Being watched while used like a slut

[UtilityCurve]

I live in Germany and get life doesn't seem to be active here as I checked

No () it's North American-centric, as you discovered.

The latter advice on chaperoning remains and not to generalize (he says, right before generalizing) but a lot of the sex party/orgy (10+ participants) porn seems to be German in origin. (Also notable--it's full of ordinary-looking people and doesn't have annoying music playing at the site.)

I would suspect there is a social infrastructure supporting ethically nonmonogamous sex somewhere. Here in North America, these groups meet (clothed!) at public gatherings (coffee, lunch, etc.) to establish bona fides, attach faces (and more!) to screen names and the like. A search on your city name and "munch" (the name we use, I can't say I'd be surprised if it weren't the English word used in Germany too) might guide you to such a gathering.

The attendees wouldn't necessarily be the participants in your gangbang, but they are the most likely people to know people who do participate.

It all seems so tedious, when the fantasy/desire is for something spontaneous or at least uninhibited, but in the fantasy, things don't go wrong and people don't get hurt. Not so IRL.

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

No () it's North American-centric, as you discovered.

The latter advice on chaperoning remains and not to generalize (he says, right before generalizing) but a lot of the sex party/orgy (10+ participants) porn seems to be German in origin. (Also notable--it's full of ordinary-looking people and doesn't have annoying music playing at the site.)

I would suspect there is a social infrastructure supporting ethically nonmonogamous sex somewhere. Here in North America, these groups meet (clothed!) at public gatherings (coffee, lunch, etc.) to establish bona fides, attach faces (and more!) to screen names and the like. A search on your city name and "munch" (the name we use, I can't say I'd be surprised if it weren't the English word used in Germany too) might guide you to such a gathering.

The attendees wouldn't necessarily be the participants in your gangbang, but they are the most likely people to know people who do participate.

It all seems so tedious, when the fantasy/desire is for something spontaneous or at least uninhibited, but in the fantasy, things don't go wrong and people don't get hurt. Not so IRL.

Yes all that you say is true. That's the reason I try to be as cautious as possible

 

[liqueur]

it's North American-centric, as you discovered.

It is, indeed. And yet even so, out of its millions of members, 239,736 are in Germany

 

[PleasureTime01]

Thanks for the reply. But I really don't have someone whom I can trust and share my desires and still face them normally the next day. Whom do you mean by SO?

Significant other - in life & in respect of kink. They can be the same person, often are - but can be different people.

 

[UncleJunior]

I'm putting elements from this particular kink into a longer series and I was wondering how we feel about fantasy?

Not the corsets and knights fantasy, but the old-school Sword & Sorcery that came before D&D and Tolkien. I'm talking slave markets, orgies, and princesses wearing clothes made from smoke. A world where all sex is about power and control.

I've heard that the appeal is the "wrongness" so the contemporary setting works, but I was curious if there was any appeal to this in a different setting.

 

[liqueur]

I'm putting elements from this particular kink into a longer series and I was wondering how we feel about fantasy?

Not the corsets and knights fantasy, but the old-school Sword & Sorcery that came before D&D and Tolkien. I'm talking slave markets, orgies, and princesses wearing clothes made from smoke. A world where all sex is about power and control.

I've heard that the appeal is the "wrongness" so the contemporary setting works, but I was curious if there was any appeal to this in a different setting.

I don't really know what you're talking about. Are you talking about role-playing here on this thread? It would have no appeal to me, but— not my thread. Or are you talking about these themes in a story? That on the other hand, would appeal to me.

 

[Older_Pervert]

When I've been in that type of situation/role my man at the time has either arranged it or been present to ensure my limits and wishes are adhered to and that I have remained safe.

That’s what a Master is for

 

[SirSparky]

I'm putting elements from this particular kink into a longer series and I was wondering how we feel about fantasy?

Not the corsets and knights fantasy, but the old-school Sword & Sorcery that came before D&D and Tolkien. I'm talking slave markets, orgies, and princesses wearing clothes made from smoke. A world where all sex is about power and control.

I've heard that the appeal is the "wrongness" so the contemporary setting works, but I was curious if there was any appeal to this in a different setting.

This would work as a great story and possibly a group role play event

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

This would work as a great story and possibly a group role play event

Can I get involved

 

[Badxxxwifey]

This would work as a great story and possibly a group role play event

I wanna join!

 

[SirSparky]

I wanna join!

Me too.!!

 

[UncleJunior]

Wow. Didn't expect such a high turnout.

I guess we're building a system out of this?

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Wow. Didn't expect such a high turnout.

I guess we're building a system out of this?

We should. If anyone finds a suitable chat platform for this to happen

 

[cuckoldbill]

Just found this thread. Love it

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

Just found this thread. Love it

Hope my thread interests you. Glad to know

 

[spawnofdavey]

Interesting thread and interesting ideas.

 

[sexysluttyyyy]

I'd be happy if everyone here could organise a group chat and discuss more about making it happen. But just in a anonymous secret way. No details asked or shared.

 

[UncleJunior]

I don't really know what you're talking about. Are you talking about role-playing here on this thread? It would have no appeal to me, but— not my thread. Or are you talking about these themes in a story? That on the other hand, would appeal to me.

I was actually just considering a story, a novella series to be exact. It would follow the same format as the old Sword and Sorcery stories. No real continuity, more an account of the adventures that occur in this type of setting. Think the original Conan or the Arthurian Legends. There's no hard timeline, just a collection of stories.

I was wondering if the "being watched" kink still kinked et in a world filled with slave markets, sorceresses, and half-naked barbarians. The idea of a world where this would be commonplace intrigued me, but would the fact that it's commonplace kill the thrill?

I guess I'll find out since this is third on my writing list.

I'd be happy if everyone here could organise a group chat and discuss more about making it happen.

That said, writing an RPG is just writing the same story with rules so doing both isn't an issue.

I expected more yes/no responses and less hijacking the thread so I'll start the private group chat regarding the RPG. Just drop a message if still interested.

 

[Toffer_Guy]

Reminds me of a fantasy roleplay I did long ago about a young man who randomly gets an invite to an adult erotic party where everyone must wear a mask that is given that has a number printed on it. He shows up to what is basically a swingers club filled with people of various ages (21+). Some people. Are already naked or half naked, except the mask and fooling around where everyone can see. Some people watching and some casual like any other party.

At part of the night there is a lottery drawn. Couples are randomly paired by numbers and give a room. However, there are golden numbers drawn. They’re selected to perform in front of an audience in a small stage room. The 22yo guy finds himself matched with a sexy older woman. Getting to fuck this sexy woman with an audience and no one knowing who he is behind the mask. Letting himself go wild as she does. She really enjoys showing off for the crowd.

However, wouldn't it be wild if behind the mask she is a woman he knows from somewhere - relative, family friend, work, or teacher? Not finding out until after they’ve already done it. Given a private room to clean up or have some private fun after performing.