Erections for male bottoms

[write_or_wrong]

I've seen several videos of a guy being fucked by another guy. Sometimes the receiver has a hardon, but most of the time they do not. Anyone know why? Is it the same with pegging? I thought prostate stimulation was a pretty reliable way to achieve an erection. When I have used dildoes or vibrators on myself I always get hard. Why does anal intercourse not do the same?

 

[Escierto]

Speaking personally I have been fucked by my trans girlfriend hundreds of times and I have never gotten hard. I am not sure why - maybe because our sex is all about her cock and her orgasm.

I do know that many bottoms get hard and cum while being fucked. I am just not one of them.

 

[bobb64]

i've gotten hard a few times but mostly stay soft.

 

[Bi4Older84]

Most of the time I stay hard and have even had a few hands free orgasms. Even when I play with an anal toy I tend to stay hard. Probably just different guy to guy, situation to situation

 

[AG31]

Speaking personally I have been fucked by my trans girlfriend hundreds of times and I have never gotten hard. I am not sure why - maybe because our sex is all about her cock and her orgasm.

I do know that many bottoms get hard and cum while being fucked. I am just not one of them.

You may not get hard, but do you get turned on? Do you have pleasurable muscle spasms (prostate orgasm).

 

[AG31]

i've gotten hard a few times but mostly stay soft.

Do you get turned on in other ways? Like muscle spasms a la a prostate orgasm?

 

[Escierto]

You may not get hard, but do you get turned on? Do you have pleasurable muscle spasms (prostate orgasm).

I am definitely turned on but I never cum or have what might be described as an orgasm. I have come close a few times but it just didn't happen.

 

[bijedi]

For me, a lot depends on the interaction and communication with my partner. Like most people, sex for me is as much in the mind as in the body. If my partner is interacting with me, letting me know how he is feeling or what he wants me to feel, or just talking dirty, then I more likely to show outward signs of arousal.

If he is just going to pound town and getting himself off, then I am less likely to get hard. Still, having a hot guy with a nice cock rearranging your insides is a pretty good feeling and can leave me plenty satisfied, even if I don't get to O-land.

 

[Britva415]

I've seen several videos of a guy being fucked by another guy. Sometimes the receiver has a hardon, but most of the time they do not. Anyone know why? Is it the same with pegging? I thought prostate stimulation was a pretty reliable way to achieve an erection. When I have used dildoes or vibrators on myself I always get hard. Why does anal intercourse not do the same?

Everyone’s different. I consider this kind of a male analogue of the “vaginal orgasm” trope. A lot of people don’t experience it, or don’t always experience it, or don’t experience it without some other simultaneous stimulation on the exterior genitals.

 

[Goldenfinger]

It all depends. When my wife is pegging me my penis starts out hard. Then after a few it will get soft. Then depending on a hundred things it will get hard again. It might be something she says or she might bend down and bite me or it could be how she looks on top of me. Then at a certain point when my prostate has been stimulated a lot of the time I will loose my erection. At that point I’m not really paying attention to anything just the feeling inside me.

If she pegs me on my hands and knees, I will start out hard the it will go away and I won’t get hard again usually.

I think it’s because my penis isn’t the focal point of the activity.

 

[PantyLover84]

I'm always hard no matter what position I'm in, to be fair though I'm usually stroking myself at the same time

 

[drobert44]

I'm always hard no matter what position I'm in, to be fair though I'm usually stroking myself at the same time

A true bottom! Hard and squirting when dicked down! Bless your gay heart!

 

[PantyLover84]

A true bottom! Hard and squirting when dicked down! Bless your gay heart!

I'm pretty new to the scene, but I'm a willing & super fast learner. Thank you x

 

[drobert44]

I'm pretty new to the scene, but I'm a willing & super fast learner. Thank you x

I am old, fucked 8 sissies, who turned me gay, fun bitches.

 

[PantyLover84]

I am old, fucked 8 sissies, who turned me gay, fun bitches.

Those 8 sissies don't know how lucky they were

 

[drobert44]

Those 8 sissies don't know how lucky they were

I felt lucky; nobody sucks like a sissy. They try SO hard...


https://i.imgur.com/0hQB9BQ.jpg

 

[BiDrew42]

Before I had radiation treatment for prostate cancer, I was always hard when getting my ass fucked. I would leak pre-cum like crazy and would frequently have powerful orgasms from prostate stimulation. Since the treatment, I do occasionally still get an erection when I'm being fucked, but mostly I remain flaccid. I can no longer have an orgasm from prostate stimulation. It sucks, but I still love being fucked in the ass.

 

[Lucien_Al]

It all depends. When my wife is pegging me my penis starts out hard. Then after a few it will get soft. Then depending on a hundred things it will get hard again. It might be something she says or she might bend down and bite me or it could be how she looks on top of me. Then at a certain point when my prostate has been stimulated a lot of the time I will loose my erection. At that point I’m not really paying attention to anything just the feeling inside me.

If she pegs me on my hands and knees, I will start out hard the it will go away and I won’t get hard again usually.

I think it’s because my penis isn’t the focal point of the activity.

Pretty much the same here. It starts out hard and once the good feelings start on my prostate I tend to go soft but still incredibly aroused and precum drips out much quicker than normal. Hands free still alludes us but after quite some time of playing she will then start to massage me with her hands and then I do harden a bit before cumming. Usually when I do cum I am not rock hard but more like a semi.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I don't stay hard unless I'm edging it. I'm not even thinking about my dick.
I jokingly thing my body knows that I am just a bitch, and there's no reason to be hard because I'm not fucking anything.

 

[Escierto]

I don't stay hard unless I'm edging it. I'm not even thinking about my dick.
I jokingly thing my body knows that I am just a bitch, and there's no reason to be hard because I'm not fucking anything.

I have to say I think I am the same way. It's all about HER cock in my hole. My cock? I may as well not even have one.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

When I'm full of his cock or her dildo, I'm semihard and totally focused on the sensations of being dominated and fucked hard....down in doggy...spread open ........fucked and filled with cum. Not thinking about maintaining a rock hard erection.....just giving in to their lustful needs!

 

[Flanast]

I start being hard but usually end up soft by the time he cums in my pussy ass. I’m definitely turned on so not sure why.

 

[lc69hunter]

I've seen several videos of a guy being fucked by another guy. Sometimes the receiver has a hardon, but most of the time they do not. Anyone know why? Is it the same with pegging? I thought prostate stimulation was a pretty reliable way to achieve an erection. When I have used dildoes or vibrators on myself I always get hard. Why does anal intercourse not do the same?

Over the years (many years ago mostly), I have fucked five husbands at the encouragement of their wives (no humiliation or emasculation, she just thought it was hot). With her also playing with him at the same time, every one of them were hard and blew their load while being fucked.

 

[write_or_wrong]

Over the years (many years ago mostly), I have fucked five husbands at the encouragement of their wives (no humiliation or emasculation, she just thought it was hot). With her also playing with him at the same time, every one of them were hard and blew their load while being fucked.

I'm glad to hear that, even if it's a limited date point. I have a fantasy that would require that capability and outcome. Thanks.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

When a bottom is soft it doesn't mean that he isn't turned on. In fact it usually the opposite. I'm often completely soft, but just dripping. I'm not sure why many of us don't stay hard but we don't. I've came with a soft cock so many times I can't count them.