❓ PLP Inquires❓

[Karabare]

11.19.19

Simply question.

Favorite meal side dish.

Salad, I'm boring

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

11.22.19

Have you ever passed up the chance to try a fantasy irl because you were worried reality wouldn't compare? Are there fantasies that you prefer to keep just that? What determines where you keep the boundaries between fantasy v reality?

 

[Apisto42]

11.22.19

Have you ever passed up the chance to try a fantasy irl because you were worried reality wouldn't compare? Are there fantasies that you prefer to keep just that? What determines where you keep the boundaries between fantasy v reality?

1) yes
2) yes
3) this might require indentation:
A) I tried a lot of shit when I was younger. Some of it turned out better than fantasy, some was really really below hopes.
B) is it something I actually want in my life?
C) or is it something that if I had it, real world shit would just be wrecked?

Analogy time:

I love fantasy based stories and all that jazz. I read a ton of non fiction and the fantasy sci-fi stuff is just relaxing and fun. But do I actually want to be in a medieval setting? No. The “no penicillin” is one deal breaker. And tons of other things.

Sexual fantasies are a bit like that to me. Sure, it’s loads of fun to fantasize about having PLP on her knees gagging on my cock, but how am I going to explain the pink lipstick rings around the base to my wife? What if it is so damn good that I end up getting divorced, then PLP kicks me out of her life and I’m left begging and homeless on the streets? Just pinning away for one more deep throat?

There are things that are achievable in my life and I go for them. There are things that are fun to day dream about but aren’t feasible. I think the fantasy of a swinger party is fun. But I suspect that the reality of it would not be as fun.

So to paraphrase Pulp Fiction -“ Good night, I've had a very lovely evening'… walk out the door, go home, jerk off...”

 

[AlwaysFara]

1) yes
2) yes
3) this might require indentation:
A) I tried a lot of shit when I was younger. Some of it turned out better than fantasy, some was really really below hopes.
B) is it something I actually want in my life?
C) or is it something that if I had it, real world shit would just be wrecked?

Analogy time:

I love fantasy based stories and all that jazz. I read a ton of non fiction and the fantasy sci-fi stuff is just relaxing and fun. But do I actually want to be in a medieval setting? No. The “no penicillin” is one deal breaker. And tons of other things.

Sexual fantasies are a bit like that to me. Sure, it’s loads of fun to fantasize about having PLP on her knees gagging on my cock, but how am I going to explain the pink lipstick rings around the base to my wife? What if it is so damn good that I end up getting divorced, then PLP kicks me out of her life and I’m left begging and homeless on the streets? Just pinning away for one more deep throat?

There are things that are achievable in my life and I go for them. There are things that are fun to day dream about but aren’t feasible. I think the fantasy of a swinger party is fun. But I suspect that the reality of it would not be as fun.

So to paraphrase Pulp Fiction -“ Good night, I've had a very lovely evening'… walk out the door, go home, jerk off...”

Or else you end up bringing the needle down in a stabbing motion, praying to God you hit the mark.

 

[Apisto42]

Or else you end up bringing the needle down in a stabbing motion, praying to God you hit the mark.

Something else I fantasize about. No one will let me use their epipen on them.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Something else I fantasize about. No one will let me use their epipen on them.

Dammit. I would.

 

[CharlieB4]

11.22.19

Have you ever passed up the chance to try a fantasy irl because you were worried reality wouldn't compare? Are there fantasies that you prefer to keep just that? What determines where you keep the boundaries between fantasy v reality?

Yes, and when it was offered I wasn’t prepared... make of that what you will .

Yes again, I’m in a stable relationship with someone who has a different idea of fantasy to mine. I’m pretty sure it would fuck things up if I started getting freaky.

Hmmm, from what I’ve written so far, what I think I can get away with.

 

[RcyMtnGrl]

11.22.19

Have you ever passed up the chance to try a fantasy irl because you were worried reality wouldn't compare? Are there fantasies that you prefer to keep just that? What determines where you keep the boundaries between fantasy v reality?

