What Are You Thinking? Continued 5

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That's horrible.... ohhhh people.

This reminds me:

ANECDOTE:
Coworker told me that his grandmother passed a couple years ago, and his aunts and uncles came out of the woodwork who had NEVER been around to support her and his grandfather at all through her cancer or even prior to that. When she passed and named the grandfather solely in her will - they were pissed, and brought him to court over it and dragged his name through the dirt.

He allowed the four aunts and uncles to win the lawsuit, and they became wholely responsible for her estate in it's ENTIRETY.

Turned out - there was no assets. There was nothing but payments to be made, and debts to settle so they had to pay the funeral costs, e.t.c.

THE KICKER:
Grampy was rich and had seperated finances. He had no need for any money and could have payed any expenses at the drop of a hat. Just wanted to teach the greedy kids one last lesson. He was named in the will because she knew he was fiscally responsible to deal with the expenses.

if I remember correctly, he also hit them back for the legal fees after the fact as well.

MORAL:
Where there's a will... there's foul play.

It sounds like they got what they deserved. But the thing is... they could have just deserted the debt if there was no assets, right?

I mean, the funeral costs would go to the person who was contracted with the funeral home. That doesn't fall under the estate. At least, it didn't for me.
 
Same thing happen when my grand folks died. It’s sad. It’s also why I disowned all my kin. I don’t want those kinda people in my life. Shared blood or not I don’t care for them.
Sorry your going through that Chris. Just tell them all to fuck off and do you.

Haha That's why my phone is permanently on Do Not Disturb. I mean, it is what it is. I'll be alright, I think.

I just have to get my lack of motivation fixed.
 
It sounds like they got what they deserved. But the thing is... they could have just deserted the debt if there was no assets, right?

I mean, the funeral costs would go to the person who was contracted with the funeral home. That doesn't fall under the estate. At least, it didn't for me.

I believe the story went that they could have of course, because estate with unpaid debt, w/e....were it not for grampa winning the counter-suit roping them into paying for it after the fact along with the legal fees - That part I forgot to put in. Hard to remember it as well as he told it - but I think that's how he pulled it off. Grampa was a smart man.
 
I believe the story went that they could have of course, because estate with unpaid debt, w/e....were it not for grampa winning the counter-suit roping them into paying for it after the fact along with the legal fees - That part I forgot to put in. Hard to remember it as well as he told it - but I think that's how he pulled it off. Grampa was a smart man.

Did you ever hear what the follow up was? Were they pissed? lol
 
I love it when my friend sends me non-stop texts about Persona 5 Royal and I have no idea what the fuck she's talking about because I haven't played Persona 5 since 2016 and I don't speak fucking Japanese to be able to play the new one.

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Did you ever hear what the follow up was? Were they pissed? lol

I'm glad you asked.

They were FUMING.

So Grampa ends up paying all the costs for everything (because burial was time sensitive of course, couldn't await all this court crap, and he didn't feel right leaving the debts there, and he's got the money)

Upon the reimbursement (treasurers check) arriving from his no good kids, he tears it up into pieces and mails the pieces to the bunch of them. Again, it wasn't about the money.

I guess none of them ever did apologize throughout the whole process even once, which is why he ended it that way, instead of giving them all the money back.
 
It would be swell if an earthquake (or four) doesn’t wake me up in the morning. Two mornings in a row is plenty.
 
That handy man knocked for no reason and chatted me up for 15 minutes but lacked the balls to ask......haha
 
Things aren’t okay at the moment, but I’m trying so hard to focus on the positive, to look at the things I’ve been learning and achieving in my DIY endeavours. But I know the minute I get into conversation with anyone who scratches the surface it will cause the whole facade to crumble. So I isolate myself. During the time I just need a big fucking hug and for someone to tell me “hey, you know what? You do matter, keep on going”

I’m such a fucking loser.

I’m not after anything from anyone, just needed to throw my thoughts out into the world, to admit somewhere that things aren’t okay right now, and to offer some explanation to those who aren’t getting replies from me.
 
If your birthday is around this time of year, it's very likely because your parents got busy on Valentine's Day. Nope, I don't even wanna think about it...
 
If your birthday is around this time of year, it's very likely because your parents got busy on Valentine's Day. Nope, I don't even wanna think about it...

Hm... I guess my parents were really bored during a power outage due to hurricane season.
 
Things aren’t okay at the moment, but I’m trying so hard to focus on the positive, to look at the things I’ve been learning and achieving in my DIY endeavours. But I know the minute I get into conversation with anyone who scratches the surface it will cause the whole facade to crumble. So I isolate myself. During the time I just need a big fucking hug and for someone to tell me “hey, you know what? You do matter, keep on going”

I’m such a fucking loser.

I’m not after anything from anyone, just needed to throw my thoughts out into the world, to admit somewhere that things aren’t okay right now, and to offer some explanation to those who aren’t getting replies from me.

All this. I feel exactly the same sadly. Well except the only fillies bugging me want e-sex and I am not giving any to anyone. Haven’t before. Not gonna start now.
 
How good my life is and how none of it came by luck. You gotta work hard to find your spot.
 
It sure would be nice to get some help around here. I'm tired of picking up after everyone.
 
It sure would be nice to get some help around here. I'm tired of picking up after everyone.

That's no fun, I hope that your little guy learns how to help out more and that your big guy pitches in more as well.
 
The Happy Birthday thread this Nov 30th should be an absolute monster.
 
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