure she thinks it's my fault its raining.
 
Wondering why everything is my fault in this house.
She doesn't sleep, takes it out on me.
Her cat drops black fur everywhere it walks, grumpy with me.
She gets drunk and falls over. My fault.

I wonder if she even cares.

Know the feeling sometimes. I clean up and it's my fault my wife can't find stuff. Open wrappers and empty glasses lying around, wonders why they're not picked up. I either don't wash laundry right, dry right fold right.
Hope things improve dude.

I don’t know you guys and I definitely don’t know your wives but very often, the problem goes much deeper.

Why doesn’t she sleep? Why is she getting drunk?

When you clean up, do you put stuff away properly or just in the nearest space you can find? Open wrappers and empty glasses? If they are things you have used, you should be cleaning them away. I wouldn’t even ask you why they weren’t picked up, I would pick them up and put them somewhere that was only used by you like your car or your side of the bed or your favourite chair.

Seriously, talk to them. Sometimes people get tired of the same things over and over and don’t have the energy to keep hashing it out so they push it away but it is still there and causes resentment which can lead to always seeing things in a negative way. Communication is key in any relationship.
 
I don’t know you guys and I definitely don’t know your wives but very often, the problem goes much deeper.

Why doesn’t she sleep? Why is she getting drunk?

When you clean up, do you put stuff away properly or just in the nearest space you can find? Open wrappers and empty glasses? If they are things you have used, you should be cleaning them away. I wouldn’t even ask you why they weren’t picked up, I would pick them up and put them somewhere that was only used by you like your car or your side of the bed or your favourite chair.

Seriously, talk to them. Sometimes people get tired of the same things over and over and don’t have the energy to keep hashing it out so they push it away but it is still there and causes resentment which can lead to always seeing things in a negative way. Communication is key in any relationship.
It's her glasses of milk and Pepsi and candy wrappers. I throw my stuff away and put up my glass. I put stuff where it goes. Brushes in bathroom, clippers in case in drawer, shoes on shoe rack or by foot of bed. I'm not perfect, just hate being fussed at for others doings.
 
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