I have.
There are
Risk vs Reward; mostly.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

11.22.19

Have you ever passed up the chance to try a fantasy irl because you were worried reality wouldn't compare? Are there fantasies that you prefer to keep just that? What determines where you keep the boundaries between fantasy v reality?

1. Yes, a couple of times. Not my fantasy, but someone else's that held some appeal for me.
2. Absolutely yes. Loads and loads. I adore window shopping, but most of it is not coming home with me.
3. This:

B) is it something I actually want in my life?

It's how most guys feel about eating their own cum: sounds hawt when their dicks are hard, not so much after they've shot their load. I don't like regrets, i don't need any more baggage. If there's a reasonable chance that i will wish that i hadn't done ----- after my body stops convulsing, it's a no-go.

I'd much rather be able to let myself off the chain within moderate boundaries than to have to be on guard within broader ones.

 

[hotwords229_A]

11.22.19

Have you ever passed up the chance to try a fantasy irl because you were worried reality wouldn't compare? Are there fantasies that you prefer to keep just that? What determines where you keep the boundaries between fantasy v reality?

I don't think I intentionally passed up the chance. But I definitely missed a few opportunities in retrospect.

I do have fantasies that should remain fantasies because I know reality wouldn't compare.

I think the boundaries are determined by the right people being involved. I have a few fantasies that I enjoy yanking it to, but have no interest in in real life. But never say never

But I am interested in the psychology of why we have fantasies that we have no real desire to pursue in real life.

Is it as simple as how I wish I was Indiana Jones, but if you really asked me to jump on a horse and attack a convoy of Germans with only a six shooter and a bullwhip, I might not be into that. But it's fun to think about.

 

[hotwords229_A]

It's how most guys feel about eating their own cum: sounds hawt when their dicks are hard, not so much after they've shot their load.

This has nothing to do with your point, but . . .

Guys, you have to shoot it directly into your mouth a few times and then you won't be afraid of your own cum anymore. What Honey said is totally true, but we owe it to women everywhere to get over it and kiss the fuck out of them after they blow us--or lick it off their bodies. It's hot and they love it.

If I can get just one guy to eat his own cum to make a girl happy then I will feel complete.

«»I'm HW and I approve this message.

 

[AlwaysFara]

This has nothing to do with your point, but . . .

Guys, you have to shoot it directly into your mouth a few times and then you won't be afraid of your own cum anymore. What Honey said is totally true, but we owe it to women everywhere to get over it and kiss the fuck out of them after they blow us--or lick it off their bodies. It's hot and they love it.

If I can get just one guy to eat his own cum to make a girl happy then I will feel complete.

«»I'm HW and I approve this message.

Okay. Now I get why they all swoon over you.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Okay. Now I get why they all swoon over you.

I'm offended that you said "they all" and not "all of us"!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

But I am interested in the psychology of why we have fantasies that we have no real desire to pursue in real life.

Yes.
Some of my darker fantasies include a lot of symbolism that is meaningful only to me. They are a journal entry written about a time or a feeling or a person i want to remember - or can't forget.

... kiss the fuck out of them after they blow us--or lick it off their bodies. It's hot and they love it.

I'm probs in the minority here, but what i find even hotter is when they kiss the fuck out of me after they've been buried up to their eyebrows in my snatch.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I'm probs in the minority here, but what i find even hotter is when they kiss the fuck out of me after they've been buried up to their eyebrows in my snatch.

Well, that just goes without saying

 

[Jaws82]

Yes.
Some of my darker fantasies include a lot of symbolism that is meaningful only to me. They are a journal entry written about a time or a feeling or a person i want to remember - or can't forget.



I'm probs in the minority here, but what i find even hotter is when they kiss the fuck out of me after they've been buried up to their eyebrows in my snatch.

