❓ PLP Inquires❓

[PrettyLilPussy19]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

 

[UgliestSon]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

No I am incapable of having those feelings but this is maybe the most brutal breakup song ever.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sfYpolGCu8

 

[AlwaysFara]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

Yes. My wedding song. The last time it came on the radio while we were still together, he changed the station.

I hate the song, now.

 

[AlpineFresco]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

No. Next

 

[Mei5ter]

No. Next

I think you mean...thank u, next.

 

[AlpineFresco]

I think you mean...thank u, next.

Do you? You'd be mistaken

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Do you? You'd be mistaken

Manners!
Also I'm not a question factory.

 

[Mei5ter]

Do you? You'd be mistaken

*logs out of Lit for One Last Time.

 

[AlpineFresco]

Manners!
Also I'm not a question factory.

You kind of are, though

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

*logs out of Lit for One Last Time.

That's my move!

<leaves forever>

 

[DarkSimian]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

I have come to associate a song(s) with every woman I've been involved with. So, yes, sometimes it becomes bittersweet hearing the song and thinking of them.

(this is for you Deb, wherever you are)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ByIYof4mqo

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

There are many songs that remind me of many people including exes. It isn't a situation where the intent of the artist was to evoke a certain emotions based on the lyrics of the song, but instead where the song evokes the memory and emotions from a time it was playing. It doesn't change the song. It makes me feel nostalgic. I enjoy the vivid memories, they often make me smile, or make me laugh, or make me feel the excitement of that moment. Sometimes it makes me curious about where they are now if they are ones that I have lost touch with. I am at least social media friendly with most though, if not still actually in touch. I enjoy the vivid flashes and thoughts of people and places that I haven't thought about in a long time.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

10.22.19 (suggested)
Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

There is a great deal of music that reminds me of ex's. Often, it is because that person was the one to introduce me to a particular artist or genre. Jazz and blues, The Pogues, Bauhaus, Kate Bush, Tori Amos. That doesn't really "change" the song for me, because I was not familiar with it before that person. It will always have that association. In those cases, it either remains a good memory or has become benign with time.

Occasionally, there is a song, or an artist, that I already love when I meet someone and either find out they are a fan as well or come to strongly associate the music with them. That doesn't necessarily change the music itself, but, for a while after the breakup, I get irritated when I hear that song or artist. I am bothered that something that used to have only positive associations now initially sparks a thought of something painful.

 

[AveryElle]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

My first ‘love’ made me a mix tape. Whenever I hear a song from it, I remember him. Not a good or bad reaction. More ‘awwww people made mix tapes then and it was so sweet’. Sappy.

 

[Sexybritches69]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

Head Like a Hole by NIN. I still love that whole album, but I couldn’t listen to it for a while without feeling sick to my stomach. Now it doesn’t affect me anymore. It only took 20 years...

 

[Apisto42]

Every Journey song. Can’t stand that shit.

Excuse me while I go put a screwdriver in my ear cause now I’ve got “Open Arms” playing in my head.

 

[beachbaby179]

I'm one of those people who relates everyone I know to a song. Every time I hear a song, a certain person pops into my head. Once you have "your song", that's it. With my ex, it's the Eagles - Wasted Time". Not sure I need to explain that one.

 

[UgliestSon]

No lie

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WszGQrPMnd0

 

[AveryElle]

No lie

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WszGQrPMnd0

Heeeeey someone else who likes them! Or, sort of...?

 

[Dribble]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

Every girl i dated...even once...had a song. They are all smiles. Isnt that the way it should be?

Here is a laugh...i bought the first Garbage CD 4 times. Each time a different girl ended up w it. WTF ? Must be shirley...she is hot as fuck

 

[Dribble]

Every Journey song. Can’t stand that shit.

Excuse me while I go put a screwdriver in my ear cause now I’ve got “Open Arms” playing in my head.

Saw them live the summer of 78 just before they made it big. I couldn't get high enough to make it good.

https://youtu.be/iz_AHHVc1-8

Pablo Cruise surprised the shit out of me.

https://www.advertiser-tribune.com/...her-local-amphitheatre-welcomed-musical-acts/

 

[AlwaysFara]

I'm one of those people who relates everyone I know to a song. Every time I hear a song, a certain person pops into my head. Once you have "your song", that's it. With my ex, it's the Eagles - Wasted Time". Not sure I need to explain that one.

How about me?

People always pick Ozzy for me.

 

[Suz_anne]

10.22.19 (suggested)

Is there a song that reminds you of an ex? How does that change the song? How do you feel when you hear it?

Never Tear Us Apart by INXS will always remind me of my first "serious" boyfriend in high school.

Now I fondly recall the melodramatics of young love when I hear that song.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Never Tear Us Apart by INXS will always remind me of my first "serious" boyfriend in high school.

Now I fondly recall the melodramatics of young love when I hear that song.

Love. This is one, too.

 

[Dribble]

Never Tear Us Apart by INXS will always remind me of my first "serious" boyfriend in high school.

Now I fondly recall the melodramatics of young love when I hear that song.

Omg...

This was my hair then...a little longer...and natural curls

https://youtu.be/F93ywiGMDnQ