Women who like to be taken forcefully

If I may, I don't believe the foundation must lie in a Puritanical upbringing or socialization of sex as taboo. Rather, I feel for many women who are in positions of responsibility and power, that we are often viewed in more masculine terms and our positions often call for us to exercise our more masculine traits. Given we are not the traditional version or stereotype of a woman, we are seen as 'The Bitch' - hardly a sexual creature. Moreover, for women to rise to power and achieve a level of authority, we often must subjugate our emotions to be perceived as more rational. This is really the repression of the feminine, not the sexual.

This introduces a dual need for sexual submission or being 'forcefully taken.' First, it validates the woman as a woman. Being 'taken,' for me, signals that I can drive a man wild with my feminine and sexual prowess. That is reaffirming - I'm not just an intelligent, controlling, ice-princess.

Second, the 'forcefulness' removes the mental and emotional constraints that powerful women in their work-a-day worlds must operate within. When a man overpowers me, he breaks through and shatters the constraints I have carefully constructed. Because it is a forceful act, I needn't feel self-reproachment or shame or guilt - after all, I was overpowered.

Given my carefully constructed persona, developed with great tenacity and grit over a long period of time, it would be incommensurate and threatening to my self-image to just willfully submit to a man. However, if I am powerful enough to drive a worthy male, dare I say opponent (because everyone and everything is a challenge), over the edge with lust that he must simply rip the clothing from my body, throw me to the bed, and fuck the living daylights out of me... then I can still maintain my dignity when I wipe the cum from my tits.
presuming it does land on your tits and nowhere else, mutually agreed to of course.
 
I had a gf who liked to wrestle. So we would wrestle until I pinned her down face up. She would still struggle and try to push me off until I was inside her. I would push my dick deep inside to the hilt and she would swear at me but then give in to a nice fucking!

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I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!:)
Being taken forcefully is a kink of mine x not for everyone, but gets my juices flowing x I'm still a very fit, sexy mature 50 year old lady who still enjoys cnc/r4pe roleplay as a sub and have done for over 35 years now x x x
 
Being taken forcefully is a kink of mine x not for everyone, but gets my juices flowing x I'm still a very fit, sexy mature 50 year old lady who still enjoys cnc/r4pe roleplay as a sub and have done for over 35 years now x x x
Sounds great - would love to try that with you!
 
Like some of the pictures posted above, I enjoyed tying up my girlfriend and forcing cunnilingus on her. I know that sounds hard to believe but sometimes she did not want me to give her oral because she would cum too quickly and it was very intense.

I would tie her arms to the bedposts while she was face-up with lingerie on. I would slowly strip off her stockings and panties until she was naked from the waist down. I did not tie her legs to the bed so she could fight back with her legs. She had very powerful legs so I had to push them up on her stomach so she would not get me in a leg lock. I licked and licked her until she was close and then brought out the rabbit vibrator. At that point, I released her legs, she was under my power. It took only a few minutes and she squirted for the first time. She was very playful and a switch so she got her chance later to get me back!
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Not particularly rough but mine loves not being in control. Various fantasies of being stripped by a group at a pool party or wine party at friends. Tied to the bed, blindfolded and just driven wild for a few hours. Could be male, female, mixed. Sometimes we luck out and it happens.
That’s hot!🥵😍
 
I am a bit of a strange duck. With my hubby I am clearly the dominant party. He is completely submissive and would never try to take me forcibly. I have been with agressive men that do so and I like it at times but by and large I like to be in control. That being said, in my experiences with other women I am completely submissive and I LOVE to be taken forcibly.
I’m the same but opposite; I’m dom with women. I like to control. With men, I’m submissive and love to be used forcefully. A man overpowering me and fucking me is hot.

My partner has a rape fantasy. It started with pillow-talk, her telling me about guys who’d been rough or abusive with her (we both swing and met via swinging, she’s had a LOT of cock). That turned to me describing scenarios where I’d tie her and blindfold her and invite another man to use her, as rough as he liked, any hole he liked, and I’d slap her and hold her down if she resisted, and if she screamed or cried, I’d just have him fuck her harder.