And they say romance is dead

 

[NC_OBX80]

Some of my darker fantasies include a lot of symbolism that is meaningful only to me. They are a journal entry written about a time or a feeling or a person i want to remember - or can't forget.

I think many of us have similar mental or physical entries like those, it’s interesting to explore when/or if they ever make it out of our minds, and what draws them out.

I'm probs in the minority here, but what i find even hotter is when they kiss the fuck out of me after they've been buried up to their eyebrows in my snatch.[/QUOTE]

Minority?!!! I hope not...I want to taste, touch and experience everything with my partner

 

[AlwaysFara]

I'm offended that you said "they all" and not "all of us"!

Oh, please. I’m in.

 

[cookiecat]

Yes. I am 100% certain that fantasy me is better than IRL me. The thought of disappointing someone when they actually meet me has kept me from pursuing things when the opportunity has presented itself. Everything that I say and do and feel is real and it's who I am and it's what I want...I just can't get past my own insecurities to think that someone would actually want me if they saw me in the flesh.

I followed Fara here and this is the post I landed on when I got here.

indie, I relate to this in so many ways. I felt this way for a long time. Still do, a bit. It's hard to push away those insecurities. I avoided so many things for a long time.

But. Fuck it. I had to say fuck it. Fuck my brain, the demons in my head.

I hope you find a way to say fuck it to those insecurities.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

This has nothing to do with your point, but . . .

Guys, you have to shoot it directly into your mouth a few times and then you won't be afraid of your own cum anymore. What Honey said is totally true, but we owe it to women everywhere to get over it and kiss the fuck out of them after they blow us--or lick it off their bodies. It's hot and they love it.

If I can get just one guy to eat his own cum to make a girl happy then I will feel complete.

«»I'm HW and I approve this message.

Hotwords 2020

<swoon>

 

[AlwaysFara]

Hotwords 2020

<swoon>

I followed Fara here and this is the post I landed on when I got here.

indie, I relate to this in so many ways. I felt this way for a long time. Still do, a bit. It's hard to push away those insecurities. I avoided so many things for a long time.

But. Fuck it. I had to say fuck it. Fuck my brain, the demons in my head.

I hope you find a way to say fuck it to those insecurities.

Hotwords/ cookiecat 2020

 

[hotwords229_A]

Hotwords/ cookiecat 2020

Our platform:

Medi-Cum-For-All

 

[AlwaysFara]

Thank you, cookie. I think I'm in the minority in that I don't have any fantasies that I don't want to experience in real life...I'm just scared of not being enough.

“Fuck it!”
Yes, you are.

 

[tnman03]

Yes. I am 100% certain that fantasy me is better than IRL me. The thought of disappointing someone when they actually meet me has kept me from pursuing things when the opportunity has presented itself. Everything that I say and do and feel is real and it's who I am and it's what I want...I just can't get past my own insecurities to think that someone would actually want me if they saw me in the flesh.

I followed Fara here and this is the post I landed on when I got here.

indie, I relate to this in so many ways. I felt this way for a long time. Still do, a bit. It's hard to push away those insecurities. I avoided so many things for a long time.

But. Fuck it. I had to say fuck it. Fuck my brain, the demons in my head.

I hope you find a way to say fuck it to those insecurities.

Thank you, cookie. I think I'm in the minority in that I don't have any fantasies that I don't want to experience in real life...I'm just scared of not being enough.

“Fuck it!”
Yes, you are.

I like Lit the most when I see highly intelligent Liters making a soulful comment followed up by others providing insightful clarity, encouragement, and support.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Sexual fantasies are a bit like that to me. Sure, it’s loads of fun to fantasize about having PLP on her knees gagging on my cock, but how am I going to explain the pink lipstick rings around the base to my wife? What if it is so damn good that I end up getting divorced, then PLP kicks me out of her life and I’m left begging and homeless on the streets? Just pinning away for one more deep throat?
”

Not a problem.

I don't wear pink lipstick.