❓ PLP Inquires❓

[AveryElle]

02.24.20

I have a question that I cant quite phrase correctly. So take it where you want folks!

How important is the feeling of "specialness" to you in a relationship? That "I'm the only one who does x for her." "I'm the horror movie friend" or "I'm the one person he checks in with on the weekends" feeling.
Does feel less "special" make you feel less significant? Or are you good being one of the pack?

Again... rephrase and answer how you will!

In my primary relationship, I know I am special. I’m the mother of his child and do all the things. In my other important relationships? I never feel special. Would I like to? I guess...? I often feel less significant.

For friends, I know I’m the one they come to for venting. That’s not special, but I know it’s important. That’s apparently what I’m best for!

 

[Paul_Chance]

Appetizers any day.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

02.26.20

You must choose...

Appetizer OR dessert?

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team dessert

 

[gravinaux]

Mental age or chronological age?

04.29.19

Do you have a set age range when it come to your partners? Has Lit affected that age range? If you do, how did you create your boundaries? If you don't, why not?

At my advanced age (81) it has to be younger at least in outlook because the older always are complaining about their aches and pains. I prefer younger especially in mind, if not in body. Anyone of any age who is vibrant and alive, thinking of the future and not the past, living an active, real lifestyle as opposed to living vicariously through books, games and other means of living through other people's imaginations, those are the people that I am attracted to. Mentally I am much younger than I am chronologically. I look forward to my next birthday with joyful anticipation and I want to be with someone who has a similar outlook. I want to see what is over the mountain and around the bend. I don't have a bucket list because I want to see every place I have never been and even some places I have been before. Show me a woman who fits that description and her age doesn't matter. The stories in Lit have broadened my outlook and helped me to see what a limitation age range can be.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

02.24.20

I have a question that I cant quite phrase correctly. So take it where you want folks!

How important is the feeling of "specialness" to you in a relationship? That "I'm the only one who does x for her." "I'm the horror movie friend" or "I'm the one person he checks in with on the weekends" feeling.
Does feel less "special" make you feel less significant? Or are you good being one of the pack?

Again... rephrase and answer how you will!

I had a hard time asking - not surprised I'm having a hard time answering.

Simply put - I like to feel special to the people I think are special. There is a great feeling of importance and intimacy and respect when your somebody's somebody.

It can be romantic or because you have a band in common or because they were your first Lit friend. That something that makes you special and unique to your person.

Feeling easily replaceable is something I struggle with often.

 

[Dribble]

I had a hard time asking - not surprised I'm having a hard time answering.

Simply put - I like to feel special to the people I think are special. There is a great feeling of importance and intimacy and respect when your somebody's somebody.

It can be romantic or because you have a band in common or because they were your first Lit friend. That something that makes you special and unique to your person.

Feeling easily replaceable is something I struggle with often.

Shakes head...there can be only one PLP. Voted by her peers as the one member that makes this place better. You are special... even to those that dont know you.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Shakes head...there can be only one PLP. Voted by her peers as the one member that makes this place better. You are special... even to those that dont know you.

I agree. You’re very special.

Well... yall are very sweet. I'm not sure I agree.
Thank you.

 

[Mei5ter]

Shakes head...there can be only one PLP. Voted by her peers as the one member that makes this place better. You are special... even to those that dont know you.

And even more to those of us who do.

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

02.26.20

You must choose...

Appetizer OR dessert?

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Appetizer.

Any other answer is unacceptable, says the chunky fella.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

02.26.20

You must choose...

Appetizer OR dessert?

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Appetizers. Salty > Sweet for me.​

 

[hotwords229_A]

02.26.20

You must choose...

Appetizer OR dessert?

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I kiss after blowjobs.
I'm a dessert guy

 

[Mr_bogey]

Dessert but it's closer than it should be.

 

[Mr_bogey]

Depends what they are! I've been to places with delicious appetisers and awful desserts, and vice-versa. In general? Depends on the main meal!

Be more specific

While this is very true and I would choose the worst dessert ever over brussell sprouts, I just assumed my favorite dessert vs my favorite app.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

While this is very true and I would choose the worst dessert ever over brussell sprouts, I just assumed my favorite dessert vs my favorite app.

