barefootgirl69
Wild Little Cupcake
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I think that labels get too much attention. It often feels like people are trying to fit themselves into a mold and check all the boxes off, even if it doesn't all apply or appeal to them. I think they do have a useful and informational purpose that's often over looked, especially for someone who is not familiar or just beginning to learn about BDSM (me!).
I think when someone is searching or trying to define themselves, labels help them. I know it did for me. I also think that they become less of a necessity the longer you know who and what you are, unless you're meeting new people. They are great "descriptors".