Numi's boudoir

[numeniusa]

Skiing fun then snow angel time?

I have never actually made a snow angel. Except perhaps accidentally after a skiing fun fall

Would you pick me up and kiss it better for me if I fell?

 

[numeniusa]

Mmm, tell me more? Just what does the sexy Numi think it could mean... and is that naughty enough to move up the colour range... “slides that blue silk a little further”

Well, now, I thought I'd better look up 'spank chart', just to be sure. Somehow, my search was translated to 'Spanx size chart'. *shudders* Those are not sexy, not sexy at all. Ugh.

It's probably time I changed out of my blue silk. Want to help?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Well, now, I thought I'd better look up 'spank chart', just to be sure. Somehow, my search was translated to 'Spanx size chart'. *shudders* Those are not sexy, not sexy at all. Ugh.

It's probably time I changed out of my blue silk. Want to help?

Can I watch?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I’ve been a bit absent these last days, a bit off my textual game

So here’s a picture instead. Another from the blue phase...

http://i.imgur.com/q6Myszm.jpg

So unbelievably sexy!

 

[numeniusa]

Can I watch?

You'll have to check with Lucy

So unbelievably sexy!

Why, thank you!

 

[tnman03]

I do think that you run out of energy when the 'finishing post' comes into view somewhat, it's a psychological thing, I reckon.

A bit like going for a simultaneous orgasm, one of you hanging on 'til your partner is ready too. You think you can't, you're sure you're going to tip over the edge, just five more seconds, five more....

Hmm...timing is everything isn't it? A change of tempo, distractive word or touch. But the feeling of your lover peaking and releasing with you is indescribable.

 

[papadoc19]

I have never actually made a snow angel. Except perhaps accidentally after a skiing fun fall

Would you pick me up and kiss it better for me if I fell?

You know I would

 

[numeniusa]

Hmm...timing is everything isn't it? A change of tempo, distractive word or touch. But the feeling of your lover peaking and releasing with you is indescribable.

Yes! Exactly. I wonder if you have to know your lover to achieve this. Or if it is indeed possible with someone you've never fucked before. I think the former rather than the latter - you have to be able to read the signals and synchronise your own pace, I'd say.

It's not something I'm keen to do every time. Partly, I think, because it is something you have to focus to get spot on, rather than abandoning yourself to the building and then the sensations of your own orgasm. But also because I like to enjoy my lover's orgasm too in all its glory too

 

[numeniusa]

You know I would

I might need arnica rubbing on my bruises, too. Gently...

I don't think I fell last year when I was skiing. I remember that I fell once the year before because I was daydreaming about something suckonsimon had posted in my previous boudoir. I can't remember what it was, but a moment's inattention, a patch of ice, and I was gone...

 

[hairball18]

I have never actually made a snow angel. Except perhaps accidentally after a skiing fun fall

Would you pick me up and kiss it better for me if I fell?

I would hope you were sore everywhere, but only until a kiss made it feel better.

 

[numeniusa]

I would hope you were sore everywhere, but only until a kiss made it feel better.

Just a kiss? Might take more than that to distract me properly...

 

[tnman03]

Yes! Exactly. I wonder if you have to know your lover to achieve this. Or if it is indeed possible with someone you've never fucked before. I think the former rather than the latter - you have to be able to read the signals and synchronise your own pace, I'd say.

It's not something I'm keen to do every time. Partly, I think, because it is something you have to focus to get spot on, rather than abandoning yourself to the building and then the sensations of your own orgasm. But also because I like to enjoy my lover's orgasm too in all its glory too

Your correct in observing the need to be inside your partners headspace and attuned to each others bodies. That's best achieved with a long time lover. But I'll say a somewhat older and more experienced lady once totally surprised me during the course of a single night spent together. I still think of her occasionally.
I agree that just losing yourself in the shared sex act and enjoying a good bout of energetic intercourse without any thoughts beyond the moment are spectacular.

 

[hairball18]

Just a kiss? Might take more than that to distract me properly...

The kiss would be to make it feel better. After that, it is for pleasure.

