How do you like to be spanked?

Bare handed, over the knee, while my ass and pussy are played with. I like to feel the sting of a good hard spanking the following day.
 
With her hand but her hand usually starts to hurt before I can't it it anymore so I like the riding crop best.
 
On all fours , my wife tells me off for having a stiff cock and asks me to tell her what I am thinking about to get hard , she will then rub my cock and balls and spank me with her hand , all of which makes my thick cock even harder … being vulnerable on all fours , she can take advantage of me with her vibe against my arsehole , I groan “fuck me” and she eases the vibe into me , whilst still spanking my arse
 
I'm with you on the bare hand spanking. Ideally over the knee or some other slightly degrading position. Caning if the person is well trained in safety and the scene/justification is well executed. In my opinion caning is most pleasurable when already on the verge of subspace. Just as long as it's not a flogger, meh. A flogger has never done anything for me. (Anyone else?)

(I'm rambling to avoid writing a grad school paper, probably need a good spanking for procrastinating)

I enjoy a flogger. Caning is not for me, but a good spanking with a bare hand is nice too.
 
When we started me getting spanked, my wife used her hand. She stopped after about ten beats and said, that it hurts her hand more than my ass. So she changed to some kitchen tools.
Today she uses a riding crop, a paddle and a cane and spanks me very rough once a week until my buttocks are deep purple and my thighs full of welts. Spanking me makes her extremely horny and she demands oral service immeadetely afterwards.
I'd go nuts seeing a caged man at the beach!!
 
I like to be spanked with a bare hand and then my partner rubs my ass in between swats. I also like to be spanked with a wooden spoon. My favorite though is a leather belt. I meet A friend of mine once in a while for a spanking. He orders me to strip naked and bend over a chair. Then I hear the belt being pulled from his belt loops. Then he folds it in half and hits my ass all over. Soft at first and then gets harder and harder. It feels amazing !!
 
I like to be spanked with a bare hand and then my partner rubs my ass in between swats. I also like to be spanked with a wooden spoon. My favorite though is a leather belt. I meet A friend of mine once in a while for a spanking. He orders me to strip naked and bend over a chair. Then I hear the belt being pulled from his belt loops. Then he folds it in half and hits my ass all over. Soft at first and then gets harder and harder. It feels amazing !!

Hand. But I'd love to see how a belt feels.
 
Never been spanked, but would go with a hand to start off. Don't fancy a cane at all.
 
Otk

I like to be spanked OTK. She is wearing thigh-high stockings and I am naked. She uses her bare hand and when my ass is fairly red she has me stand up and lightly plays with my dick. After a short time, back over her lap and repeat. The pain/pleasure mix is amazing.

ES
 
While admitting I haven't been spanked since I was a small boy, my submissive nature is intrigued by the degradation I'm sure I'd feel were I to be spanked in my current state of chastity. Anyone take their medicine in a similar manner? My wife and I have never discussed if she'd consider reddening my ass, but I'm sure she'd welcome another opportunity to again prove she can outdo my mother!

As to how I might like to experience being spanked, the idea of a paddle seems too juvenile to me, at best reminiscent of college fraternity "rocks and socks" or my junior high shop teacher lovingly crafting paddles for the last full generation of teachers authorized at my school to apply the "board of education" to adolescent butts. Much more exciting is the thought of submitting to my wife's open hand - until, that is, I realized punishing me might actually hurt her hand more than it does my ass.

Of my remaining options, the thought of being caned is strangely exhilarating. Almost medieval, the procedure brings an exotic vibe which appeals to my sensibilities at this point in my life. I absolutely quiver at the thought of having my rear forcefully bared, not to mention hearing the sound of my voice as it counts each red welt being applied to my flesh . . .

Whether or not I could match the intensity level required is the real sticking point for me, but just considering the possibility is still incredibly hot.
 
The absolute best is with a belt, bent over a with my panties pulled down around my thighs. I love over the knee with a hand or paddle but when I’ve been really bad, I need to feel that sharp stink across my bottom and thighs.
 
I have only ever been spanked by hand and I loved how it felt, hearing the slap sound and felling the pain of the sting. I think the most arousing part was hearing him say how much he liked doing it and that he could see the handprints it left.

Given how much I enjoyed it I’d really like to try belts, floggers or whips too. I *think* I’d like to try a cane but by all accounts they are extremely intense, so that makes me feel quite nervous.

I suppose the answer to the question for me is ‘more experience needed’.
 
A few of my "friends" really get off on being spanked in front of others.

They don't have to always to be bare bottomed at the time. It could be at a bar, outside their car in a parking lot or whatever, in a window where people could see in, etc.
 
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