Numi's boudoir

just me dropping by and thanking you for the kindness on that other thread!

i'm doing a lot better but still not quite over his passing, but with your kindness it definitely helps sooth that sadness. :kiss::rose:
 
just me dropping by and thanking you for the kindness on that other thread!

i'm doing a lot better but still not quite over his passing, but with your kindness it definitely helps sooth that sadness. :kiss::rose:

Hey, G. :kiss: I'm glad you're doing better. Time can sooth, and in time the good memories can be the ones which are uppermost.

I see your plant still hasn't grown any... ;) :D
 
On the 'Zumio'

(First posted on Tink's excellent Toy Talk and Review thread. Well worth a visit if you're considering a purchase, or want to share your own experience of something.)

http://couples-sex.toys/images/images/CoupleSexToys/A-Zumio-Clitoris-Stimulator.jpg

I do like direct stimulation of my clit, and can enjoy quite strongly vibrating toys, but this gave me a bit of a start! The round end is quite tiny, maybe 5mm across, the whole thing looks a bit like a dental implement of some kind. It vibrates very strongly at the tip. It has several speeds, but no 'modes', which is just to say it's either buzzing or it's not. It's very quiet.

It's been a little difficult to master. After the first try, I went back and read the instructions (rtfm.... :D). There's a suggestion in there as to how to use the 'stem' first, rather than going straight in with the round tip, and for movements to kind of sneak up on the clit so it doesn't get too much of a shock. That all works very well. :devil: Lots of lube is good, too, whether natural or out of a jar/bottle.

The other way in which this toy really delivered for me is when I rode my man and simultaneously used it from above. It was less direct, I think, in this mode of use, and I've usually cum at least once before we get to this position, so everything is warmed up nicely. The tip being so small, it's very easy to get it in position despite all the other stuff going on, and I could keep still and work on that while he thrusted from below, very satisfying all round. Haven't tried it in reverse cowgirl yet, but I think that would work just as well.

More recently, my man tried using the Zumio on me after massaging me in front of the fire with fragrant oils. The fragrant oils are not especially relevant to the use of the Zumio, but it reminds me that as he oiled my back, I told him it didn't matter if he got it in my hair, because I was going to wash it the next morning anyway. His response? "Er, the massage oil, or....." *grins*

Anyway, so there I was, lying on my front, all relaxed after the massaging. And quite oily... :) He parted my legs and introduced the Zumio gently to my most sensitive parts. Very good sensation, difficult to wield it in that position, there was no visual access at all, so it had to be negotiated by vocal response only. Which was cool. :cool:

Still haven't attempted reverse cowgirl plus Zumio...
 
Yes, it seems to me to be a 'something for everyone' sort of place. There are parts I don't venture into, things I choose not to do, things which are beyond agreed limits, and I'm sure that list is different for everyone. But there's much here I enjoy very much, and which has enriched my life in subtle and not so subtle ways. *wiggles eyebrows enigmatically*

And it's such fun to flirt with like-minded people :devil:

Flirtation is a nuanced means of communication historically documented in prose lasting times relentless onset. I believe its at its best when subtle and worst when relentlessly continued when unwanted. You have a fine grasp of the art. :):rose:

I also read your review on the Zumio. It looks very tool like. ;)
 
Flirtation is a nuanced means of communication historically documented in prose lasting times relentless onset. I believe its at its best when subtle and worst when relentlessly continued when unwanted. You have a fine grasp of the art. :):rose:

I also read your review on the Zumio. It looks very tool like. ;)

:kiss: I strive every day to perfect my art :cool: Well, maybe not every day. :eek:

It does look like some sort of dental implement, doesn't it? Mind you, I always think those Hitachi wand things everyone raves about look like a wood sander. Which puts me off hugely, I will admit.

Do you like toys in intimate situations, Mr TN?
 
Where are your favorite spots? ;):kiss:

I like the back and shoulder massage, just for the sensation. Very relaxing. But it's when the hands start to slide lower that it gets ... interesting :devil:

I wonder how many male masseurs are asked for a 'happy ending'... Just, er, asking for, um, research purposes... :D
 
:kiss: I strive every day to perfect my art :cool: Well, maybe not every day. :eek:

It does look like some sort of dental implement, doesn't it? Mind you, I always think those Hitachi wand things everyone raves about look like a wood sander. Which puts me off hugely, I will admit.

