Maybe so. I’m honestly not sure
Obviously there’s plenty of admiration for powerful people and figures; but I think the response to hearing about or seeing the inflicting of pain in a sexual context, especially a man on a woman, is much more complex
I think there’s some unease, I know I certainly feel that, both at the idea of receiving and delivering. And while there certainly shouldn’t be shame for enjoying something that both enjoy consensually, especially with aftercare, I think a degree of healthy trepidation is no bad thing. I know I could count on one hand the number of people on here I would trust enough to explore it with, and that’s just cyber…