That moved on to doing it for real. It’s easy to find guys on the swinging scene. Often I choose men she’d rejected in the past. Better still are guys I knew she finds unattractive, and who normally she’d never let anywhere near her. They get to fuck her without the blindfold. Sometimes I tell her the guy has paid for the experience. She finds it deeply humiliating and degrading and I heighten that by the way I talk. I’ll tell the guy to use her like meat. I tell her she’s just a cunt. I’ll tell the guy how many men she’s spread her legs for. She will beg for it to stop, sometimes she cries. If she does we laugh at her, I’ll slap her a couple of times and tell the guy to switch to anal.

She never refuses. But it’s consensual non consent; she knows if she uses the safe word, everything will stop.
 
I just spent the afternoon reading through this hot thread.

Been with my wife for decades. She likes toys and occasionally getting her legs tied wide so she can’t close them when she cums. Lately she's been dropping a few hints about spanking.

Wish me luck, I’m going to see if we can set up a safe word and see where this goes.
 
I just spent the afternoon reading through this hot thread.

Been with my wife for decades. She likes toys and occasionally getting her legs tied wide so she can’t close them when she cums. Lately she's been dropping a few hints about spanking.

Wish me luck, I’m going to see if we can set up a safe word and see where this goes.
Let her catch her breath every so often and pace it nicely and she might last quite a while!!!
 
I’m the same but opposite; I’m dom with women. I like to control. With men, I’m submissive and love to be used forcefully. A man overpowering me and fucking me is hot.

My partner has a rape fantasy. It started with pillow-talk, her telling me about guys who’d been rough or abusive with her (we both swing and met via swinging, she’s had a LOT of cock). That turned to me describing scenarios where I’d tie her and blindfold her and invite another man to use her, as rough as he liked, any hole he liked, and I’d slap her and hold her down if she resisted, and if she screamed or cried, I’d just have him fuck her harder.

That moved on to doing it for real. It’s easy to find guys on the swinging scene. Often I choose men she’d rejected in the past. Better still are guys I knew she finds unattractive, and who normally she’d never let anywhere near her. They get to fuck her without the blindfold. Sometimes I tell her the guy has paid for the experience. She finds it deeply humiliating and degrading and I heighten that by the way I talk. I’ll tell the guy to use her like meat. I tell her she’s just a cunt. I’ll tell the guy how many men she’s spread her legs for. She will beg for it to stop, sometimes she cries. If she does we laugh at her, I’ll slap her a couple of times and tell the guy to switch to anal.

She never refuses. But it’s consensual non consent; she knows if she uses the safe word, everything will stop.
That's just beautiful. Trust, love and communication = the best sex.
 
I don't have much experience, but it doesn't sound inviting as something to do as a starter. But then, I don't tend to like actual sex. I've had some bad experiences, the few that I have had. If he were going to do anything forcibly, I'd rather he forcibly masturbate me and let me worship him.
 
I’m the same but opposite; I’m dom with women. I like to control. With men, I’m submissive and love to be used forcefully. A man overpowering me and fucking me is hot.

My partner has a rape fantasy. It started with pillow-talk, her telling me about guys who’d been rough or abusive with her (we both swing and met via swinging, she’s had a LOT of cock). That turned to me describing scenarios where I’d tie her and blindfold her and invite another man to use her, as rough as he liked, any hole he liked, and I’d slap her and hold her down if she resisted, and if she screamed or cried, I’d just have him fuck her harder.

That moved on to doing it for real. It’s easy to find guys on the swinging scene. Often I choose men she’d rejected in the past. Better still are guys I knew she finds unattractive, and who normally she’d never let anywhere near her. They get to fuck her without the blindfold. Sometimes I tell her the guy has paid for the experience. She finds it deeply humiliating and degrading and I heighten that by the way I talk. I’ll tell the guy to use her like meat. I tell her she’s just a cunt. I’ll tell the guy how many men she’s spread her legs for. She will beg for it to stop, sometimes she cries. If she does we laugh at her, I’ll slap her a couple of times and tell the guy to switch to anal.

She never refuses. But it’s consensual non consent; she knows if she uses the safe word, everything will stop.
That's a very good way to humiliate and degrade a sub. Deliberately break their ego by letting men or women fuck and worship them who they'd never look at or allow near them, or pimp them out.

Something I don't mind done to myself at all, being forced to fuck someone I refused in the past, someone much older or younger, maybe hairier and the like. Or be made to worship their body from head to toe.
 
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