Do you like toys in intimate situations, Mr TN?

I agree on the Hitachi looking like an oversized sander or modern day torture device but it seems to get great reviews. :)

And yes I do like toys in intimate situations with a winsomely willing partner. I believe that they are a useful accompaniment to the total experience and increase attentiveness. :):cattail:
 
I agree on the Hitachi looking like an oversized sander or modern day torture device but it seems to get great reviews. :)

And yes I do like toys in intimate situations with a winsomely willing partner. I believe that they are a useful accompaniment to the total experience and increase attentiveness. :):cattail:

People do say it's awfully noisy, though. I have a vibe which I call 'the drone', because that's exactly what it sounds like! Fine if you're alone, but I wonder how much sound travels through a hotel wall :eek:

What would be your go-to toy?

(Are you up very early today? It's barely lunchtime here!)
 
Hey Numi :kiss:

Just popping in to say hello :) How's tricks?

Hey, Brains! :kiss: Things are good, thank you, dry here today, might even pop out for a bike ride after lunch :)

How are you? You seem much restored. When your flirt comes back, that's always a good sign!

So - shorts on or off today? :devil:
 
Hey, Brains! :kiss: Things are good, thank you, dry here today, might even pop out for a bike ride after lunch :)

How are you? You seem much restored. When your flirt comes back, that's always a good sign!

So - shorts on or off today? :devil:

Oh a bike ride sounds good! I haven't ridden for years sadly.

I'm good thank you. Back to my usual annoying self apparently. :p Still in pain, that'll never go but I'm trying to combat it differently!

My shorts are on but there's nothing underneath.

Why did the tune "Swing Low, Sweet Chariot" just pop into my head? ;)
 
Oh a bike ride sounds good! I haven't ridden for years sadly.

I'm good thank you. Back to my usual annoying self apparently. :p Still in pain, that'll never go but I'm trying to combat it differently!

My shorts are on but there's nothing underneath.

Why did the tune "Swing Low, Sweet Chariot" just pop into my head? ;)

Been. Back now. I was rubbish. Limped round twelve miles... I blame the headwind.

"Swing Low, Sweet Chariot"... What a picture you've put in my head now... :devil:
 
Been. Back now. I was rubbish. Limped round twelve miles... I blame the headwind.

"Swing Low, Sweet Chariot"... What a picture you've put in my head now... :devil:

Still, twelve miles is better than eleven!

Haha, well I'm glad I've managed to bring the devil out to play! :D
 
Still, twelve miles is better than eleven!

Haha, well I'm glad I've managed to bring the devil out to play! :D

Of course, I'm sure things, er, 'swing' better in the warm summer temperatures. *grins* Relaxed summer balls, and all that ;)

Maybe we should take some baseline measurements now. For later comparison ;)
 
Of course, I'm sure things, er, 'swing' better in the warm summer temperatures. *grins* Relaxed summer balls, and all that ;)

Maybe we should take some baseline measurements now. For later comparison ;)

I hope you have warm hands because you'll be doing the measuring!
 
Well I haven't got shorts on at the minute, so measure away. Can you add an extra inch when you make your final measurement?

I'll slip you £5 later. ;)

Inch? Inch? Oh no, we're all metric now :cool:

That's never true, the metric thing, is it, in *coughs* these sorts of measurements? I have absolutely no idea what my bra size, waist, hip etc would be in centimetres. :rolleyes:

The shorts came off since I went out? :eek:
 
Inch? Inch? Oh no, we're all metric now :cool:

That's never true, the metric thing, is it, in *coughs* these sorts of measurements? I have absolutely no idea what my bra size, waist, hip etc would be in centimetres. :rolleyes:

The shorts came off since I went out? :eek:

Well I'll measure you! I have this uncanny ability of finding out the measurement in centimetres using just my hands. *nods*

Well I can't stay dressed ALL day you know? :D
 
People do say it's awfully noisy, though. I have a vibe which I call 'the drone', because that's exactly what it sounds like! Fine if you're alone, but I wonder how much sound travels through a hotel wall :eek:

What would be your go-to toy?

(Are you up very early today? It's barely lunchtime here!)

Hmm? I don't know on a go to toy so I'll impatiently wait for wiser recommendations. :)

Yes, I was up entirely to early only sleeping an hour or so and sleep later caught up to me again so I napped. :eek:
 
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