 

[numeniusa]

Your correct in observing the need to be inside your partners headspace and attuned to each others bodies. That's best achieved with a long time lover. But I'll say a somewhat older and more experienced lady once totally surprised me during the course of a single night spent together. I still think of her occasionally.
I agree that just losing yourself in the shared sex act and enjoying a good bout of energetic intercourse without any thoughts beyond the moment are spectacular.

That's a great memory to have I bet she still thinks of you, too.

This is going to sound terribly smug, I fear, but one of the things I like and appreciate about sex within a long-term relationship is that variety. This time, abandoned, energetic fucking, that time, more slow sensual exploration, the other time trying something more ... complex. I know 'variety' is probably not a word people associate with a LTR, but that's how I find it.

 

[numeniusa]

The kiss would be to make it feel better. After that, it is for pleasure.

I should warn you that the 'hurty place' is most likely to be either a hip (not ... unsexy, I'd venture?), or an elbow (not sexy at all... ).

 

[tnman03]

That's a great memory to have I bet she still thinks of you, too.

This is going to sound terribly smug, I fear, but one of the things I like and appreciate about sex within a long-term relationship is that variety. This time, abandoned, energetic fucking, that time, more slow sensual exploration, the other time trying something more ... complex. I know 'variety' is probably not a word people associate with a LTR, but that's how I find it.

I completely agree that the right kind of LTR offers endless variety if both partners are actively engaged in continued exploration rather than compliancy. Perhaps its nonsensical of me to believe but our sexuality exists as much outside of the bed as within it sheets. Keeping the low edged thrum of excitement buzzing is a part of a LTR lasting.

 

[numeniusa]

I completely agree that the right kind of LTR offers endless variety if both partners are actively engaged in continued exploration rather than compliancy. Perhaps its nonsensical of me to believe but our sexuality exists as much outside of the bed as within it sheets. Keeping the low edged thrum of excitement buzzing is a part of a LTR lasting.

Well, they do say that the biggest erogenous zone is the one between our ears... That why Lit works too, I guess.

Also, 'thrum' - that's a fantastic word!

 

[tnman03]

Well, they do say that the biggest erogenous zone is the one between our ears... That why Lit works too, I guess.

Also, 'thrum' - that's a fantastic word!

Sometimes my long lost musical background unexpectedly creeps its way into what I say or write I guess.

And yes…if it weren’t for the nuances of sexual filtration and interpersonal explorations of same there’d be no purpose in places such as lit. The varied levels of engagement herein are subject to how ones imagination guides them

 

[hairball18]

I should warn you that the 'hurty place' is most likely to be either a hip (not ... unsexy, I'd venture?), or an elbow (not sexy at all... ).

Kissing is touching.

 

[Deleted member 3321814]

Hello?

*knocks on the door*

 

[papadoc19]

I might need arnica rubbing on my bruises, too. Gently...

I don't think I fell last year when I was skiing. I remember that I fell once the year before because I was daydreaming about something suckonsimon had posted in my previous boudoir. I can't remember what it was, but a moment's inattention, a patch of ice, and I was gone...

*Gently massages*

 

[numeniusa]

Sometimes my long lost musical background unexpectedly creeps its way into what I say or write I guess.

And yes…if it weren’t for the nuances of sexual filtration and interpersonal explorations of same there’d be no purpose in places such as lit. The varied levels of engagement herein are subject to how ones imagination guides them

Yes, it seems to me to be a 'something for everyone' sort of place. There are parts I don't venture into, things I choose not to do, things which are beyond agreed limits, and I'm sure that list is different for everyone. But there's much here I enjoy very much, and which has enriched my life in subtle and not so subtle ways. *wiggles eyebrows enigmatically*

And it's such fun to flirt with like-minded people

 

[numeniusa]

Kissing is touching.

Oh yes. Touching, with lips *shivers*

 

[numeniusa]

Hello?

*knocks on the door*

Good evening *curtseys* How polite of you to knock, I'm sorry I wasn't here to welcome you, I've been out and about doing fun things with family peeps today.

But you are welcome

 

[numeniusa]

*Gently massages*

Ooh, nice. Very nice...

In the interests of full disclosure, I haven't actually fallen over yet, but do carry on.