elli1point1
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#15 (Submitted)
Oral Mentality
When a PYL (Dom/Top) performs oral sex on the pyl (sub/bottom) - What is your mentality whilst doing so and how do you maintain your 'domliness/topliness'.
Conversely how the pyls think/feel when you're having something 'nice' done to you when you're the one that should be serving/submitting.
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I don't automatically associate receiving with having power and giving with submission. Performing oral sex on someone can be quite a powerful position (but doesn't have to be). I would also strongly object to the idea that D/s is all about the sub serving & pleasuring the Dom without getting anything back. I would not want to be involved with a Dom who refuses to perform oral sex on me.