Wife has a rape fantasy, anyone else's partner?

[River_N]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

 

[ukcouple4play]

Yes and we have roleplayed it

 

[binudistcouple21]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

My wife's sister has this all the time, and we have done this to her several times.

 

[KinkStevens]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

Yes both my gf and I have these thoughts and fantasies. The danger is she really really wants to resist and make me earn it

 

[tristianc]

My girlfriend and I have both stated our desires to play this kind of scenario out. I think it’s more of a common fantasy than people think.

 

[AllenWoody]

From what I’ve read it is very common. I role played it quite enjoyably with my ex GF. You’d have to have a very clear conversation with her up front if it was going to be a surprise. You can’t assume she’s always ready to be thrown down and forced.

 

[curioustxn]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

This fantasy is not as uncommon as people might think, particularly among women who have been raped or forced when they were young. The experience for some women, can be both frightening and exhilarating, and create an emotional/sexual high they begin to crave.

This may or may not be the case for your wife, but if it were me, I would talk to her and find out if she was forced at some point. If this turns out to be the case, be compassionate with her and listen to her. Her feelings are important to her. You are her husband, and whatever you and she decide is consensual, and being so, there is nothing wrong with *role-playing* rape.

If it were me, I would find out the details of her fantasy and make it happen for her. It may take some practice to get into the role of a rapist, but with some practice, you can make it feel very real to her without hurting her.

If a man wants his marriage to stay strong, he has to understand the emotional/sexual needs of his wife.

 

[cubbyfire04]

We engage in CNC from time to time. My wife doesn't  need it, but every now and then it gets her really going. It's usually more of a mild form of domination that leads to bondage and some light to medium impact play.

 

[aim2plz412]

Yes, it is one of my favorite roleplay with my dom while my husband watches.

There is nothing so powerful as taking a woman before her husband…

 

[binudistcouple21]

My girlfriend and I have both stated our desires to play this kind of scenario out. I think it’s more of a common fantasy than people think.

WE believe it is, a lot like other things are a lot more common that people think.

 

[Buttboy7869]

In my experience non consent fantasies are very common. It’s not that they want a real rape with the danger associated with rape but want to resist in a safe environment.

 

[harv]

My wife expressed this to me many years ago. I tried to fulfill the request but just could not perform when she resisted. I was not turned on and always had sexual encounters that were entirely consensual.
Trying to stay hard and excited by her resistance just did not happen. I could wrestle her into submission but was not ready when it was done.
I have been successful tying her up and trying to make her feel used but she said that just was not the same.
I tried to think of safe ways to make this happen with a stranger but did not find a way. She did not want it to be someone that knew us and really did not want a stranger.
It is a tough one to try and satisfy!

 

[April602]

I had a rape fantasy for the longest time. I have a true story about how it played out but its very graphic…I wont submit it to be posted with my other stories as I’m sure it won’t get approved. I wonder if I can post it here without getting into any trouble with Lit? I have had pictures taken down so I assume Forums are monitored? Any suggestions?

 

[LittleSwitchy]

From what I’ve read it is very common. I role played it quite enjoyably with my ex GF. You’d have to have a very clear conversation with her up front if it was going to be a surprise. You can’t assume she’s always ready to be thrown down and forced.

Agreed. Talk to the partner. See what they want/ need. For element of surprise. Maybe set it up like
Sometime over the weekend we can do the rape fantasy. You won’t know when exactly. Just sometime over the weekend.
Setup a safe word. Something totally outside of scenario. Like purple fuzzy baby bumpers or just a simple word. Like red. Ow you SOB is not a good safe word. Lol

 

[LittleSwitchy]

I had a rape fantasy for the longest time. I have a true story about how it played out but its very graphic…I wont submit it to be posted with my other stories as I’m sure it won’t get approved. I wonder if I can post it here without getting into any trouble with Lit? I have had pictures taken down so I assume Forums are monitored? Any suggestions?

Maybe post it in story ideas? If you do. Can you let me know. Would like to see it.

 

[April602]

Maybe post it in story ideas? If you do. Can you let me know. Would like to see it.

Maybe I can pm it to people but thats too much work…are pm’s truly private from Lit?

 

[LittleSwitchy]

Maybe I can pm it to people but thats too much work…are pm’s truly private from Lit?

I wood assume so. Unless it gets reported. Butt you know what they say about the word
Assume

 

[HoldYouDown]

I had a rape fantasy for the longest time. I have a true story about how it played out but its very graphic…I wont submit it to be posted with my other stories as I’m sure it won’t get approved. I wonder if I can post it here without getting into any trouble with Lit? I have had pictures taken down so I assume Forums are monitored? Any suggestions?

Hard to say...Lit often frowns on content of a sexual or erotic nature. (I am not being sarcastic toward you...)

Edit, there's a separate forum called Hip Forums with a love/sex section that's a little more open about content. Won't link it but you can Google it.

 

[HoldYouDown]

This fantasy is fairly common and I've dated some women who indulged in it. One girl I dated was really into it, liked being (ahem) held down and even slapped/choked. Tied up. etc. We had a safe word so she would say "no" and resist safely...or even beg "rape me."

As long as you're on the same page and have a safe word and respect boundaries, it's a worthwhile fantasy to explore IME.

 

[harv]

I had a rape fantasy for the longest time. I have a true story about how it played out but its very graphic…I wont submit it to be posted with my other stories as I’m sure it won’t get approved. I wonder if I can post it here without getting into any trouble with Lit? I have had pictures taken down so I assume Forums are monitored? Any suggestions?

I would love to read it. Anyway you get it out, please advise. Thanks.

 

[Buttboy7869]

In my experience this is a fairly common fantasy. It’s more about non consent with out the fear of violence. I’ll admit I’ve fantasized a few times about gay rape.

 

[AllenWoody]

I had a rape fantasy for the longest time. I have a true story about how it played out but its very graphic…I wont submit it to be posted with my other stories as I’m sure it won’t get approved. I wonder if I can post it here without getting into any trouble with Lit? I have had pictures taken down so I assume Forums are monitored? Any suggestions?

I would guess/hope that it would be safe to post the story idea in 'outline format' without any of the details. Might just be frustrating for those of us who might like to read or write the story though.

My first ever submission here, a reluctance/non-con story called Megan's Coercion got rejected at first because the 'victim' got no pleasure from the encounter. It was accepted after I rewrote portions to show that she she got off.

 

[Skkylar]

My wife expressed to me that she has a ravishment, or rape fantasy.
This suprised me, as it's not a fantasy I usually think about, but Im open-minded.
She told me that she wanted to me surprise her, and tie her up and use her, forcefully.
We even talked about her allowing me to pick another man, or men, that were safe to gangbang "rape" her tied up and blindfolded.
Any women out there relate? Anyone with experience in this type of play? Just curious about the fetish now.

Yes and it can be an exciting game to play out.

 

[screwher]

My wife once confessed to fantasizing about be raped by another man. The conversation got us so hot we were in the bedroom in no time. I admit that the idea of another taking her like that arouses me too. So I tried to think of ways of making this a reality. But too many real life implications. Some fantasies are best left as that.

 

[LeeKee]

Had a girlfriend years ago who asked me to treat her like a rapist, and rape her against the wall, while choking her. I stopped, laughed and said yeah, no. But she was serious. She asked me several times later on to please rape her. She really enjoyed the thrill/fear surge. No, I never "raped" or pretend raped her. We did get pretty wild during sex though.