Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

OMG yes

I fooled around kissing guys when I was younger but never took it further. Now many years later I regret my reticence/ fear of rejection.
I now constantly fantasise about a nice smiley man with twinkling eyes to take me further than my dildos can.
 
I love to give oral to a but once in awhile, I would enjoy just sitting back enjoying myself watching her give to me. The eye contact is hot as she slowly sucks and licks.
 
Sucking off a totally straight guy is the best. I just keep going, even when they warn me that they’re about to cum. After I take their load they almost seem guilty. Too many years of being programmed by their woman not to cum in their mouth. If I put your cock in my mouth, I’m going to swallow your load. The bigger the load, the better!

Some cock-suckers complain about the guys 'who just want to lie back and close their eyes so they can pretend that they're getting sucked off by a woman'! To me, if the guy has a nice big cock, and he's happy to allow me to suck it for him, whatever goes on inside his head is fine by me, he can lie back and close his eyes and imagine it's Miley Cyrus sucking him off, or the checkout-girl at his local supermart, or his neighbors big-titted daughter, he can dream all he wants as I gorge myself on his stiff cock to my heart's content. Because, when he cums in my mouth, he knows for sure he's been given a class blow-job….

Well said 😎
 
I know there are lots of us that love to suck and swallow, need nothing in return. I do love getting sucked, but I love sucking so much more, love to bottom too. I'm definitely on the submissive side.
 
Oral sex doesn't do much for me.
In real life I give vaginal sex.
My fantasies here are of receiving anal sex in a feminine role, but apart from strapon years ago, I never have.
We Trans people can seem unusual. I do not find the image of two male-presenting guys having sex erotic at all. My mind is in a different place. If I did it for real, being talked to as if I were a "guy", or talking about my male genitals, would put me off instantly.
 
Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?

When I finally acted on my bisexual inclinations, I quickly discovered that I get so much satisfaction from pleasuring a man that I don't really care if he recriprocates or not. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one; the possibility of you getting a blow job isn't foreclosed at all.
 
Judging by the ads on sites like doublelist there are a lot more of us wanting to suck cock than those that want theirs sucked. There are no shortage of cocksuckers, most of us enjoy that more than receiving. Those I’ve blown, one offered recip, I declined. The other wanted to give hand job, also declined.
 
Of course,

one can suck and be sucked. But I agree, I'd rather have a cock in my mouth and feel it grow...
 
When I finally acted on my bisexual inclinations, I quickly discovered that I get so much satisfaction from pleasuring a man that I don't really care if he recriprocates or not. I'm pretty sure I'm not the only one; the possibility of you getting a blow job isn't foreclosed at all.

Exactly. When I spent three weeks with my transgender girlfriend, she had 31 orgasms and I had three. I would have been fine with none because I get so much satisfaction from making her cum. I was born to be her bottom.
 
Exactly. When I spent three weeks with my transgender girlfriend, she had 31 orgasms and I had three. I would have been fine with none because I get so much satisfaction from making her cum. I was born to be her bottom.

I would love to read about those three weeks!
 
I am not much into oral. I have had some great blow jobs, I just prefer other forms of male sex, like frot, or being fucked. I love kissing, too.
 

I would love to read about those three weeks!

Definitely worth a read Mr. hack. He pretty much lived my dream for three weeks.
 
I am not much into oral. I have had some great blow jobs, I just prefer other forms of male sex, like frot, or being fucked. I love kissing, too.

In all my decades of m2m sex, I have never came from getting a bj. I always had to jack off in their mouths if they had eat my cum. It is very pleasant, but simply not orgasmic. I think part of it is that men aren't nearly as good at oral as they think. For instance, many tire out after a few minutes and either start using heir hands for most of the shaft, or even worse, start to scrape with you with their teeth. I also never understood why they think just putting your head or the shaft only to the circumcision line is enough. Really? Imagine if when you fuck someone they only let you put your cock head in or only to the circumcision line. I think most guys would be VERY frustrated with it.

I cannot fuck anymore with my ED, but I dream of it all the time. There is nothing more bonding than actually being inside another man. Looking into his eyes as your cock is inside him, smelling him, listening to his breathing and sounds, feeling the heat of his body against yours, feeling his hairy body against yours. Then afterwards, hugging, kissing, and smelling your cum at his hole.

The only draw back to m2m sex in my mind is that you can love a man so much, but you can never make life together. I'm infertile, so I couldn't sire anyway, but if I had one wish it would be to create life with the man I love. I don't understand these guys who just want to get fucked (or suck) and leave. The only thing that calms my sex drive (even with ED) is to hang around that special man. I thank God every day for my partner who is the fist thing I see in the morning, and the last thing I see at night.
 
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