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AlwaysFara
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#16
(Submitted) Want and Needs
What do you look for in a Dom or sub? What are your must haves and red flags?
Do you feel like you need a Dom or submissive? Why or why not?
In a Dom, keeping it in BDSM, I look for him making me his. He has to want to own me, body, heart and mind.
He has to show me i can be vulnerable and safe. And me. Even as I figure it out. He has to be stern, but forgiving. Not formal.
Primal.
Rough...but he must also love my vanilla. I do.
He can’t be a Dom sexually, only. Walk the walk. Be a man. An adult.
Red flags are insisting on titles. Being part time for me. Posers. Players. Pride.
I don’t need a Dom, but I do need a strong man. Strength can mean asking for help or giving in sometimes. Admitting you’re wrong.