Idk... garlic roasted brussel sprouts are pretty fucking tasty.

But....

Cheesecake...

Sigh... life is so hard!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Idk... garlic roasted brussel sprouts are pretty fucking tasty.

But....

Cheesecake...

Sigh... life is so hard!

Which would you rather lick off a Litster's dick?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Which would you rather lick off a Litster's dick?

Is that the deciding factor?? Cheesecake

 

[hotwords229_A]

Which would you rather lick off a Litster's dick?

This could be the answer to all food related questions.
If you're not willing to lick it off a dick, did you really need it at all?

 

[AveryElle]

Which would you rather lick off a Litster's dick?

Definitely gin. Or Chilean chardonnay.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

02.29.20

Happy Leap Day! Let's talk about orgasms!!!

What makes some better than others? Can you pinpoint it? Is quality worth it or do you need to just bang one out sometimes? Do you remember your best ever orgasm??

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

02.29.20

Happy Leap Day! Let's talk about orgasms!!!

What makes some better than others? Can you pinpoint it? Is quality worth it or do you need to just bang one out sometimes? Do you remember your best ever orgasm??

Well, for me personally, the best orgasm starts with a solid blended orgasm. This, for me, is generally achieved by a man who is really good with his hands and knows me quite well. Stimulating all the best spots simultaneously, getting them all worked up. Clit, G-spot, A-spot, O-spot. Then, coupled with getting me right in the beginning of the orgasm, and reducing the pressure and pace to really drag it out and make it especially long until I go over the edge. Then finally immediately backing off quite a bit for 15 seconds or so, then starting it all again. Ends up one of those forget the world and your own name, head spinning, physically exhausting chains of orgasms. I can't point to just one time as being the best. I have been involved with two men who could both do this exceptionally well. One being my husband and one being an ex. It just comes down to being willing to invest the time and effort for a while, so there are many many times to compare. And yes, for me quality is worth it, but it is quite an effort on their part, and I'd imagine rather boring. Not like I am able to hold an interesting conversation or anything with the screaming, thrashing, and shaking, so it is not something I ask for or expect, and am happy with orgasms in general too.

 

[Mei5ter]

And yes, for me quality is worth it, but it is quite an effort on their part, and I'd imagine rather boring.

You have absolutely no idea what may be going on in a man's head during those minutes

In fact, that could be a whole thread of its own. What Do You Think About When Your Face Is Between Her Thighs For 45 Minutes?

 

[LurkingPhoenix]

You have absolutely no idea what may be going on in a man's head during those minutes

In fact, that could be a whole thread of its own. What Do You Think About When Your Face Is Between Her Thighs For 45 Minutes?

He's not wrong...

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

You have absolutely no idea what may be going on in a man's head during those minutes

In fact, that could be a whole thread of its own. What Do You Think About When Your Face Is Between Her Thighs For 45 Minutes?

You are absolutely correct. What I can say is that I'd be bored spending that much time between a chick's thighs. And my wrists would be hurting (carpal tunnel) Actually, that is probably what would be going on in my head. Trying to keep block out the pain as time went on in order to keep the finger strength and dexterity up. A movie or something would help. Honestly, I think the ex enjoyed it, he did it all the time, like every time. I think 9 times out of 10, hubby is bored. Then that 1 time out of 10 it amuses him and is like a personal challenge to see how many times he can make me cum. I like that 1 time out of 10

That would be an interesting thread lol. But don't you also wonder what we might be thinking one giving blow jobs?

 

[Mei5ter]

“Cum, already!”

Kidding. All sorts of things, depending on the man or the cock.
Once, when I was sucking my ex hubs, I stopped and asked him if he put the garbage cans to the curb.

And had he?

You can't leave out the punchline.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

“Cum, already!”

Kidding. All sorts of things, depending on the man or the cock.
Once, when I was sucking my ex hubs, I stopped and asked him if he put the garbage cans to the curb.

Haha. I will admit to pausing to ask for things. Either something I want in that sex session or just like permission to buy something or a request to go somewhere lol.

For me, I am all gung ho hoorah at first. Then the neck and jaw start to hurt and I try to focus on other things and it devolves to the Garfunkel and Oates bj song in my head.

https://youtu.be/DRAY1ObihcE